Kusalongosoka
Kodi vuto ndi chiyani? Izi zimachitika kuti amuna amanyalanyaza malingaliro anu za ukhondo ndi dongosolo. Iwo samachita manicure, iwo amavala malaya omwewo kwa masiku awiri mzere ndikusiya mbale zakuda pansi pafupi ndi masokosi obalalika. Kodi ndizofunikira pamene mukuwona chonyaditsa chodabwitsa ndi pini yomwe ikukonzekera kuti mumutsatire mukutsata nyumbayo? Kodi mumamva bwanji mukamawona masokosi pansi, osakanikirana ndi zakudya zamakono ndi magazini? Mwinamwake, chokhumudwitsa: munthu samayamikira kuyesetsa kwanu kuti asunge nyumbayo. Ndipo nthawi yomweyo mumatha kuganiza molakwika: sikugwirizana ndi ukhondo - zikutanthauza kuti sizimakonda.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Zosakayikira zidzatha kumveka pamutu ngati tikulankhula za zomwe takumana nazo ndi wothandizira za zomwe akunena ndikuonetsetsa kuti samatuluka chifukwa chakuti malamulowo ndi achiwiri kwa iye, osati chifukwa chakuti anasiya kukukondani. Tangoganizirani zosiyana-siyana - munthu amafunika kukhala wosayeretsedwa, ndipo mumayandikira mafunso okonzekera bwino. Ndi chiyani chophweka - kukhala wonyansa kapena wopyolera? Zonsezi sizili zovuta, koma mukhoza kuvomereza malamulo omwe inu nonse muwawona.
Umuna
Nchiyani chikuchitika? Iye akhoza kuthera pafupifupi malipiro ake onse pa chithandizo chatsopano ndipo kuyambira tsiku lomwelo amasiya kuponyera masokosi, chifukwa sangangowatulutsa - sizosangalatsa pamene chikondwerero chiri m'manja mwake. Zimakukhumudwitsani kukula, koma satero. Inu mukuganiza kale za ana ndi ndalama, ndipo iye ali mu malingaliro ake omwe akukhala alendo komanso oganiza.
Choyamba, muyenera kuvomereza kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi mwana wamng'ono mpaka ukalamba wake - ndicho chifukwa chake amakonda kukonda zidole, zida, magalimoto. Ndipo mwa njira, chifukwa cha kudzidzimva kwa ana ndi kulimbitsa mtima, zambiri zomwe asayansi amapeza zimapangidwa ndi chikhalidwe cholimba. "Ngati zikuwoneka kuti ubwana ndi wokondedwa pampando, ndiye kuti muubwenzi pali hyperopeak, chifukwa maudindo awiriwa amathandizana." Ngati izi zikumveka ngati zoona, yesetsani kuphunzira momwe mungayankhulire ndi theka lanu lachiwiri pamtunda wofanana, ngati mnzanu, osati kukwapula kapena kuwonetsa.
Ntchito Yamuyaya
Mukuyitana, amatenga foni, akunena kuti adzabwezera, koma sachita kwa ola limodzi. Inu mumasankha nambala yake nokha, koma imagwetsera. Kenako amabwera kunyumba pambuyo pa usiku. Mwachibadwa, mukuganiza kuti sanali pamsonkhano uliwonse, koma ndi mbuye. Ichi ndi chifukwa choyamba chimene chimayambitsa maganizo m'mabambo. Koma ngakhale pamene kulingalira kumagonjetsa, nsanje idasungidwabe, koma osati kunthabwala kodabwitsa, koma kuntchito weniweni yokha - ndi yofunikira kuposa iwe? Ndipo komabe, kuvomereza, pang'ono ndi nsanje kuti iye amamukonda kwambiri iye, ndipo inu mulibe phunziro loti muzikonda.
Tiyenera kuvomereza kuti amuna nthawi zambiri amakhala ovuta kwambiri pa bizinesi lawo kuposa ife. Kwa iwo, ichi ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri pa moyo, njira yodziwonetsera. Khulupirirani iye ndipo musandipangitse kuti ndipite nanu ku vetti, chifukwa bwanamwali dzulo adadodometsa! Ntchito ya munthu wina nthawi zambiri imakhala yokhumudwitsa pamene pali nthawi yosakhutira. Chitani ntchito yanu, zokondweretsa, banja, abwenzi - chilichonse chomwe chimapangitsa moyo wanu kukhala wolemera komanso wosangalatsa. Ndiye madzulo mmalo mwazinthu zomwe amakonda amakonda kumva nkhani yanu yokhudza tsiku lapadera.
