Makhalidwe abwino ndi abwino m'madera ndizo zizindikiro zazikulu za kulera kwanu, maphunziro anu ndi zamkati mwanu. Poyang'ana khalidwe lanu, luso lodzichita nokha, mwaulemu kuchita ndi kulongosola bwino, munthu aliyense adzakukondani. Koma, mwatsoka, ambiri samadziwa choti achite pagulu ndipo nthawi zambiri amatha kukambirana kapena zoipa kwambiri, ayamba kuchitapo manyazi nthawi yomweyo. Kuti mupewe zolakwa zotere m'tsogolomu, muyenera kudziwa ndi kutsatira malamulo oyambirira a malingaliro.
Chinthu choyamba chimene sichimapweteka kuphunzira, makamaka anthu a ku Russia - ndiwotenga anthu oyandikana nawo ndikulingalira lingaliro ili, mwinamwake mudzaika manyazi onse, ndipo poyamba mutembenuke nokha. Ngati munena chilichonse chomwe chimabwera m'maganizo mwanu - muthamangira munthu wonyansa, munthu woipa ndipo simudzasiya. M'dzikoli nthawi zonse muyenera kukhala omasuka, ndipo muyenera kukhala ndi chitukuko chabwino (kuti mukhale ndi chitukuko chofanana, muyenera kufotokozera zambiri, kuwerenga, kuyendera maholo, kuyang'ana mafilimu odziwa zamaganizo, ndi zina zotero). Zidzakuthandizani kukhalabe pamwamba pazochitika zilizonse, mwachitsanzo, pangani chidwi nkhani yokambirana, zithandizani zokambiranazo ndikuyankha moyenera mafunso alionse.
Anthu ambiri ali ndi chizolowezi chokumbukira zolakwa za ena kapena kutemberera iwo omwe ali pa chifukwa china (nthawi zambiri chifukwa cha nsanje wamba) ndi zosasangalatsa. Ndipo ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti zokambirana zoterozo sizikhoza kuthandizidwa, ngakhale nkhani yomwe mukukambiranayo ndi nenravitsya. Zonse mwa zokambirana zanu ndi miseche zingatumizedwe kwa munthu wachitatu ndi munthuyu, ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale mu mawonekedwe opotoka komanso mosiyana. Koma sikokwanira kusiya kulemekeza chifukwa cha mantha kuti mphekesera zonse zidzafika kwa munthu wogwirizana. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa ndikuzindikira kuti miseche ndiyo nkhanza. Ndipo musati mupite ku mlingo umenewo.
M'madera aliwonse amakonda anthu "owala" ndi okondwa, choncho ngati mumakonda kuseka, yesetsani kuzichita mwanjira imeneyi kuti musadzitamandire kudzilemekeza nokha (musanyoze anthu ochepa kapena ochepa, osanyoza mayina, mayina awo, etc.).
Mukulankhulana, musamamulepheretse munthu wothandizana naye, poyamba amusiye kumaliza maganizo ake, mvetserani mawu ake mpaka kumapeto ndipo kenaka funsani mafunso kapena chinachake kuti muyankhe. Koma ngati zidachitika kuti iwo akukusokonezani popanda chifukwa chabwino, musamafulumize kufuula ndi kumvetsera mwachidwi, mvetserani mokwanira komanso mwakachetechete kutsutsa ndi kutsutsa, podziwa kuti mumayankhula ndi munthu wabwino. Komanso, pamene mukuyesera kulankhula, yesetsani kutchula anthu opanda pake "iye" kapena "iye", kuwatcha mayina awo. Kulumikizana nthawi zonse kumaganizira zaka, udindo, zofuna, mfundo za moyo ndi khalidwe la interlocutor. Kwa munthu aliyense, nthawi zonse ayenera kulemekezedwa ndi kuganiziridwa.
Munthu wolemekezeka sadzaiwala kuti ndiwe woyamba kunena hello, kuti apite ndi pempho lililonse ndi mawu akuti "chonde", "khalani okoma", ndi zina zotero, zikomo chifukwa cha utumiki kapena kupepesa chifukwa cha mavuto ena.
