Momwe mungayanjanitsire ndi mnyamata pamene msungwana wina akufika panjira

Mipikisano ndi mikangano imayambira pakati pa anthu awiri alionse, ngakhale omwe ali otsimikizirika kuti ali osagwedezeka komanso abwino. Nthawi zina anthu m'mitima amasankha kuti sangathe komanso sakufuna kukhala pamodzi, ndipo ndi bwino kufalitsa kusiyana ndi kulekerera izi. Timavomereza ndi kutentha, timatayika wokondedwa, ndipo tikamazizira, timadziwa kuti sitingathe kukhala popanda izo. Zikuwoneka, ndipafupi - pita ndi kuika, mwina, kukhululukira. Koma mwadzidzidzi, timaphunzira kuti nthawi yayitali yomwe njira zanu zabalalikira, ina inkaonekera patsogolo. Osati kwenikweni chibwenzi chako chakale chinayamba kukumana naye, koma osadziŵa kuti amamuyang'anitsitsa ndipo adaganiza kuti achite mozama sizingatheke. Kodi mungakhale bwanji mu nkhaniyi? Nkhani yakuti "Kodi mungayanjane motani ndi mnyamata pamene msungwana wina akusokoneza?" Adzakupatsa malangizo angapo omwe angakuthandizeni kuti mupambane pankhondoyi kuti mutenge munthu wanu wokondedwa.

Choyamba, dziwani: yemwe ali ndi chiyanjano ndi bwenzi lanu lakale. Mwa ichi mungathe kuthandiza, mwachitsanzo, abwenzi omwe amalankhulana naye. Ngakhalenso bwino, ngati inu ndi mnzanuyo mumakhala ndi anzanu ambiri - nthawizonse mumakhala mphekesera za nkhani zoterozo ndipo mukhala okondwa kuuza chilichonse chimene chimadziwika ndi maganizo a mnyamata uyu. Ndipo momwe mtsikanayo amamvera za iye, zolinga zake ndizo. Pambuyo pake, dzifunseni funso ili: "Momwe mungayanjanitsire ndi mnyamata, pamene mtsikana wina amalepheretsa?". Yankho la funsoli, mwinamwake, lidzakhala lovuta kwambiri kulipeza kusiyana ndikuti vutoli silinayambe.

Kotero, mwaika cholinga chenicheni choyanjanitsa ndi munthu wakale, amene adagawanika naye ndi nzeru. Ndibwino kuti tiganizire za: Kodi amamva bwanji tsopano? Mwinamwake inu, mutamuyang'ana, mudzatha kupeza yankho la funso ili. Ndipo ngati muwona kuti sakusamalirani inu - ndiye kondwerani, muli ndi mwayi wokonzanso zomwe zinali ... Muyenera kuchotsa pamsewu zomwe zimalepheretsa kuchita.

Ayi, ndithudi, onse opanda upandu - palibe woyeretsa mwachindunji sadzafunikira. Ndipo msungwana wina ^ inde, kodi iye ndi chiyani? Kodi iye angachite chiyani? Ngakhale, kunyenga ndi chinyengo cha munthu nthawizina alibe malire. Choncho musalole kuti mdaniyo asadziwone.

Timapitirira. Tiyerekeze kuti munayesera kupanga gawo loyamba kwa chibwenzi, ndipo adawona. Kodi mukuyembekezera yankho lotani? Pano simungaganize molondola. Koma inu mukhoza kuganizira za izo. Ngati athamangitsidwa mwamsanga, ndiye kuti zonse zili bwino, palibe mtsikana wina amene angamufune, ndipo adzakondwera kukhazikitsa mtendere ndi inu. Koma izi, ndikukhulupirirani, zochitika kuchokera m'gulu la "zosiyana". Amuna nthawi zambiri samakhululukira zolakwa zawo, amakonda kubwezera ndikuwona momwe mukuvutikira ndikuyesera kubwezeretsa chirichonse. Kotero khalani okonzekera kuti izo sizikusiyani inu mophweka.

Ngati adziwa za kukhalapo kwa wina yemwe amamuzinga (komanso ngati akuyang'ana mozama) ndiye kuti amadziwa za chifundo chake, ndiye kuti izi zidzathandiza kuti ntchitoyo ikhale yophweka ndipo idzapangitsanso ndondomeko yobwezera. Ndipo tsiku lina inu mudzawona momwe akuyendamo mosangalala kunyumba kwanu pansi pa cholembera ndi uyu wamwano. Amanyamula maluwa m'manja mwake ndipo amamvetsera mwachidwi mawu ake onse, ndipo amalankhula chinachake chosangalatsa, nthawi zonse amayamba kuseka, akuzizwitsa aliyense akumwetulira. Koma mukhoza kuwona kuchokera pansi pachisanu kuti akuponya mutu wake osati kuseka, koma kuyang'ana kumbali pazenera lanu. Izi, ndithudi, zimakwiyitsa kwenikweni - amayembekeza kuti mudzakwiya ndi nsanje - ndipo sali kutali ndi choonadi.

