Kunja - kwambiri ngakhale kanthu, palimodzi ndi anzanu sali otayika. N'zoonekeratu kuti angathe kulankhulana. Koma ndi bwino kuti mnyamata uyu akhale ndi mtsikana, kapena atsikana pang'ono, zosangalatsa zimayamba. Izi ziri, mosiyana, - palibe chimene chimayambira konse. Iye ali chete, ndipo ngati atsegula pakamwa pake, ndiye kuti anene zopusa zoopsa. Monga ngati IQ inachepa kwambiri kawiri kapena katatu. Akuyesera kuti ayamikize, koma nthawizonse amalephera. Kapena amayamba kuseka mochuluka - pa ziphuphu, kukula kwa phazi kapena choipa kwambiri. Mwina dzina lotchedwa "wokondedwa" limapereka - mvuu kapena njovu, mwachitsanzo, ngakhale kuti mukulemera makilogalamu 45. Izi sizinayambe zakhala ndi chibwenzi. Nthabwala zopanda phindu ndi kuyamikira zopusa zimachokera kwa iye osati ku choipa, koma chabe chifukwa cha kusowa kwa chidziwitso. Ndipo akupitiriza kubwereza zolakwa zomwe zimawopsya atsikana. Othandizira akuluakulu pochita ndi munthu wotero ndikumvera chifundo komanso kulankhulana. Ndikofunika kuti mwaulemu (koma intelligibly) mumuuze kuti sakonda.
Mnyamatayu ndi wofewa kwambiri, woyera komanso wofiira. Amanena zabwino, amapita pakhomo ndikupsompsona bwino. Amakondanso kugwedeza. Kugona pafupi, kuyang'ana "Simpsons" ndikukumbatira. Ngati icho chinali chifuniro chake, iye akanachita izo basi. Prelude ikhoza kutambasula kwa theka la maola awiri. Mnyamata uyu sadziwa zambiri. Mwinamwake, panali mtsikana mmodzi. Ndipo izo zinali zaka khumi zapitazo. Kawirikawiri, iye ndi wokondweretsa, ngakhale atakhala wofewa mwachibadwa. Iye ali ndi kuphatikiza kwakukulu-kuchokera kwa firimu uyu wa kukumbatira iwe ukhoza kudzidetsa wekha kwa munthu wangwiro. Iye adzangokondwa kukupangitsani inu kumverera bwino.
Iye ndi wokongola kwambiri. Ali ndi kumwetulira kwaulesi komanso kuyang'ana koopsa. Atsikana amamuyang'ana mwachidwi, ndipo amamuyankha mwachidwi. Amakonda kujambula zithunzi ndipo amadziwa momwe angasamalire.
Pa tsamba pa intaneti iye ali ndi abwenzi mazana anai, oposa theka - atsikana omwe ali ndi zithunzi zapamwamba m'mabuku otsekedwa - ma supermodels amtsogolo - chirichonse, monga kusankha. MCH imeneyi ndi yotchuka ndipo ikuwoneka ngati anthu ambiri akufuna kukhala pafupi naye. Iye ali ndi zochitika zotero zomwe zimakhala zovuta kulingalira mu ziwerengero. Atsikanawo anali ochuluka kwambiri, koma sakudziwa nambala yeniyeniyo. Zingamveke - ndizovuta kukana pamene mukukonda bungwe lonse lachitsanzo ndi zana kapena anthu ena okha. Pafupi ndi izo zidzakhala zovuta. Muyenera kukhala osiyana kwambiri ndi ena. Ngati mungathe kumupatsa chinthu china osati kukongola komanso chiwonetsero chabwino, ndiye mutha kutenga mwayi. Atsikana 95% amafuna kuwona pafupi ndi mnyamata wokongola, wanzeru, wotetezeka ndi wokhulupirika. Zomwe zimakhalapo, koma 6% zokha.
Amalankhula zambiri komanso zosangalatsa. Komabe, simungathe kudziwa momwe mungapezere munthu yemwe ali wolondola. Ndimasangalala kwambiri. Maonekedwe ake okha - wokonda. Mwachikondi musayambe kuona; ndipo musatenge zithunzi pachivundikiro cha magaziniyo. Koma ali ndi abwenzi ambiri. Ngakhale akunena zambiri, koma sanganene zambiri, ndipo sangalankhule za chinsinsi cha mlendo. Zomwe zili m'moyo wake zimangoganiziridwa. Mnyamatayu amayamikira ubale wolimba. Iye anali kapena anali, kapena pali mtsikana yemwe iye amamukhulupirira. Iwo anali pamodzi kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo, mwinamwake, zonsezi zinayamba ndi ubwenzi. Choncho, njira yabwino yokondweretsera iye ndi kukhala chibwenzi chake poyamba.
Sichingawonekere kumbali ya atsikana. Iye sawopa iwo - sangathe kuwayima. Modzipereka amakhulupirira kuti tinalengedwa kuti tipewe moyo wake ndi misempha. Ndipo musatope ndi kubwereza izo pa mwayi uliwonse. Mukayamba kulankhula, zidzakhala zovuta kuima. Nthawi zambiri amanena kuti amatha. Mnyamata wotereyu amakonda mawu, monga "mwana", "telochka", "anapiye" ndi zina zotero. Chifukwa chiyani ndizovulaza? Atsikana nthawi zambiri amawaponya, ndi osavuta kumvetsa. Zotsatira zake n'zakuti kunyada sikumakhala bwino, kumanyoza moyo wonse komanso kugonana kwachikazi. Kodi mukufunabe kukhala mmodzi wa anthu ochimwa a mtsogolo?
Anabweretsedwa bwino
Mukuchita bwino ndi mwamtendere. Chirichonse chinayamba bwino ndipo chimapitiriza kukhala mwamtendere. Nthawi zonse amaitana, ngati adalonjeza,
amadziwa kutcha maswiti omwe mumakonda komanso nyimbo yomwe mukufuna kumvetsera m'mawa. Iye samakuvutitsani, samapereka zifukwa za nsanje. Simunadziwe kuti zingakhale choncho, komanso kuti "zonse ziri zabwino ndi bata" - ndizo zabwino. Inde, anali ndi atsikana pamaso panu. Ndipo ndikuwongolera momwe akuchitira iwe tsopano, ukhoza kunena kuti zikomo.
Wachitatu si woposera
Sanawonetsere chidwi chilichonse kwa inu. Nkhaniyo siinamvere, sanamvetse nthabwala zanu. Patapita nthawi, munatha kupeza chinenero chimodzi ndikuyamba chibwenzi. Koma pamene bwenzi lanu liri pafupi, adasintha - adayankhula ndi kuwedza kuposa nthawi zonse. Mwinamwake, maloto awa a MCH amakumana nawo. Wokondedwa basi ndiye sakufuna, kapena ali wotanganidwa, kapena bwenzi labwino basi. Koma mnyamatayu sataya chiyembekezo. Ndiwe chikhululukiro kuti iye amuwone iye mobwerezabwereza.