Maonekedwe a mwana m'banja nthawi zonse amakhala osangalala, koma nthawi yomweyo ndi udindo waukulu. Uku ndikuwonjezerapo mavuto ndi maudindo ambiri, komanso kusintha kwachizoloŵezi m'banja, ndi zambiri, zazikulu ndi zazikulu kusintha.
Nthawi zambiri, makolo amakonda kuchita zonse malinga ndi malamulo, kuti adziwonetse okha komanso onse omwe akuzungulira kuti ndinu kholo wabwino . Ndili ndi nyimbo yovuta, amayi ndi abambo atopa, ndipo mwanayo adakali bwino, koma watopa kwambiri, wokhumudwa komanso wolefuka. Adadi amapita kuntchito, osagona mokwanira. Ndipo amayi anga amachita ntchito yake yozungulira -kudyetsa, kuyenda, masewera olimbitsa thupi, kusamba, kutsuka, kutsitsa, kuyeretsa, kuphika ... Ndikufuna kugona monga nthawi zonse, kugona kumakhala kovuta.
Musadzipangire nokha "kavalo wothamangitsidwa" . Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti izi sizingapitirizebe - konzekerani gulu la banja mwamsanga. Ganizirani za malo ndi zotani zomwe zingatheke, ndipo, kudalira izi, zimabwera ndi malamulo atsopano a banja lanu.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati watopa, ndipo mwanayo sanawomboledwe - samvetse thaulo ndi sopo! Chotsani kusamba mpaka mawa. Mwana wanu samagwira ntchito kumangidwe, sizonyansa kwambiri. Ganiziraninso za nthawi yoyenera yosamba - mwina izi zidzakhala madzulo pamene mwamuna abwera kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito ndipo ali ndi mwayi wokuthandizani? Taganizirani mmene mwana wanu akumvera, ana ambiri amatopa kwambiri poti madzulo amatha kusamba ndi kuzunzika. Kenaka ndi bwino kusamba mwanayo madzulo kapena madzulo. Ndiponso, onetsetsani kuti mukugwirizanitsa ena ku vutoli. Kodi bwenzi lake lachezera kwa iye? Wamkulu, amuthandize!
Ngati chimbudzi sichimafuna kusambira nkomwe - ndiye nthawi iliyonse, yesani kusambira kwambiri! Ana onse amakonda kusamba ndi makolo awo. Chinthu chachikulu ndichokusambitsuka kusambira ndi kusamba.
Sikoyenera kuyesetsa kuti zikhale zabwino - izi sizingatheke! Musati musambe mbale - ziribe kanthu, mukasamba mtsogolo. Osati zovala zowonongeka, nayonso, zikhoza kudikira - pambuyo pake, izi sizovala zotsiriza zomwe muli nazo komanso zovala za ana. Musakonzeke zakudya zokoma - simuli kwa iwo tsopano, kuphika mbale mophweka, kwa masiku 2-3. Mwa njira, zipatso ndi ndiwo zamasamba, zowonjezera zomangamanga ndi zakudya zina zowonjezera zikuthandiza.
Musataye thandizo la alendo! Thandizo la ena kwa banja limene kuli mwana wamng'ono ndilofunika, osati chofooka. Pamene mukuyenda ndi mwana wanu panja, mulole achibale ndi abwenzi kukhala oyera, zitsulo, kuphika, kutsuka, ndi zina zotero. Inde, iwo, osati mosiyana. Inu tsopano mukufunikira kuti mukhale mpweya watsopano, chifukwa ichi ndi chitsimikizo cha thanzi. Ndipo ngati muli ndi thanzi labwino, mutha kukhala wathanzi komanso mwana wanu, koma kodi ichi ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri? Mwa njira, simukuyenera kuyenda kumalo omwewo. Moyo suwoneka wowala ndi wosangalatsa - kusintha njira.
Ngati mwana wanu akugona patsiku - ponyani ntchito zanu zonse ndikugone. Ngati simugona tulo, ndiye kuti mupumule pang'ono. Ndipo palibe "sindikumva chisoni"! Kwa amayi oyamwitsa, kugona ndipamwamba kwambiri cha lactation enhancer. Ndipo ngakhale ngati simukuyamwitsa, ndidakali chikhalidwe chanu chosakhwima ndi chokhumudwitsa kuti mwanayo amamverera mwachibwana, ndipo apitsidwira kwa iye. Zotsatira zake - zovuta zimakhala zosadziwika, zomwe zimakupangitsani kutopa kwambiri. Kotero pakubwera mzere wozungulira.
Palibe chifukwa choganizirira molakwika! Lingaliro lakuti pamene mwanayo ali wamng'ono, mayi alibe ufulu wodzisamalira yekha ndi kusangalala - zolakwika kwenikweni! Zoonadi, tsopano muli ndi nthawi yochepa kwa inu nokha, koma musaiwale nokha ndikunyamulidwa mukusamala za mwanayo. Aloleni mwamuna azisewera pang'ono pang'onopang'ono mpaka mutapanga manicure ndikugwiritsa ntchito maski kumaso. Ponena za zosangalatsa - ndithudi, simungathe kupita kulubwalo la usiku, koma kukhululukira zachilengedwe ndi kupita kwa alendo sikuletsedwa konse. Ndipo kuti mupite ku nyumba yosungiramo zinthu zakale kapena paki pakati, mutha kuwathandiza kuponya kapena kangaroo.
Musataye mtima! Pezani njira yeniyeni yeniyeni payekha kwa banja lanu, sankhani njira yomwe ingakhale yabwino kwa inu, ndipo mwamsanga mudzawona kuti moyo ukusavuta kwambiri!