Ubwenzi pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana: nthawi yovuta

Ubale ndi mnyamata - ndi zovuta, nthawi zina zodzikongoletsera ntchito, osati kukupatsani chifundo, chikondi ndi kutentha, komanso kupirira ndi kuleza mtima. Ndipo onse chifukwa ndife osiyana, ndipo nthawi zina timakhala ndi zodabwitsa za wina zomwe zimachitika o, zovuta bwanji. Koma pano muli kale makadi awa: ngati mukuganiza kuti ndibwino kuti muvutike ndikuyesera kuti mugwirizane, ndiye kuti zonse zidzakuyenderani. Nkhani yakuti "Mgwirizano pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana: nthawi yovuta" idzawonetsa mavuto omwe amakumana nawo m'mabanja ang'onoang'ono, momwe tidzayesa kupereka malangizo omwe amatithandiza kupewa izi, kapena kutulukamo, kutaya malipiro ochepa.

Zilizonse zoyenera zomwe simunali nazo, komabe mu ubale pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana, nthawi zovuta zimachitika kwa aliyense. Zingamveke: zonse ziri bwino ndi inu, palibe ndewu ndi zodandaula zomwe zachitikapo, koma mwadzidzidzi kunagwa chimphepo. Tiyeni tiyambe kunena kuti nthawi zonse zonse zimatuluka ndi kutuluka, sizichitika. Mwinamwake, inu ndi mnyamata mudakhala ndi zifukwa zina mwa inu nokha, kuti musasokoneze chiyanjano choyamba. Komabe, n'kosatheka kusunga chakukhosi kwa nthawi yaitali, nthawi zina imatuluka pambuyo pang'onopang'ono. Ndipo kunyozetsa kwakukulu, komwe kumasiya kusiyanitsa pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana. Kutsekedwa ndi chipatso cha kusakhulupirika kopanda phokoso. N'zovuta, ndithudi, kukhulupirira munthu yemwe simukumudziwa nthawi yonse yomwe mungakonde. Koma ngati mutasankha ubale weniweni, ndiye kuti mumangofunika kusonyeza kuti simungakhale ndi chidaliro kwa mnzanuyo, apo ayi adzalandira kuti mumamuyang'ana nthawi zonse. Ndipo otero, ndikhulupirire ine, osati ngati munthu aliyense. Inde pali mwamuna: mkazi, nayenso, sangalekerere kudalira kosatha. Choncho, phunzirani kudalira okondedwa anu, mulimonsemo, mpaka (mwadzidzidzi) asonyeze kuti sangakhulupirire. Koma, mwinamwake, ubalewo udzatha.

Kawirikawiri, banja lachichepere limakhala lovuta kukangana ponena za nthawi yocheza nawo. Makamaka, makangano angayambe pa abwenzi anu ndi abwenzi anu a chibwenzi. Tiyerekeze kuti mukufuna kukhala mu cafe ndi abwenzi anu anyamata, kumwa tiyi ndi kukambirana za chinthu chofunika ndi chokondweretsa. Ndipo mnyamatayo akuyesetsa kukutsutsani kwa opusawa, malingaliro ake, kuyendetsa, kuitana abwenzi ake, kugula mowa ndi shrimp ndi madzulo onse penyani golide wa mdziko lonse. Mwa njira, simumakonda mpira kuyambira ubwana. Kotero, inu, komanso momwe mungathere, pewani zolinga za munthu wanu. Nanga bwanji izi zikhoza kuchitika? Inde, palibe chabwino. Chifukwa cha kusiyana kwanu, aliyense adzakhalabe ndi maganizo ake, ndipo chifukwa chake, mumakhala madzulo onse pa TV popanda kulankhulana. Koma zinali zosangalatsa kuti ndikhale ndi nthawi! Koma iwo sankakhoza kupeza kuyanjana.

Ngakhale pali ngakhale angapo. Woyamba mwa iwo: lero mumapita kukayenda ndi anzanu abwenzi kupita ku cafe kumene mumakopeka m'mawa. Ndipo chibwenzi chanu ndi anzake akukondana nawo ndi amuna ndi masewera a mowa. Simungabwerere mochedwa, koma anyamata adzalitsa masewerawo, inu ndi mnyamatayo mumadzazidwa ndi zokondwa, mumagawana nthawi zina madzulo, ndipo, okondwa, mugone. Njira yachiwiri: Mudzakonza ndondomeko yoyendayenda ndi abwenzi ake ndi abwenzi anu. Tiyerekeze kuti lero mumadya madzulo ndi abwenzi ake, ndipo mawa mupite kukalima mumsewu ndi anu. Chabwino, pazifukwa zovomerezeka, muyenera kukonzekera madzulo ambiri momwe zingathekere kwa awiri. Komanso, ndibwino kupanga chinthu chosangalatsa: kunena, kupita ku cinema, kupita ku ayezi kapena kanyumba. Ndiyeno kuti muyambe kuyenda mumayandikira nthawi yokha pamodzi.