Kudzikayikira
Ndondomeko monga "Sindikudziwa choti ndipereke bwanji tsiku la kubadwa kwa amayi anga", "dzipange nokha kuti tidzakhala ndi mgonero" kapena "Sindinaguleko mkate chifukwa sindikudziwa ngati muli ndi mankhwala ochepetsetsa". Zimakhumudwitsa, chifukwa atsikana ambiri ali otsimikiza , kuti munthu weniweni ayenera kudziwa mayankho a mafunso onse! Pamene akunena chinachake chonga icho, tsogolo lanu lopweteka limakuwoneka pazithunzi - muli kunyumba ndi ana asanu, akuitananso kuchokera ku sitolo ndikufunsa kuti: "Mwana, tagula mkaka ndi mafuta 3.2% kapena 3.5%?" "Mnyamatayo anati" mnyamatayu anachita. "
Choyamba, zomwe mumadzitcha kudzikayikira zingakhale chizindikiro cha chikondi chachikulu (akufunsani chifukwa akufuna kuti muzikonda), chizindikiro choopsa cha kusakhulupirika (mantha osasangalatsa) kapena kutopa kwa banti (kodi mungasankhe chodyera?) . Mphamvu ndi chidaliro zomwe ayenera kusonyeza kuntchito, ndi abwenzi komanso ngakhale nthawi zina ndi amayi ake. Yesetsani kuyang'ana kufooka ngati chizindikiro cha kudalira, ndipo mwina sichidzakhala chokhumudwitsa.
Kukana ndalama
Iye ali kale, msonkhano umenewo umagawaniza lamuloli kuti mudye chakudya chodyera pakati. Inu, ndithudi, mukukana lingaliro lakale ndi lochititsa manyazi kuti "amene amadya chakudya, iye amavina", koma mawu amkati amapereka zizindikiro za alasi - imodzi yayitali, itatu yayifupi. Simukukhulupirira kuti iye ndi woopsa. Zikuwoneka kuti malamulo a malamulo ndi zamakono zamakono ndi maimidwe amakono, koma izi sizikugwirizana ndi chikondi.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Choyamba, muyenera kukhala woona mtima. Ngati mukuganiza kuti munthu yemwe ali ndi zolinga zenizeni sayenera kulola kuti mayi azichita nawo phindu la zosangalatsa ndi chakudya, ndiye nenani chomwecho. Pambuyo pake, akhoza kugawana nawo udindo wanu, koma ngati mutamva zosiyana, adzachita mantha kukukhumudwitsani. Nkhani za bajeti nthawi zambiri zimakhala chopunthwitsa komanso awiriwa. Ndipo pano, inunso muyenera kukambirana ndi kukhazikitsa malamulo.
Sungani zosangalatsa
Amamvetsera nyimbo zapakhomo, ndipo bambo anu ochokera ku tchire amaphunzitsidwa ku thanthwe lachikale. Pamene mukukumanga paradaiso kunyumba ku khitchini, akuphatikizapo "Koma ndikuziika pamtima, pitani ku famu yamagulu, mugwe pansi." Pambuyo pake, mkati mwako Mick Jagger akukulangizani kuti muwatsanulire wotsutsa a thiva ku moto wamatsuko otentha. Mwina mukuwopa kuti abwenzi adziŵa za izi (za chikondi chake kwa Dontsova, wothandizira). Lingaliro ndi lochititsa manyazi - koma lofala. Timaona okondedwa ngati gawo lathu, choncho zokopa zathu ndizo zathu. Ndipo iwo ndi opusa! Musayese kumutsutsa munthu kuti Dontsova sali mbuye wa mawu, ngati ntchito zake zimamukhudza kumtima kwake. Ingokupemphani kuti musatchuleko mawuwa kwa anzanu. Vomerezani kuti adzamvetsera nyimbo ya headphones kapena mulibe. Zoonadi, kusangalala kwa theka lachiwiri sikungokhala ndi zokondweretsa zomwe zimakukhumudwitsani. Yesetsani kupeza chinachake chomwe chimabweretsa mkati mwake pafupi ndi Yagger wanu wamkati - mwinamwake ndikuyenda kapena kuphika. Ngati simubwera ku mgwirizano wamtendere, simudzaiwala zomwe zimayambitsa maganizo a amayi.
Nsanje
Kodi mawu awa osadziwika kuchokera foni yanu ndi ndani? Nchifukwa chiyani mawonekedwe "ntchito" amabwera pambuyo khumi? Chifukwa chiyani seketi lero ili lalifupi kwambiri? Munali kuti pakati pa 17:15 ndi 17:28? Zonsezi poyamba zimasangalatsa, ndiyeno zimayamba kukhumudwitsa kwambiri. Nsanje yamphamvu ndi chidaliro sizigwirizana ndi zinthu, ndipo inu, ndithudi, mukukhumudwa.
