Palibe kukayikira kuti kwa mkazi kukhala wosakwatiwa kwa mwamuna ndi ntchito yovuta, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kusiya, kudandaula ndi kuchita kanthu. Yesetsani kupanga zochepa zochepa kuti mukhale mkazi, kumene mwamuna sangachokepo.
Khalani osiyana
Coco Chanel ananenanso kuti ngati mkazi akufuna kukhala wosasinthika, ndiye kuti nthawi zonse ayenera kusintha. Lamulo ili, lomwe sizodabwitsa, limagwira ntchito ndi munthu wa imvi. Kusintha nthawi zonse-khalani msungwana wamng'ono yemwe amasamala ndi kupita kwa, ndipo wokondedwa wokonda yemwe ali wotetezeka pabedi ndi kukonda zogonana, ndi amayi abwino kwambiri omwe amachititsa kuti nyumbayo ikhale yokonzeka komanso yokonzekera, ndi mayi wolemekezeka komanso wolemekezeka yemwe angakhoze kumwetulira kuti mwamuna wake pitani mumoto ndi m'madzi. Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri - khalani opanda ntchito imodzi kwa nthawi yayitali, ngakhale mutaganiza kuti udindo wa mwamuna ndi wofanana.
Landirani munthu monga momwe aliri
Musamunyoze nthawi zonse kuti iye sagwirizana ndi zomwe mukuganiza kuti zingakhale bwino kwa munthu. Sikoyenera kutaya zofooka zake - ndizobwino, ngati simukukondana kwambiri ndi mnzanuyo, yesetsani mwaluso komanso mosapita m'mbali kunena za izo ndipo muzipereka njira ina yothandizira. Ndipo, ndithudi, tilemekeze ulemu wake wonse (mwa njira, sizimagwira ntchito ndi amuna okha, koma ndi ana).
Khalani odalirika
Lembani khalidwe lanu kuti munthu wanu adziwe zomwe mungadalire mu nthawi yovuta, ndipo mumamuthandiza ndi chimwemwe ndi chisoni. Ndipo ngakhale atalakwitsa ndipo ali ndi mlandu pa izi, ndiye musamatsutse kutsutsa kwake, ndibwino kuyesa kupeza mawu oti amuthandize.
Dzikondeni nokha
Mkazi amene sadzikonda yekha, chifukwa cha mwamuna, amangoimira chiwongoladzanja chothandizira - ngati wophika kwaulere, wosamalira nyumba, ndi zina zotero. Dzisamalire nokha ndikudzipenda nokha, musaiwale kuti mumathera nthawi pang'ono ndi kunyoza.
Musawope kukangana
Zimamveka zodabwitsa, koma mikangano ndi imodzi yokha ya mphamvu kwa abambo ndi amai. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa mkangano ndi kukambirana zachinthu chimodzi chomwe chimayambitsa mkangano, popanda kugwiritsa ntchito maulendo ngati "masiku nthawi zonse ..." ndi zina zotero, zomwe sizikutulutsa komanso kusamutsira cholakwacho kwa mnzanuyo.
Musakhale mwamuna kwa bwenzi
Pafupifupi chaka chimodzi pambuyo pa chiyanjano chanu, njira zamakono zomwe zimayambitsa chilakolako chanu, zimapita pansi. Amayi ambiri pa nthawiyi ali ndi chikhumbo chokhala mwamuna wawo, mnzake wokhulupirika ndi bwenzi labwino, kuti azitengera zofuna zake, ndi zina zotero. Ngakhale kuyang'ana koyamba ndi lingaliro labwino, komabe zotsatira zake zingakhale zovuta, zomwe zimakopeka ndi mkazi m'maloto.
Choyamba, ngati anthu awiri ali ndi zofanana, ndiye amatha kuthetsa mitu yonse kuti ayambe kukambirana ndi kukhumudwa. Ndipo kachiwiri, nthawi zina mkazi amakhala ndi chilakolako chofuna kukhala mwamuna monga bwenzi, kuti amalephera kukondana naye, zomwe sizikukondweretsa iwe.
Musaiwale za kugonana
Palibe amene analetsa kugonana m'banja. Iye ndi wofunika kwambiri kuposa chakudya ndi kugona. Mu nkhani iyi, gwiritsani ntchito malingaliro, musalole kuti kugonana kumatope ndi kukhala kosangalatsa komanso wamba. Siyani malo oti agwirizane komanso okonzeka kugonana.
Lankhulani
Mosakayika, sizingakhale zopindulitsa, mukawona mwamuna wanu, mwamsanga "mutaya kunja" zonse zomwe zachitika patsiku, koma ngati mukukwiya kwambiri, simukuyenera kukhala chete, mukuyembekeza kuti iye mwiniyo adzalingalira za swami iyi kulankhula . Lankhulani ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu (musangosokoneza ndi mnzanu) pa zinthu zonse zomwe zimakusangalatsani ndikukondweretsani. Koma, chonde, tayiwala mawu awa ngati "wokondedwa, tikufunika kulankhula!".
Tengani ndi kupereka mu magawo ofanana
Ngati nthawi zonse mumadzimana nokha, osatenga kanthu pobwezera, mukukhulupirira kuti "muyenera", kuti mukhale okhumudwa - muleke! Izi sizoposa zachinyengo zanu ndipo ndithudi munthu wanu ali ndi ngongole. Ngati nthawi zonse mumasewera masewera a kudzimana, ndiye kuti ngongoleyo imakhala yosasunthika pang'onopang'ono, kenako munthu akhoza kuchokapo. Komabe, sikofunikira ndipo nthawi zonse "kungotenga" kokha - munthu wamisala posakhalitsa angathe kutaya katundu, pambuyo pake ubalewo umagweranso. Choncho, kusiyana pakati pa "kutenga" ndi "kupereka" kuyenera kulemekezedwa.