Nthawi ina yovuta yomwe ingakhoze kuima mu njira ya kusagwirizana pakati pa mgwirizano ndi kusagwirizana kwa zofuna zanu. Tiyerekeze kuti chibwenzi chanu chimakonda kupuma: musamupatse chakudya, mungomusiya kuti achite zinthu zosangalatsa komanso zoopsa. Lero iye akukukoka iwe kuti upite-kart, mawa_kuwerama, ndiye-kulumpha kuchokera pa mlatho. Ndipo zonsezi zimakupangitsani mantha ndi mantha. Mumakonda kukhala pakhomo madzulo, kuti mufike pamtunda. Mwachikondi, mwakhala mukugwedeza nthawi yaitali ndikukongoletsera bwino, ndipo simukukoka pa nthawi yopuma komanso yosavuta. Chotsatira chake, kumayambiriro kwa ubale, iwe, ndi mano ako, pitani kwa wokondedwa wanu kumene akufuna kupita. Onani momwe amachitira nawo mpikisano wothamanga, ndi mtima wozama, yang'anani pamene akudumpha kuchoka pa mlatho, wotsatiridwa ku gulu la mphira wochepa. Ndipo simungathe kusunga kulira pamene akutenga phazilo kupinda mamita 40. Koma posakhalitsa simungathe kudziletsa nokha ndikulengeza kwa munthuyo kuti zosangalatsa zoterezi sizikukhudza iwe. Ndipo, ndithudi, mumamuonetsa iye akung'eta tsitsi limene linawonekera pamisonkhano yake. Ndiye bamboyo amakukondani kwa kanthawi ndipo amakhala pansi pafupi ndi inu, akuyang'ana momwe mumamangirizira chipewa chachisanu ndi chiwiri chachisanu. Koma izi sizingapitirire kwa nthawi yayitali - posachedwa padzakhala mkangano, wotsimikiziridwa kuti mulibe kanthu kochita palimodzi, kuti ndinu osiyana kwambiri. Kawirikawiri anthu sangathe kudzikonzekeretsa nthawi yomweyo ndikupeza pakati pa zosangalatsa za wokondedwa wawo chinachake chimene chingamusangalatse iye ndi iye. Anthu omwe amalephera kuchita zimenezi akhoza kunena kuti ali ndi mwayi: amayamba kuchita nawo chinthu chimodzi, kuti azichita nawo zinthu zosangalatsa ndikukambirana za maola ambiri. Mabanja ena pafupifupi nthaŵi zonse amalephera.

Palinso mfundo zingapo zomwe zingawononge moyo wa banja lachinyamata. Mwachitsanzo, ubale uwu ndi wakale. Nthawi zina zimakhala kuti ena mwa iwo ali ndi maubwenzi abwino kwambiri. Amatha kukomana mu cafe kwa ola kapena awiri, kucheza ndi kumwa khofi. N'zosadabwitsa kuti nkhaniyi siilandiridwa kwa theka lina ndipo imachititsa nsanje yaikulu. Momwe "theka" yoyamba ikuyankhira kwa okwiya: "Sindileka kuyankhulana nawo. Iwo ndi anthu abwino kwambiri! ". Koma apa muyenera kuyesa kumvetsetsa mnzanuyo ndikudziyika nokha. Kodi mungakonde kukhala pamalo omwewo, kukhala kunyumba ndikudikirira mnyamata kuchoka ku cafe, kumene akukangana mwamtendere ndi bwenzi lake lapamtima? Pano pali yankho la mkwiyo wanu, ndibwino kuti muphwanye mgwirizano wakale ndikuyamba kukhala moyo watsopano.

Zina mwa zifukwa. Zimayambitsa mikangano muwiri, pangakhale phindu loposa, monga ndalama, maonekedwe a mnzanu (mwina mwakamodzi mu moyo wanu mumaganiza kuti atakhala ndi tsitsi loyenera ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti asamveke, koma mnyamatayo anali osasunthika mwa kusankha kwake), maubwenzi ndi banja ... Nchifukwa chiyani tinawatcha "ochepa"? Chifukwa chakuti msinkhu wawo uli wochepa kwenikweni. Ngati mumakonda chibwenzi chanu, mudzaphunzira kupeza zosamalidwa komanso ulemu kuti mutuluke pazovuta. Ndipo moyo wanu udzakhala wodzaza ndi mtima wokhazikika komanso wosangalala.