Ena amakhulupirira kuti atsikana nthawi zonse ayenera kukhala ndi chidwi ndi mafashoni ndi zodzoladzola, ndipo anyamata - magalimoto ndi mpira. Ndipotu, zimakhala kuti mnyamatayu samangokamba za zovala, ndipo mayiyo adzakambirana molimba mtima galimoto yomwe amamukonda. Ndipotu, abambo ndi amai ali ndi zofuna zambiri. Mwachidule, muyenera kukumba pang'ono ndikuphunzira za iwo.
Zokondedwa zokambirana za atsikana ndi anyamata - iyi ndi munda waukulu wa ntchito. Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kulankhula za mafilimu. Inde, m'derali, zosangalatsa za amayi ndi alongo sizimasintha nthawi zonse. Koma, panopa, mungathe kukambirana, kutsimikizirani maganizo anu. Chinthu chachikulu sikutembenuza chirichonse kukhala chokhumudwitsa. Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuti anthu adziwe kuti wina akhoza kuganiza mosiyana, makamaka ngati ndi mtundu wina wa munthu. Ndicho chifukwa chake, poyankhulana ndi kugonana pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana, nthawi zonse amayesetsa kudzipangira okhazikika ndikukumbukira kuti munthu aliyense akhoza kulakwitsa, ndipo mwinamwake kulondola.
Nyimbo ndi mutu wina wokondedwa kwambiri kwa anthu onse amtundu uliwonse. Mfundo ina yothandizira ndipo, panthawi imodzimodzi, kukanidwa. Nyimbo zenizeni za nyimbo, pamoto wolakalaka, zimaiŵala chilichonse. Pankhaniyi, amayi akufunikiranso kukhala anzeru ndikupanga zotsutsana. Inde, zokonda ndizofunikira, koma mtendere ndi bata mu ubale ndizofunikira kwambiri.
Ndipotu, mnyamata ndi mtsikana akhoza kulankhula chilichonse. Zokhudza mabuku, pulogalamu, zamoyo, za maphikidwe. M'makambirano oterowo, kawirikawiri, wina amadziwa bwino dera linalake, ndipo wina - akufuna kudziwa zambiri. Kulankhulana uku kumabweretsa pamodzi, chifukwa anthu amadziwa kuti bwenzi lake kapena wokondedwa amasangalala ndi zomwe amakonda. Kuwonjezera apo, zokambirana zotere zimakula ndikulitsa chiwonongeko. Ngati ena amakhulupirira kuti anthu omwe ali ndi zofuna zosiyana ndi zovuta kulankhulana - iwo ndi olakwika. Zimakhala zovuta kulankhulana ndi omwe sakudziwa komanso sakufuna kumva komanso kumvetsa oyankhulana. Kenaka, kukambirana kungangokhala mikangano. Ngati onse ali okonzeka kumvana, ndiye kuyankhulana uku kumakhala nyumba yosungiramo zidziwitso zatsopano, komanso mwayi womvetsa munthu yemwe ali pafupi.
