Malangizo 1. Lekani kupereka uphungu . Izi ziri choncho pamene mmodzi wa atsikana, akudziyesa yekha wochenjera kapena wolondola, amapereka malangizo, amaphunzitsa ena. Makamaka, zimakhudza zomwe ndizochita mu izi kapena izi, chinachake choyenera kusankha, kugula kapena ayi, mwachibadwa, wachiwiri wa atsikanawo amamva kuti ndi otetezeka ndipo amangoletsedwa , monga zidzamuwoneka kuti popanda thandizo la bwenzi lake, sangathe kusankha yekha. Pano pali kudalira kwina kwa munthu wina, amene sangathe kulekerera konse. Ngakhale pangakhale vuto lina pamene chibwenzi chidzakhumudwitsidwa ndi uphungu uliwonse kuchokera kwa wina wa iwo, chifukwa adzatha kuthetsa vutoli kapena vutoli yekha. Pamapeto pake, mulimonsemo, pali lingaliro la kuchotsa chibwenzi choterocho, chomwe chimatsutsana ndi cholinga chokhala mabwenzi abwino.
Malangizo 2. Dziwonetseni nokha kuchokera kumbali zonse . Ngati muli ndi abwenzi ambiri pakati pa atsikana, kaya ali mabwenzi kuyambira nthawi zamchenga kapena posachedwapa, mukhoza kusonkhanitsa makampani awa pamalo amodzi. Misonkhano yotere ingakuthandizeni kudziwonetsera nokha ku mbali inayo yonse. Pambuyo pa zonse, mudzakhala ndi maganizo osiyana kwa aliyense wa iwo. Popeza kuti muli ndi bwenzi la nthawi yaitali mumakhala otsimikiza kwambiri, osanena za anthu atsopano, omwe angakhale abwenzi ndi ntchito. Kuti mukhale mabwenzi apamtima, nthawi zina misonkhano yodabwitsa, zochita, zatsopano ndi malingaliro ndizofunikira.
Malangizo 3. Yesetsani kukhala odzipereka. Girlfriend, ndithudi, tikufunikira mu nthawi yovuta: kufuula, bata, bwerani ku malingaliro anu. Ndipo izi ndi zachilendo. Ndikofunika kuyesa nthawi zonse kumvetsera, kuthandizira ndi kuthandizira, zomwe ziyenera kubweranso. Musati muziimba mlandu, ngakhale ngati mukufunadi kuchita zimenezo. Ndipotu, ndife anthu onse ndipo ndife achilendo kuchita zachilendo kwa anthu, zolakwika. Ndi bwino kumupatsa uphungu, momwe mungakonzekeretse zonse ndikuzikhazikitsa. Pokhala mabwenzi apamtima abwino, ndibwino kuti muzisangalala ndi bwenzi lanu, ziribe kanthu kuti muli ndi nsanje bwanji. Ndipo kawirikawiri, kuti mukhale mabwenzi apamtima, nthawi zambiri muyenera kusiya khalidwe loipa ili. Yesetsani kudziphunzitsa nokha kuti muzisangalala ndi chimwemwe ndi kupambana kulikonse kwa bwenzi lanu.
4 malangizo. Perekani chidwi kwa mtsikana wanu . Ngakhale mutakhala otanganidwa kwambiri, mulibe mphindi yaulere ngakhale kwa banja. Munthu wanzeru, wokwanira, wokondwa, wowona mtima, wokoma mtima, wokoma mtima nthawi zonse akhoza kupanga nthawi yake m'njira yosasamala chidwi cha chibwenzi kapena abwenzi. Pambuyo pa zonse, kuti mumvetsere kwa bwenzi lanu lapamtima, simukufunikira kupereka mphatso zake zamtengo wapatali. Mungathe kupanga chisangalalo chosayembekezereka, chitani bwenzi zomwe sangachite kwa nthawi yaitali, mwachitsanzo, ntchito yosavuta ndi zinthu. Ngakhale sms-ka yosavuta kumvetsa akhoza kudabwitsitsa chidwi bwenzi lanu lapamtima.