Choyamba, tangoganizani kuti iye sali wansanje konse ndipo sasamala yemwe mumayankha pambuyo pa pakati pausiku komanso chifukwa chake mukupita ku tsiku lake lobadwa. Kodi mudzamva kuti mukukondedwa? Chachiwiri, yesetsani kumvetsa mmene akumvera ndipo musamayankhe mafunso ovuta (zomwe zikuwoneka kutsimikizira kuti ndinu wolakwa) - njira iyi idzalimbikitsa nsanje.
Manyala
Nthawi zina zimatipanga ife kukhala zinthu zawo. Ndipo nthawi zonse sizosangalatsa. Zikuwoneka kuti ngati mukufuna, ndiye kuti simukuyenera kuzindikira, osadzinyoza zonyansa zanu, zolephera zanu. Kotero, iye sakonda - inu mwachidule mwachidule! Ndipo nthawi zina zimangochititsa manyazi kuti simungathe kuseka. Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Ngati nthabwala sizichita manyazi, ndiye chinthu cholondola ndicho kuseka. Ndipo konzekerani pasadakhale zochitika zambiri zobwezera. Kuchokera, zimakhala zovuta kuti amayi azipindula bwino, koma ndife okongola ndipo sitifunikira kuyeza ndi anzathu apamtima kukula kwa magalimoto! Mwamuna wokhala ndi chisangalalo ndi mwayi. Mutha kusokonezeka mosavuta. Mkwiyo ndi kumverera kosabereka: yemwe wakhumudwa amakhudzidwa kwambiri kuposa zomwe zimamuchitikira. Thandizani masewera ake!
Osati Achiroma
Amamiliyoni amamuna amaiwala kuti tikufunikira kusamalira nthawi ya maluwa. Lachisanu ndichinayi la mwezi wa Feliyumu ndi lachisanu ndi chitatu cha Marichi sioti iwo ali maholide, koma amawona zonyansa zopanda mphatso popanda chifukwa. Inu, ndithudi, mukuganiza kuti iye adayamba chifukwa cha chikondi ndi inu - chabwino, ankakonda kupereka maluwa, kukumbukira nthawi komanso kumpsompsona asanatuluke kuntchito.
Inde, sanasiye kukonda. Koma nthawi yomwe ili pansi pa dzina "palibe tsiku popanda zodabwitsa" idatha. Ndipo tsopano ndikofunika kuyesetsa kusunga chikondi mu maubwenzi. Zimakhala ndi chifaniziro - poyamba ndi zangwiro, ndipo pakangopita zaka zochepa zimatenga ola limodzi kuti asachoke pamtunda. Yesani kubwera kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito ndi gulu la maluwa - msiyeni iye aganize kuti akufuna. Mpata woti mphatso zidzakumbidwa pa iwe pambuyo pawonetsero, ngati chipale chofewa mu February, sichiri chachikulu, koma ndi njira yabwino yothetsera zokambirana za kuti simukukondana. Mwamuna yemwe ali mu chibwenzi chokhazikika nthawi zambiri sawona kufunikira kwa kusonyeza malingaliro, chifukwa iwe ukudziwa kale chirichonse - amakukonda iwe. M'malo momangokhalira kudandaula, ndi bwino kupita kwa iye ndi kunena kuti: "Mvetserani, ndimasowa chikondi, ndagula maluwa!"
Limbikitsani mitala
Ziribe kanthu momwe amuna aliri okondana, chidwi chawo kwa akazi ena chikhalabe chamoyo ndi champhamvu. Izi zimawonekera m'njira zosiyanasiyana: wina amawonera zolaula kapena amayerekezera kuwerenga magazini a amuna. Anthu ena amawayang'anitsitsa ena pomwepo. Zoonadi, choyamba chimachitika ndi kutaya madzi kapena madzi ena otentha omwe amadziwika kuti ali ndi chidwi. Zikuwonekeratu kuti khalidwe lake limabzala mwa iwe mbewu yosatsimikizika - kuposa momwe blondes zithunzi ziliri bwino? Zikuwoneka kuti munayamba kumukonda.
Khala pansi! Kuphwanyika komanso kuthamanga mofulumira pazenerawo amai amaliseche siwowopsya kuposa woyandikana naye zaka makumi asanu ndi awiri. Ndipo ngati mwamuna samvetsera atsikana okongola, zimayambitsa kukayikira. Tikukulimbikitsani kuti muzitsatira mfundo zenizeni, osati zongoganiza: "Ngati mukufuna kutaya chinthu cholemetsa payekha, pamene akuyang'ana kukongola kwake, atenge mpweya ndikuganiza kuti:" Koma akadali nane. " Ndipo fufuzani zomwe zachitika chifukwa cha chiwawa chanu? "