Zikumveka zogwira mtima. Kodi tiyenera kuyimirira bwanji pamene wachibale kapena anzathu akuyamba kuyankhula za kuti chirichonse "sichimafanana ndi anthu"? Kodi mungatani ngati wina amene akukhala pafupi nanu sakugwirizana ndi moyo wanu? Ndiroleni ine ndizindikire kuti zizoloŵezi zanu zachilendo ndi zokondweretsa, zosankha "zotsutsana" - sizomwe zimakhala zovuta ndipo sizingatheke. Zimakupangitsani kukhala osangalala - tsiku lililonse zimakhala zabwino komanso zosangalatsa. Funsani achibale anu ngati ali okonzeka kutenga udindo pa moyo wanu. Nanga bwanji ngati iwe ukudzipatula wekha mwayi wawukulu, ngati potsutsana ndi papa iwe upite kukagwira ntchito kuti ukhale wolimba mmalo moyamba kupanga ntchito pawekha? Inu muli ndi ufulu wochita zolakwitsa. Zopindulitsa kwambiri zomwe timaphunzira kuchokera kwa zomwe takumana nazo. Mwinamwake muzaka zochepa inu mudzakhala otsimikiza: anthu ozungulira anali m'njira zina molondola. Ndiye inu mumayankhula za izi ndi kuyankhula. Chabwino, tsopano mukufuna kusankha ngozi. Bweretsani chitsanzo cha anthu odziwika bwino omwe adakumananso ndi kusamvana. Onse adayenda okha, osamvetsera zowononga. Kuvala tsitsi kwa amayi pang'ono, komwe kunayamba kuvala Mademoiselle Coco Chanel, kamodzi kunkawoneka ngati wonyenga. Ndipo chiyani? "Neformalku" Koko tsopano amapembedza ndikuvomereza dziko lonse lapansi.
Ndi malamulo ake. Ndikofunika kuti zilakolako zisapsere. Banja lanu kapena abwenzi anu akhoza kuopa kwambiri ngati atasankha, mwachitsanzo, kuti wagwera muzoipa za wina. Anthu ozungulira akuyenera kuwona: Simunaiwale za iwo ndipo simukuchokapo, ngakhale kuti mukukumanga moyo wanu mofanana ndi iwo. Kodi anthu omwe akukuzungulirani sakuvomereza mmene mumakhalira? Ganizirani kuti malingaliro a anthu akusintha, ndipo nthawi ndi woweruza wabwino pazitsutso za momwe angakhalire. Kodi mumatsimikiza kuti munasankha njira yoyenera? Ndiye pitani patsogolo!
Kodi ndinu munthu wochitapo kanthu? Kodi mukuganiza kuti njira yabwino kwambiri ndi "kutenga nawo mbali pankhondoyo, kenako tidzawona ..."? Tidzakuthandizani kusankha chomwe chili pafupi ndi inu - zochita kapena ziwonetsero. Iwe ndiwe "wotchedwa aorist" wamba! Ntchito yanu ndiyo kufufuza, kufanizitsa mfundo, kupeza mgwirizano. Anzanu ndi mabwenzi anu pachabe akudikirira ntchito zanu ndi zomwe mwachita. Koma, mutangoyang'ana mu blog yanu pa intaneti kapena kulankhula ndi mtima wanu pa kapu ya khofi, iwo amakondwera ndi kuthawa kwa malingaliro anu. Chabwino, ngati inu munathe kupeza ntchito kwa moyo, pambuyo pa zonse, theorist wangwiro ndi mbalame yosawerengeka, ndipo osati abwana aliyense amadziwa momwe angalankhulire naye. Nthawi ikakhala yochepa - mutachitapo kanthu, pamafunika kusanthula mwachidwi - mumaganizira za vutoli. Mungathe kusintha momwe zinthu zimakhalira komanso kudziwa momwe mungakhalire osiyana. Sizowonjezereka kuti mukhale wotsogolera ku kampani yaikulu, ngakhale simukukhala pa ngodya. Chifukwa cha makhalidwe awa, nthawi zonse mumakhala pafupi ndi anthu osangalatsa.