Inu munakumana ndi munthu-wachifundo, wofatsa, wochenjera ^ Chokhacho chokhacho - iye anasudzulidwa. Kodi ndi bwino kumanga ubale ndi iye?
Malingana ndi chiwerengero, m'dziko lathu kuchokera pa mabanja 100 mpaka 70 kumathera pa chisudzulo. Ndipo kotero mwayi woti mukumane ndi munthu wakale wa banja pa njira yake ya moyo ndi yaikulu kwambiri. Pazifukwa zina, chiyembekezo chimenechi chikuwopseza anthu ambiri. Musaope! Ngati banja lake lakale litalephera, sizikutanthauza kuti chiyanjano chanu chidzatha monga mwachisoni.
Zofooka zake
Mukakumana ndi mwamuna wosudzulana, musamu ... mumutonthoze, ngakhale kuti akusowa. Ndikhulupirire, ichi sichoncho chabwino. Mwina adzakuusiyani atangopulumuka panthawi yomwe munthu akuvutika maganizo, kapena ngati mutakhalabe ndi "chovala" ... Ndikuyesera kumupulumutsa ku chirichonse - kuledzera kapena nsanje. N'kulakwitsa kuganiza kuti mkazi wake anali kulakwitsa chinachake, sanayamikire, sanamvetse, ndipo anafika pa izi, ndipo mukhoza kusintha chirichonse. Ndikhulupirire: simungasinthe munthu.
Ndi bwino kuti usalowe mu moyo. Ngati munthu sangathe kupulumuka, adzapwetekedwa ndi mafunso ngati amenewa. Zikhoza kutsekedwa kapena, makamaka, zidzakhala zofunikira kuti tilankhule momveka bwino zapitazo. Mulimonsemo, mudzakhala "kunja kwa bokosi". Ngati kusudzulana kuli kwa iye kale, iye adzaseka kapena, poipira, adzakwiya.
Khalani mayi ake.
Amadya soseji ndi pasitala ndi zidzukulu, amayenda mu zinthu zowonongeka bwino? N'zoona kuti ndi bwino kusonyeza ngati mayi wabwino wa nyumba, koma musafulumire kukalowa. Choyamba mupeze yemwe inu muli kwa iye.
Mphamvu
Azimayi ena amakhulupirira kuti amuna osudzulana ali bwino kwambiri kuposa omwe sanakwatirane, chifukwa ali odziwa zambiri. Ndipo izi ziri ndi choonadi chake.
Wakale wa banja amakhalanso wodekha pokhudzana ndi zowawa za amayi. Iye amadziwa bwino kuti ndi masiku otani omwe ali ndi kumvetsa kuti pakali pano mkaziyo akhoza kuchita mosayenera. Anali ndi chidziwitso ndi apongozi ake ndi apongozi ake, omwe ndi ofunika kwambiri.
Ankazoloŵera kuthamangira kunyumba pambuyo pa ntchito, osakhala ndi abwenzi mu bar. Anali atadziwa kale kuti malipiro sayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito payekha, komanso pa banja. Mosiyana ndi asing'anga, amadziwa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito mawu oti "Palibe chovala" ndipo "pakatha mphindi zisanu adzakhala okonzeka." Iye watenthedwa kale pa nthawi zotere ndipo tsopano ayesa kuti asabwereze zolakwa zomwezo.
Inde, iye, mwanjira ina, adzakufananitsani ndi "wakale." Koma pachiyambi mudzakumbukiranso amuna anu.
Iye si nyamayi wanu. Thawani kwa iye, ngati iye ...
1. Nthawi zonse amalankhula za mkazi wake wakale: "Tinapita naye ...", "Adanena kuti pano pali sushi yabwino mumzindawu." Mwachiwonekere, iye akadali wogwirizana kwambiri ndi iye. Ndipo mwinamwake iye sadzaiwala konse.
2. Nthawi zonse amadandaula za iye: "Ndi mkazi wamisala, wolemera, woipa, sanandimvetse." Ngati akunena za mkazi yemwe anali wokwatiwa, ndiye kuti mutha kuyembekezera zomwezo.
3. Amati mwamuna ndi amene amachititsa kuti athetse banja. Iye safuna kuvomereza zolakwitsa zake, koma zonsezi zimagwirizana nawo.
4. Iye sawona ana ake kuchokera m'banja lake loyamba ndipo sawathandiza iwo pachuma. Chabwino, kodi iye ndi ndani pambuyo pake?
Kuti ubale wanu ukhale wapamwamba, nthawi zonse mverani pempho ndi zopempha zake. Ndipotu, anthu onse - monga amphaka, nthawi zonse sakhala okonda komanso okoma mtima. Choncho, chowonjezera caress, musalepheretse. Muzilemekeza mwamuna wanu, ndipo ndithudi mwachikondi. Kuonetsetsa kuti mwamuna wanu kapena bwenzi lanu lachibwana nthawi zonse amakuchitirani chikondi ndipo sanayambe kukuuzani za inu, ngakhale mutathyola, ndinu olemera komanso oipa. Muyenera kutsata maonekedwe anu nthawi zonse, chifukwa ngakhale panyumba muyenera kuyang'ana zosavuta ndi zokoma. Phunzirani kukhala bwino!