Nzeru (kulingalira) ndi yeniyeni mwa munthu wokhwima, wophunzira komanso wophunzira. Izi ndizo kupeza njira yolankhulirana pakati pa anthu apadziko lapansi, kumverera maganizo awo ndi kuwerengera nawo, kuganizira makhalidwe a anthu awo.
Kukwanitsa kuchita osati kampani ina, koma m'malo aliwonse ndi chizindikiro chochepa cha kukula, chitukuko ndi chikhalidwe chanu.
Ngati mumasankha kupita ku zisudzo, muyenera kuphunzira malamulo ochepa oyenera. Chofunika kwambiri ndi maonekedwe: akazi akulimbikitsidwa kuti avale kavalidwe ka madzulo (kwa amuna - chovala kapena tuxedo), zovala zosaoneka bwino kapena zosaoneka pazomwezi zidzakutsutsani (ichi ndi chizindikiro cha zoipa). M'nyengo yozizira, zimalimbikitsidwa kubwera ndi nsapato zotha kusintha. Nsapato zosinthana zimayikidwa mu zovala ndi zovala zakunja. Mutu umachotsedwa kwamuyaya, ndipo umeta tsitsi ndi mafuta onunkhira kwambiri - zosayenera. Ndizosalemekeza kuti tachedwa mofulumira. Woyamba kulowa mu holo nthawi zonse amakhala munthu, kusonyeza matikiti. Wade kumalo ake ayenera kuyang'anizana ndi kukhala pamtsinje. Ngati mutakhala chete, ndiye kuti muyimirire ndikupereka mnzanu mzere. M'masewero, simungakhale phokoso ndipo muyenera kutsegula mafoni onse. Kuyankhula, kumveka phokoso, phokoso, idyani nthawi yomwe ikugwira ntchito sizingatheke (pakuti pali buffet ndi kutuluka). Ndizozoloŵera kusonyeza kuyamikira (popanda kuimba mluzu ndi kusunga) nthawi zina, kawirikawiri mapeto a ntchito iliyonse (kapena kumapeto kwa zochitika makamaka) komanso kumapeto kwa masewera onse.
Ngati mukuyenda mumsewu kapena kupita kwinakwake pa bizinesi, onetsetsani malamulo oyenda pamsewu, chifukwa izi sizisonyezero chabe, koma ndizofunikira. M'mphepete mwa msewu, ndi mwambo kuyenda kumanja, popanda kukankhira msewu (ngati palibe msewu, ndiye kuti mupite kumsewu). Kuyenda mumsewu, pozindikira munthu wachikulire kapena wodwala, umuthandizeni. Si bwino kuphulitsa mphuno mwanu mumsewu, kumatulira, kunyamula pamphuno, phokoso. Musataya zinyalala pamsewu kapena pamsewu, chifukwa izi zili ndi urns wapadera.
Musanapite ku pharmacy kapena sitolo, choyamba muchoke, ndizothandiza kwambiri kudziwa izi kwa anthu ochokera m'dziko lathu, chifukwa lamulo ili likuphwanyidwa tsiku ndi tsiku. Mukawona kuti pafupi ndi munthu wachikulire, mayi wapakati kapena munthu wolumala, tulukani patsogolo. Kutenga nyama pamodzi nawo sikoyenera. Ndi ndudu yonyezimira kapena chisanu m'sitolo komanso sichilowa.
Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito zoyendetsa anthu, yesetsani kutsatira malamulo otsatirawa. Pakhomo la basi (metro, trolley, tram, etc.) pa ulendo woyamba, perekani mwayi wopita kwa anthu ena. Simungathe kuima pakhomo (ndibwino kupita ku salon). Nthawi zonse amafunika kupereka njira kwa anthu achikulire, amayi apakati, amayi apakati ndi anthu olumala. Chizindikiro cha makhalidwe oipa ndi osadzichepetsa ndi kukambirana kwakukulu ndi kuseka m'mabasi onse.
Ngati mwaitanidwa kukachezera, sikulimbikitsidwa kuti tachedwe. Ngati simungathebe kufika nthawi, onetsetsani kuti mukuchenjeza eni ake. Sikoyenera kuyang'ana zinyumba zapanyumba ndi zida zina za mkati, komanso kufunsa mafunso okhudza ubwino wawo, mwinamwake, mudzasonyeza kusadziŵa kwanu.