Amuna ndi amai amamvetsetsana bwino kuposa momwe angaoneke. Mwachidule, sitidzakhala okonzeka kutseguka, kukhala oona mtima, kufotokoza maganizo athu ndi maganizo athu. Anthu amawoneka kuti amawoneka ofooka ndipo samamvetsedwa. Ngati mnyamata ndi mtsikana ali pafupi kwambiri, nthawi zambiri amalankhula za momwe akumvera, zochitika zapadziko lonse, nzeru za moyo ndi zovuta za miyoyo yawo. Izi ndizokulankhulana zomwe simukufunikira kufufuza nkhani, kudandaula za chete ndikuganiza zomwe munganene. Pakulankhulana, ubwenzi wapamtima umasonyezedwa pakukambirana za mabanja, za abwenzi. Ngati anthu sali okondana wina ndi mzake, zokambirana zoterozo zidzakhala zosangalatsa komanso zopanda pake kwa iwo. Gwirizanani, chifukwa sitikufuna kumvetsera agogo anga aamuna, omwe akukhala pafupi ndi ife mu tram ndikuyamba kukambirana za mavuto ake, afotokoze nkhani kuchokera ku moyo. Amapezanso kuyankhulana pakati pa anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana. Amakamba za zinthu zobisika, koma kukhala pafupi kwambiri. Pachifukwa ichi, iwo akhoza kukweza ndi kukhazikitsa phunziro lililonse: kuchokera pamwamba pa nkhani kupita kuntchito. Ndipo palibe chomwe chidzawoneka ngati cholakwika kapena chochititsa manyazi. Kukambirana kotereku kumakhala kwa maola ambiri, ndipo palibe amene amadziwa momwe nthawi ikuyendera, chifukwa zonse zonse zimakhala zosangalatsa. Iwo samangomvetsera, amamva. Tikamayankhula momasuka zaumwini, timachotsa masikiti ndikuwonetsa zomwe tili, zomwe timaopa ndi zomwe timalota. Pa zokambirana zotero mungathe kutsegula munthu, ngakhale atanena chilichonse konkire. Pamene anthu ali oona mtima, amatilola kuti tiwerenge pakati pa mizere. Ngakhale kukumbukira nthawi zonse kuyambira ubwana kungathe kufotokozera vuto lomwe liripo kwa munthu uyu tsopano. Tikamanena zinthu moona mtima, tikuyembekeza kuti palibe amene angadziwe za iwo, koma, panthawi imodzimodziyo, musapemphe mwakachetechete kuti akhale chete. Kukambirana kotereku kumasonyeza kukhulupilira kwathunthu, ndipo, chotero, chikondi, koma za munthu yemwe ali wokondedwa kwa inu, palibe amene amathetsa mphekesera.
Amuna ndi akazi amakonda kulankhula. Chifukwa cha kugonana kosiyana, amamva ndikumvetsa zinthu mosiyana. Izi zimatithandiza kuti tione bwinobwino zomwe zikuchitikazo mwatchutchutchu, chifukwa sichiwoneka ngati ndege, koma ngati chithunzi chachitatu. Ndichifukwa chake, kukambirana pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana n'kofunika kwambiri kwa iwo onse, ngakhale sakudziwa. Kawirikawiri, pamakambirano oterowo, anthu amapeza njira zenizeni zokhazokha.
Timabwera kwa munthu wapafupi kuti timumvetsetse, kumufunsa, kuti timve maganizo omwe amatsutsana kwambiri ndi athu. Kuyankhulana pakati pa anyamata ndi atsikana kungathe kuchitika pakulankhula za mafilimu, ndipo kungakhale kofikira mu filosofi. Chilichonse chimadalira momwe amachitira okondedwa kwa wina ndi mzake, kuchuluka kwa momwe amadziwira kukhulupilira ndi kumvetsetsa. Kulandira maganizo a munthu wina - ndizo. Kawirikawiri, zimakhala zovuta kwa munthu aliyense. Ndipo palibe chomwe chimadalira kugonana, ndizosavuta kuti tizinena. Amunawa ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi ife. Ndipo iwo, atatha, akhoza kunena kuti akazi samvetsa chirichonse mu moyo. Ndipotu, aliyense wa ife akhoza kukhala wabwino komanso wolakwika. Choonadi chimabadwa mwa kutsutsana. Koma pamakangano omwe amapitilira pakati pa anthu awiri ozindikira.
Kupeza mitu yomwe mumaikonda ya atsikana ndi anyamata pazochitika zinazake ndi mwayi wopeza chinthu chatsopano mwa inu nokha. Chifukwa cha kuyankhulana uku, munthu aliyense amapeza chidziwitso chatsopano, amasintha malingaliro ena ndikupeza zambiri zowonjezera. Pakukambirana, wina safunikanso kufunafuna mutu ndikubwera ndi zifukwa zoyankhulirana. Ngati pali chinthu china chofanana pakati pa anthu, nthawi zonse amapeza chinachake chokambirana ndi kutseka.