Ngati chirichonse chiri chabwino mu moyo wanu wapamtima, ndipo mnzanuyo amatha kupereka zosangalatsa pang'ono kuposa nthawi yoyamba, musaganize kuti zidzakhala zamuyaya. Kugonana ndi kufufuza nthawi zonse ndi kuyesa. Kukhazikika mu ubale wapamtima umadzaza ndi "maulendo kumbali" (ndipo ichi ndi choipa chochepa), kapena kusokoneza chiyanjano.
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Ogwirizanitsa padziko lonse amachenjeza za kuopsa kwa "zizolowezi" pabedi. Amalangiza kuti asiye malingaliro achinyengo, kudzichepetsa ndipo nthawi zambiri amayang'ana m'masitolo akuluakulu, monga RussianSexShop.com. Koma ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi (kapena wina wa zibwenzi) sali okonzeka "kusewera" mu chikhomo ndi zidole, khalani ambuye ndi kapolo kapena yesani ma afrozodiacs onse, kenaka mugwiritse ntchito njira yatsopano yogonana, karetsa, yomwe ndi "moni" kuyambira m'ma 60, x ya zaka zapitazi.
Apa ndiye kuti katswiri wa chiwerewere wa Italy, Dr. Alice Stockham, anapereka ... njira yopezera kudziletsa. Ayi, ayi, musadandaule, palibe yemwe akukupatsani inu kudzipangira masochism chifukwa cha kusowa kwachisokonezo. Koma kuti asokoneze chilakolako, amaiwala zazing'ono, kugona ndikugona ndi lingaliro la wokondedwa uyu ndipo ngakhale pambuyo pa zaka makumi ambiri mutakhala pamodzi kachiwiri kuti mulowe mu chisangalalo cha karetsa chithandizira. Kotero ndi chozizwitsa chotani, chimene mu Russia, tsoka, pafupifupi sakudziwa kanthu? The Italians ndi anthu okonda kwambiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake njira yotsatiridwayo imadziwika kubwereranso ngakhale anthu akuluakulu pa nthawi ya unyamata, pamene kugonana kunali kosafuna, ndi chikhumbo-chosadziteteza. Koma ngakhale atsikana ambiri-anyamata sanachite nawo chibwana (mawu osadziwika kwa mnyamata, sichoncho?). Komabe, mwamuna ndi mkazi wamkulu angagwere "kugonana," akumbukira zokhudza zogwira mtima, kumpsompsona pamasaya, kapena zozizwitsa (zosangalatsa) zowonongeka ndi "malo osiyana" a mnzanuyo. Kuperewera kwachisokonezo, monga chikondwerero cha chisangalalo ndi kuyembekezera kwa nthawi yomaliza - kugonana kwachinyamata wachinyamata, mothandizidwa ndi otsatira karetsa.
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Tiye tikambirane nthawi yomweyo kuti tibwerere kwa banja lomwe tinakhala limodzi kwa zaka zambiri, koma "kudandaula" kugonana, zimatenga masabata 3-4. Panthawiyi, ngati kuti sindikufuna, koma simungathe kuthetsa kugonana! Pankhaniyi, m'pofunika kusunga zinthu zitatu:
- Kugonana pokhapokha mutakhala ndi maganizo auzimu;
- m'masiku "achikulire" kuti asiye chibwenzi;
- kuonetsetsa kuti mphamvu zowonongeka (ulamuliro wa "chikhumbo cha zilakolako").
Choncho, mfundo yoyamba ikhoza kufotokozedwa mwachidule - chiwerewere sichiri chiyambi chogona, koma kutha kwa chikondi chamadzulo. Pachifukwa ichi, mukhoza kuyendayenda mumsewu wamadzulo (masana) pamodzi. Kapena kudya chakudya kunyumba, ndi nyali. Kapena ngakhale kulembetsana kalata yachikondi (tiyeni mu mawonekedwe apakompyuta). Kapena tumizani SMS zosakwanira: "Ndimakonda, ndikudikira, ndikufuna!". Mwa njira, zikanakhala zabwino ngati "maluwa a chilakolako", ana, akhala ndi agogo awo tsiku lino kapena akugona mokwanira kwa ola limodzi.
Ndi ndime yachiwiri, zonse zimaoneka ngati zomveka. Koma ngati mumakhulupirira za kulera, monga anthu a Kummawa ku Buddha, ndiye mutseke maso anu kuti muwonetse nambala yachiwiri ndipo muzitha kugonana mofulumira. Mufunseni, ngati pachimake sichoncho, n'chifukwa chiyani mukusowa kondomu? Inde, mukudziwa, ngati mutha, koma mwadzidzidzi simungathe kupirira: lingaliro, ndithudi, ndilobwino, koma moyo ndi wochuluka ... Zozizwitsa kwambiri, zozizwitsa ndizopita, ndime yachitatu. Mlembi wa njirayi amatanthawuza lingaliro la "chikhumbo cha zilakolako" monga mkhalidwe wamaganizo pamene palibe mphamvu zowonjezera. I. pamene kugonana kwaokha (ngakhale podnadoevshih wina ndi mzake) sangathe kuthetseratu. Pamene kudziletsa mwadzidzidzi kuchokera kumapeto kwa zokondweretsa zokondweretsa sikutheka. Ukadzakula, koma padzakhala phokoso! Laski amene adasiya kudziletsa ndi kugonana komwe kumapangitsa kuti banja likhale lopitirira, limachepetsa chiwombankhanga komanso limapatsa chisangalalo chokhazikika. Musandikhulupirire? Ndipo iwe uyesere! Muwonongeke tsiku limodzi kuchokera ku chikhalidwe choyipa kwambiri ndipo nthawi zonse mukhalebe okwatirana omwe ali ndi chilakolako chogonana: kuyesa komwe kungathandize achinyamata kuti azisangalala ndi kugonana.