Chifukwa anali kuima molakwika, kusokoneza ndi anthu ena. Kamodzi pa nthawi anthu ankachita pafupifupi kuvina kwa mwambo pamsonkhano. Tsopano izo zimalowetsedwa ndi nkhono ya mutu wa mutu (amuna amathanso kugwira chipewa ndi manja awo) - uwu ndiwo mwambo ku Ulaya. Kum'maŵa, komabe, amakondana kwambiri, ndipo m'mayiko ena, mu Japan, amadziweramanso. Koma ndizo zomwe zisasinthike m'mayiko onse - chikhumbo cha msonkhano wa thanzi, m'mawa, madzulo kapena madzulo. Pankhaniyi, pali chidziwitso chonse cha moni. Mwamunayo amalemekeza mkaziyo, wamng'ono - okalamba, wogonjera - mtsogoleri. Kwa munthu wosadziwika (makamaka ngati wamkulu kuposa iwe) atchule dzina lake-patronymic. Atakumana mu ofesi ya mnzako, mwaulemu mokwanira kuti adandaule: "Madzulo abwino", akumwetulira pang'ono. Mu malo osalongosoka ndi abwenzi, moni monga "Moni", "Patsani moni" amaloledwa.
Ochedwa ndi oyamba kulandira alendo omwe adasonkhana kale. Kuthamanga ndi interlocutor, yang'anani m'maso mwake.
Kulandiridwa mwa njira yoyamikirira ngakhale kamwana kakang'ono, mwachitsanzo, pamene munatumizidwa ndi menyu kuresitilanti kapena mumathandizidwa kuvala chovala. Tsoka, si onse omwe ali ndi khalidwe labwino kwa anthu ogwidwa bwino. Kafukufuku amene akatswiri ena anapeza anasonyeza kuti anthu a ku Kiev anali ena mwaulemu ku Ulaya. A 60 peresenti ya Kiev amaika chitseko, ndipo wothandizira mmodzi yekha wachiwiri akuyamika chifukwa cha kugula (m'masitolo ang'onoang'ono "zikomo" iwo amanena mobwerezabwereza - pamakhala chiwerengero cha ulemu ndi makhalidwe abwino 30%). Ogulitsa amawayankha mofanana. Koma sizachabechabe zomwe akunena kuti mawu okoma kwa kamba ndi osangalatsa. Musamangokhalira kuyamikira, koma apo ndi ena adzalandira!
Kwa mphatso ndi thandizo mungayamikire kachiwiri - munthu yemwe adakupatsani mphatso kapena chisomo, zidzakhala zabwino ndi zabwino. Mwachitsanzo, patapita kanthawi, tchulani kukambirana komwe mumakonda kwambiri kapepala kameneka kapena kuti mumakhutira ndi kulondola kwa uphungu woperekedwa ndi mnzanu.
Makhalidwe abwino ndi oyenera ndi oyamikira kuposa momwe "ndikuyamika"? Perekani kubwezerani mphatso yaying'ono. Wothandizira bizinesi akhoza kuitanidwa kukadyera. Kumbukirani kuti zikomo ziyenera kukhala panthawi yake. Nenani, mutalandira khadi la positi la tchuthi, yesani kuyankha ilo pasanathe masiku awiri.
Khalani okoma mtima ...
Pempho lanu lonse, ngakhale lopanda phindu, liyenera kukhala limodzi ndi mawu akuti "chonde", "Ndikufunsani", "khalani okoma mtima" ndi makhalidwe ena abwino kwa anthu ogwidwa bwino. Ndiye simungathe kukana. Pali chinyengo chochepa: kupewa zolakwika, mwachitsanzo "Kodi iwe", "Usakhale wokoma mtima kwambiri." Ubongo wa munthu umakondwera kwambiri ndi mawu abwino: "Kodi chonde mungandichitire ine chisomo?" kapena "Chonde ndithandizeni kuti ndisankhe ...".
Mawu ofunika kwambiri amatsenga ndi makhalidwe abwino pamene mukufunikira kusintha. Komabe, monga lamulo, kupepesa kokha sikokwanira - inunso muyenera kufotokoza chifukwa cha zomwe mukuchita.
Musapemphe chikhululukiro kupyolera mwa anthu ena. Ziribe kanthu momwe mungaganizire mozama, khalani olimba mtima ndi kupepesa nokha. Ndipo ndi zofunika kuti tichite izi mwamsanga.
Ngati ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu, musayesere, kupepesa, kutembenuza chirichonse kukhala nthabwala, mwinamwake izi zidzakhumudwitse wokambirana. Kutha kuchepanso ndi chifukwa chopepesa, ndipo izi sizigwiritsidwa ntchito pokhapokha kumisonkhano yamalonda, komanso kuyendera.
Ndi bwino kukhala chete kusiyana ndi kulankhula
Mawu okoma ayenera kukhala oyenera. Nthawi zina, chete zimakhala golide. Musabwereze nokha. Mutha kutero ndikuyamika chifukwa cha maluwa, koma osati "zikomo" pakhomo lililonse lotseguka - ingonena nthawi imodzi. Brevity ndi mlongo wa talente. Kuntchito, peŵani mawu monga: "Ndikhululukireni mowolowa manja, musati muchite." Anthu alibe nthawi yowamvetsera.
Gwirani nthawi
Musanayambe kumudodometsa wina yemwe akupempha kapena kupepesa ndi khalidwe labwino, ganizirani ngati ndibwino kuti woyimilira wanu amvereni tsopano. Tiyerekeze kuti, ngati akuyankhula pafoni, ndi bwino kutenga cholembera kuchokera pa desiki yake, ndikupempha chilolezo ndikuthokoza ndi manja chabe.