Chabwino, tsopano kusamuka kwanu - kuonekera pamaso pake ndi wina. Musasowe kuti mumangomanga khosi la wina kapena kuwonetserana chikondi chaukwati mwaukwati - zidzasokoneza zonse zomwe mukuyesera kuti muyanjanitse (ngakhale zomwe mukuchita tsopano sizili ngati kuyesa kugwirizanitsa). Pakhoza kuthandizanso wina, winayo. Inu mumangopanga kotero kuti awone - kenako zonse zidzakwaniritsa makutu a poyamba. Komabe, mwinamwake, msungwana wina sagwiritsabe ntchito ndikupangitsani kuyenda kwanu kosalakwa ndi zofukiza. Mukhonza kukhala otsimikiza kuti chibwenzi chanu chakale chidzakwiya chifukwa cha nsanje - ndipo izi zidzakhala zowonjezereka m'magulu anu, chifukwa tsopano akuganiza zazomwe asanatenge masitepe - mwinamwake simukufuna kubwerera kwa iye mwanjira imeneyo, komanso akuyenda ndi wina .

Pano, wotsutsa akhoza kukhala ndi malo owopsya - adzazindikira kuti mumagwiritsa ntchito masewera anu okhumudwa. Ndiyeno adzatenga chibwenzi chanu mozama, mozama. Pano, khalani tcheru, abambo nthawi zambiri amagwera muchisoni pamene akuganiza kuti sangabwerere wokondedwa wanu (ndipo pamene adapeza kuti mukuyenda ndi wina, adazindikira kuti adakukondani ndipo akufuna kubwerera). Ndiyeno wokondanayo adzabwera pamsinkhu, wodzala ndi chifundo ndi chikondi chachikondi. Ndipo munthu sakanatha bwanji kugonjetsedwa ndi zofooka zake zazing'ono!

Muwonetseni kuti muli bwino kuposa msungwana yemwe amamuyang'anira. Sinthani chithunzicho, muwonekere pamaso pake mwatsopano, wodabwitsa. Iye ndithudi adzamvetsera izi, mdima mu moyo wake udzawonekera, kuti iwe ukuchita zonsezi chifukwa cha iye. Mupatseni chitsimikizo chaching'ono kuti sali patali ndi choonadi - pambuyo pake, sikutheka kuzunzika mwamuna kwambiri, akhoza kuchoka kwathunthu. Musagwedezeke ulusi, iwo amangoswa!

Akazi - zolengedwa ndizochita zamatsenga komanso zopanda pake. Makamaka pankhani ya amuna. Choncho musadabwe ngati mnzanuyo akuyamba kunyalanyaza zabodza zokhudza inu. Kodi mungatani kuti muthane ndi vutoli? Inde, ngati muli ndi luso komanso chilakolako, mukhoza kutsika kumsika wake ndipo ambiri amalola nkhani zosautsa zina zokhudza zosayenera. Komabe, njirayi sizingatheke kuti ikhale yogwira bwino, ndipo ndi yonyansa. Ndi bwino kulankhula naye momasuka. Funsani zomwe akusowa, khalani ndi chidaliro ndikumuuza kuti alibe mwayi. Munthu wamba amamvetsa. Chabwino, ndipo musamvetsetse - kumuopseza iye ndi chinachake. Ndipo bwanji osatero? Palibe amene akunena kuti iwe udzayenera kuchita zachiwawa, koma mwina kumuopseza iye ndi kuyankhula koopsya. Palibe mabodza kuti achotsedwe.

Mwachizoloŵezi, njira yabwino ndiyo kunyalanyaza miseche yake, kuseka anthu, kusonyeza kuti ndizosamveka za zongopeka zonsezi - ndipo m'malo mwake zimathamangitsira kwa yemwe mumakonda, kukwapula mpikisano ndi omenyana. Palibe chifukwa cholimbana ndi anthu opanda pake ndi opusa, makamaka ngati mungathe kugwiritsa ntchito nthawiyi kwa wokondedwa amene wakukhululukirani kale!