Kwenikweni, mwamuna ndi mkazi akhoza kukhala osakonzekera kukwatira. Pachifukwa ichi, timatanthawuza kukhala osakonzekeretsa makhalidwe onse omwe akuyembekezera banja lachiwiri pambuyo paukwati. Izi, makamaka, zimadalira kukula kwa maudindo: onse ndi abambo anu, koma munthu wabwinobwino angaganize mozama ngati ali wokonzeka kuyamba banja, kapena ngati adikire? Ngakhale, sitidzatsutsana, palinso anyamata otere omwe, akufuna, kusewera ukwatiwo "pano ndi tsopano", kuti potsiriza atenge "kapolo Izaura" amene amatsuka nyumba ndi kutsuka masokosi, ndi kuphika chakudya chamadzulo. Ndipo usiku kuti tiyang'ane pa izo ndipo tizitha kuchita zonsezi. Zosangalatsa, sichoncho? Komabe, munthu wotero sangathe kukhala banja labwino, chifukwa poyamba amachita mosiyana ndi malingaliro ake, ndipo kusowa kwa ubongo ndi maudindo a amuna kumamupangitsa kukhala mnyamata wobiriwira, panthawi yake kusamalira mayi wachikondi.
Kotero, tiyeni tinene kuti mwamuna wanu amakopeka ndi banja. Ndipo mukuganiza, amati, amapitirira, akufuna ana, ndipo amatha kukhazikika ndi kumanga banja. Koma iye ali chete, wosamvera. Kumbukirani kuti ngati mwamuna sakufulumira kukwatirana - sizikutanthauza kuti sakonda, mwinamwake akungoyesa ndi kukonzekera kwanu. Kondwerani kuti muli ndi munthu woganiza wotere amene amatha kufufuza. Makhalidwe abwinowa amuthandiza mobwerezabwereza posachedwapa. Panthawiyi ... pamene tikukulangizani kuti mukhale oleza mtima. Makamaka ngati inu nokha mukuona kuti sakukuitanani kuti mukwatirane, osati chifukwa sakonda. Ubale waubwenzi, nthawi zina, nthawi zina amafunika kuyang'anitsitsa kukana moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku ndi mavuto oyambirira a banja, kotero, mwina musanakhazikitse chiyanjano chanu mwachibadwa, mwamuna wanu akufuna kubwera pamodzi ndi kukhala pamodzi. Kotero kuti, kuti mumvetse ngati inu mungakhoze kuthyozana wina ndi mzake. Ndipo chigamulochi chikuyesedwanso, chimasonyeza kuti mnyamata wanu ndi wamkulu komanso wololera.
Ngakhale kuti izi zimachitika kuti nzeru iyi ndi munthu wamkulu zikuwonjezera nthawiyi. Izi ndizokuti mumakumana, mumakumana, mumakhala pamodzi zaka zambiri, ndipo, monga momwe mukuganizira, zimagwirizana. Ayi, ndithudi, ndipo muli ndi mikangano yambiri ndi mikangano - koma mumadziwa momwe mungapezere njira yothetsera mavuto, ndipo musabweretse mkhalidwewo ku maiko onse. Mutha kulongosola bwino ntchito zapakhomo, monga mkazi, ngati kumanga chisa cha banja, kupereka mowolowa manja chitonthozo ndi kutentha kumbali zonse za banja lanu. Ndipo iye, monga munthu, amakonda kuti akabwera kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito, amapezeka kuti ali mchikhalidwe chosamalidwa ndi kutentha kosalekeza kuti akhoza kudalira inu nthawi zonse, kuti mum'chitire zonse. Koma apa ubalewu uli pamapeto. Izi zikutanthauza kuti panalibe ndondomeko, ndipo ayi, ndipo inu nonse mukuyembekezera ndi kuyembekezera. Nchifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika?