5 malangizo. Khalani ngati kusukulu . Muzinthu zokhuza zakukhosi kapena zautali, nthawi ya sukulu kapena koleji, inu munkawonana wina ndi mzake mobwerezabwereza, mumakumana, mumayankhula, mumaseka, mumalira ndikuseka. Susowa kuti mutuluke nthawi imeneyo pamene mudayandikana. Ndikofunika kuyesa kukonzekera masiku olowa limodzi, ngakhale kamodzi kamodzi pa miyezi sikisi. Ndipotu, n'zoonekeratu kuti tsiku lililonse simungathe kuwonana, aliyense ali ndi banja lake, moyo wake ndi moyo wake. Ndipo ngati simudziwa kale, ndiye kuti nkofunikira kutenga misonkhano ngati misonkhano, misonkhano, kucheza. Khalidweli lingalimbikitse ubwenzi umene ukuyambabe ndipo udzakulolani kukhala mabwenzi kwa nthawi yaitali.
6 malangizo. Pezani zofuna zodziwika . Atsikana omwe ali ndi chidziwitso chachikulu sayenera kukhala ndi vuto pazofuna zawo, zomwe akhala nazo kale kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipotu, n'zosavuta kukumana ndi anzanu, omwe alibe chidwi chofanana. Kuti mupeze anzanu atsopano pakati pa atsikana, muyenera kuyang'ana poyang'ana, poyang'ana poyamba pazofuna zanu. Ndithudi inu mumakonda chinachake kuti chigwirizane, chitha masewera, kusambira kapena china, ziribe kanthu. Kumalo aliwonse mungapeze mnzanga wokondweretsa, yemwe pambuyo pake angakhale bwenzi lapamtima. Ndizosadabwitsa kuti muli ndi chibwenzi pa ntchito, mumangoyamba kukamuitana kwinakwake pamalo okondweretsa onse awiri. Kwa amayi achichepere ayeneranso kukhala opanda vuto popeza anzanu atsopano, mumsewu mungathe kukomana ndi mayi yemwe ali ndi vuto lomwelo. Inde, ndipo mumakhala ndi nkhani zosangalatsa zokambirana ndi zokambirana nthawi zonse. Chifukwa moyo wathu suima, zonse zimasintha nthawi zonse. Anthu omwe akuzungulirani amasintha, ndipo pakati pawo mukhoza kukomana ndi mnzanu watsopano, yemwe mungayambe naye ubwenzi wautali ndi wamphamvu.
Malangizo 7. Yamikirani chibwenzi . Ngakhale mutakhala ndi mzanga wakale ndi wokhulupirika, musayese kupeza malo ake. Inu simukutha kuzipeza bwinoko. Ndipo ngakhale sangakuvomerezeni pazifukwa zina, nthawi zonse anali pafupi, anathandizidwa ndi kuthandizidwa. Phunzirani kuyamikira zomwe muli nazo tsopano. Pofuna kumvetsetsa momwe mungakhalire abwenzi, muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungamuthandizire. Ganizirani zochitika zonse zomwe zachitika kuchokera kwa bwenzi lanu, kuyesera kumvetsetsa ndi kuzindikira momwe mungachitire mu izi kapena izi. Pomwepo mungathe kuzindikira momveka bwino za zolinga zake ndi zochita zake. Yesetsani kumuchitira ngati mlongo, wokondedwa komanso munthu wina pafupi ndi inu. Ndiye, mwinamwake, mudzakhala ndi bwenzi lenileni.
Msungwana aliyense akhoza kudzipeza yekha bwenzi lapamtima, muyenera kungoyang'ana nokha kuchokera kumbali ndikuwona ena mwa inu mofananamo, ofanana ndi makhalidwe aliwonse a mtsikana wamkazi.