Zimapezeka kuti bwenzi lapamtima limatha kunena zinsinsi zambiri kuposa mnyamata kapena mayi. Akhoza kupereka makiyi a nyumba yake, mukhoza kupempha kuti muwone zinyama, ndikubwereketsani ndalama zenizeni ndikufikanso kumudzi kwa ola lachitatu koloko m'mawa. Kodi nthawi zina zimatipangitsa kukayikira kuti ubale wa amayi ulipo? Kodi mungamvetse bwanji zolinga zomwe mnzanu ali nazo ndipo kodi ubwenzi wanu umabweretsa ululu ndi kukhumudwa m'tsogolomu? Momwe mungadziwire mdani mnzanu?
Chinthu choyamba chimene chiyenera kukumbukira ndi chakuti mabwenzi samangodziwika kuti alowa m'mavuto, monga akunena mu mawu amodzi otchuka, komanso mokondwera. Ngati chibwenzicho chiri pafupi pomwe muli ndi vuto, ngakhale kuti zimakhala zolimbikitsa komanso zomvetsa chisoni, kuganiza-sizinali zomwe iye amafuna? Kodi zingakhale kuti chibwenzi chimasangalala mukalephera? Ngati muli ndi chikhumbo chofuna kuuza mnzanu za zokhumudwitsa, koma pamlingo wa intuition mumaganiza kuti sikuli koyenera kunena za buku kapena latsopano, ndizotheka kuti bwenzi lanu ndi vampire yamphamvu.
"Mabwenzi abodza" oterewa amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi kudzidalira kwathu, mwa njira iliyonse yomwe ingalepheretse akatswiri kukula ("Inde mukufuna Chingerezi!") Ndipo nthawi zonse amakukakamizani kuti musamalavulire. Cholinga chokha chomwe akufuna kuchita ndicho kudzidalira nokha. Choncho musamvere zomwe anthu akunena kwa inu.
Yachiwiri - yang'anani momwe bwenzi lanu limakhalira pamaso pa munthu, zomwe zimatanthauza zambiri kwa inu. Ikhoza kukhala wokwatiwa, kapena mnyamata wanu basi. Kudziwa za mtundu wanji wa ubale pakati pa inu, udzayamba, osati kubisala ndikukuchititsani manyazi. Adzabwera kudzacheza ndi chovala choipa, komanso ngakhale pang'ono, kuti azichita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi mwamuna wanu, akunena kuti zomwezo sizingodziwa momwe angakhalire. Adzayesa kuchita zomwe simukuchita, mwachitsanzo, kuvala diresi, ngati simunachotsereni jeans kwa nthawi yaitali kuti mubweretse mapepala kunyumba, ngati mwaiwala njira yopita ku chitofu. Mvetserani mwatcheru kwa wokondedwa wanu. Mwina adzachita ngati chidontho, ngakhale kuti ndi mbuye wabwino. Ndi mnzanu wotero, simungathe kumasuka, makamaka ngati wachinyamata samagonana. Musamusiye iye ndi wokondedwa wanu kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo musalole kuchita zinthu zomwe zingateteze munthu wanu, mwachitsanzo - funsani ena kuchotsa zinyalala zowonongeka pambuyo pokonzanso, osati iye.
Pankhaniyi, simungathe kumaliza ndi uthenga. Ngati mutasamala kuti izo sizileka kuonekera m'moyo wanu - simudzatiitana kuti mucheze, musayambe kuyitana pokhapokha ngati atachoka, ndiye kuti mungagwiritse ntchito ubale wotere pa chitukuko chanu. Ndipo kwenikweni - bwanji osayambitsa uvuni kapena kusintha zovala?
Chachitatu - ngati nonse muli omasuka ndipo simukulemedwa ndi maubwenzi, koma makampani akuyang'anitsitsa atsikana anu, ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse amafuna kukunyengererani, osakulolani kuti mukhale osangalala, osakayika kuti simukusowa ubwenzi. Ngakhale atakhala woyenera patapita maulendo onse, akudabwa kuti amunenera chiyani. Ndiuzeni zomwe zikukukhudzani kwenikweni. Ngati izi zikubwereza kachiwiri, lekani kulankhulana naye ndi kusamalira moyo wanu nokha. Ndi mnzanu wotere, simungabwere kuntchito iliyonse. Samalirani kwambiri mitu yomwe idapita kale. Pamene bwenzi lanu silinatetezedwe ndi chibwenzi chanu, omwe amachitira mwansanje komanso opanda ulemu. Bwenzi labwino lidzathandiza nthaŵi zonse m'mavuto, kumbukirani? Ndipotu, zinali zosangalatsa kuti iye azichitiridwa chonchi.
Ndipo ndithudi, iwe ukhoza kuwerengera msungwana wopanda chibwenzi mutamuuza chinachake chokwanira. Ngati, mutatha kuyankhula, malingalirowa adapezeka kwa gulu lonse la anthu, lomwe limaphatikizapo abwenzi anu ndi anzanu, panthawi imodzimodziyo adakhala chifukwa chochitira chipongwe ndi miseche, nthawi yomweyo amathyola maubwenzi onse omwe pazifukwa zina akadali vassvyazyvayut.
Kumbukirani - zokondweretsa komanso zitsanzo zili bwino m'mabuku, m'moyo ndi bwino kuti musayanjane nazo. Ngati bwenzi lanu likudziwa kuchita zamalonda ndikupusitsa anthu, musaganize kuti sakuwonetsani luso lake.