Mfundo, zonse ndi zophweka. Amuna mwamsanga amazoloŵera bwino (mwina akazi ndi otchuka kwambiri chifukwa cha izi). Ndipo ngati moyo wanu uli pabanja (tiyeni tiwone choncho) ndi mnyamata yemwe amakonda, ndiye amadziwa kuti, podutsa pakhomo la nyumbayo, amamva mawu anu kuti fungo lokoma limabwera kuchokera ku khitchini, kuti palibe chimene chimasintha ndi chirichonse chiri chokhazikika. Kotero iye amazolowereka nthawi zonse. Ndipo iye samamvetsa nkomwe: chifukwa chiyani iwe umayenera kuti usinthe chinachake, bwanji iwe ukuyenera kusiya njira yopezeka moyo uno pokonzekera ukwati, bwanji izi zikukangana? Ayi, mwachidziwikire amadziwa kuti kujambula sikungapewe, koma amayesa mosamvetsetseka kuti ayambe kuchitapo kanthu, kuti asawonenso kachiwiri. Ndipo izi zikuwonetsanso kachiwiri kuti ngati mwamuna safulumira kukwatira - sizikutanthauza kuti iye sakonda, mwinamwake amangozoloŵera kukhala pamodzi?
Palinso zifukwa zinanso zomwe munthu wachikondi angawononge tsiku laukwati losirira. Ndipo choletsedwa kwambiri ndicho kusowa kwa maziko enieni a chochitika chachikulu choterocho. Pambuyo pake, palinso anthu padziko lapansi omwe amawona kumwetulira kosangalatsa pamaso pa okondedwa awo monga cholinga cha miyoyo yawo. Awa ndi abwino omwe ali okonzeka kuluma ndi mano awo, kuti akwaniritse maloto okondedwa awo a amayi awo. Koma kodi mkwatibwi sakudziwa bwanji chic, ukwati wokongola?
Ukwati m'nthawi yathu ino - mwambowu si wotchipa, nthawi zina zimatenga zaka zoposa chimodzi kuti usonkhanitse ndalama kukonzekera holide yeniyeni, kuitana achibale awo onse. Ndipo pambuyo pa phokoso la phokoso kuti ayendetse kwa mwezi kwinakwake, kukapumula pansi pa mitengo ya kanjedza, kuika dzuwa padzuwa ndi kusaganizira kanthu kali konse, kupatula wina ndi mnzake.
Kapena mwinamwake mwamuna wanu akuwopa basi! Inde, inde, ndikuwopa, koma osati inuyo, koma udindo womwe udzagwa pamapewa ake pambuyo pa pasipoti yokongoletsedwa ndi sitampu? Pambuyo pake, banja ndi ntchito yambiri komanso yosamalira, si ufulu wosuntha. Pambuyo pa zonse, nthawi zonse mumayenera kukambirana ndi mkazi pa chilichonse. Ndipo, makamaka, palibe ufulu wachuma - apa, iyenso, iyenera kukambirana chilichonse chomwe chimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi mkazi wake, makamaka ngati munthu akusowa ndalama zambiri. Sikuti aliyense akufuna kusintha kwambiri moyo wawo wamba. Ndipo izi sizikutanthauza kuti amuna otere sakonda atsikana awo - samangokhala achikulire m'banja, ndipo amafunika kuthandizira kuchita izi. Kapena osadikira mpaka atakula. Ndi kwa inu kusankha.
Kawirikawiri komanso mwachidziwikire, banja ndilo gawo loyenera, kuti nthawi zina kufunikira kudikira kwa nthawi yayitali, kuyeza, kufufuza ndi kuyang'ana ubale wanu ndi mphamvu. Ndipotu, tonse timafuna kuti banja likhale limodzi - ndi moyo, popanda mikangano ndi magawano, olimba, olimba. Ndipo ngati titenga mofulumira ndi mosasamala - tikhoza kulakwitsa ndikukhalabe ndi chimbudzi chosweka. Ndipo izi ndithudi palibe amene akufuna.
Kotero musamukakamize mnyamata wanu kuti asafulumire kukwatira inu - mwinamwake akungoyembekezera mphindi yabwino, zochitika zabwino? Khalani oleza mtima, makamaka ngati mutsimikiza kuti chibwenzi chanu ndizo tsogolo lanu. Maloto amakwaniritsidwa, nthawi zina amangosankha nthawi yoyenera!