Makhalidwe apamtundu amatha

Zaka khumi zapitazo, ambiri mwangwiro sanachite nawo mafoni a m'manja, koma lero si njira yokambirana, koma njira ya moyo. Pafupifupi aliyense wa ife amapezeka maola 24 pa tsiku tsiku lililonse. Koma kodi mumadziŵa za malingaliro oyankhulana ndi mafoni? Zikupezeka kuti pali chimodzi. Lankhulani phokoso

Sizinsinsi kuti mawonongeko amtundu uliwonse, ndipo kukambirana pafoni nthawi zambiri kumalepheretsa ena. Malinga ndi malamulo a ulemu, ndipo nthawi zina chitetezo, foni (kapena kuitana) iyenera kutsekedwa:

• m'malaibulale, masewera, museums;
• kuchipatala cha adokotala;
• m'malo opembedza;
• pamsonkhano, tsiku lofunika;
• mu ndege.

Ngati simunatseke foni chifukwa cha chinachake ndipo muli ndi foni panthawi yolakwika, pepani ndipo yesetsani kulankhula mwachidule. Ngati mukudikirira foni yofunikira pamsonkhano wautumiki, auzani anzanu za izo pasadakhale. Ngati maitanidwe adakugwirani mu sitimayi, sitolo, etc., yankhani, pepepesani ndikukuuzani kuti mubwereranso.

Ena samalakalaka kuti alowe mu moyo wanu waumwini ndi wamalonda. Ngati mukufuna kulankhula pa foni pamalo ammudzi, kumbukirani kuti malingana ndi malamulo a khalidwe labwino ndibwino kusamukira ku mamita 4-6 - kotero simukuphwanya malo a munthu wina. Kuonjezerapo, muyenera kulankhula ndi mawu otsika komanso mwamtendere, panthawi imodzimodziyo mutenge mavoliyumu enieni, ngati simungamve nokha, komanso interlocutor. Musakopeke nokha ndikumveka mokweza, kufuula kukwiya, mawu otukwana.

Ndipo mayendedwe apamtundu amalimbikitsa kuchotsa phokoso la mabatani m'malo a anthu. Maselo a SMS, kuphatikizapo kuphulika, angakwiyitse ena.

Simungathe kuyankhula pa foni pamene mukuyendetsa galimoto. Pokambirana pa izi, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito mutu wapadera, ndipo ndi bwino kukana kulankhulana konse. Zokambirana zilizonse zikusiyana ndi msewu, ndi msewu wochokera kuzokambirana.

Iwo anakuitanani inu!

Kawirikawiri zimachitika kuti munthu amene mumamuitana sakuyankha. Ichi si chifukwa chodera nkhawa, chifukwa munthu akhoza kukhala wotanganidwa chabe. Choncho khalani oleza mtima, koma osapirira: dikirani yankho lisakhale loposa zisanu. Mwa njira, molingana ndi malamulo a chidziwitso, wobwereza wosayankhidwa ayenera kukuitanitseni mkati mwa maola awiri. Ngati nthawi yambiri yadutsa, ndiye kuti mwayitchula molimba mtima.

Kuitana pafoni sikunganyalanyaze. Ndikofunika kuyankha ngakhale chiwerengero chosadziwika, chifukwa ngati wina walakwitsa, ndibwino kumuuza za izo.

Nthawi ya zokambirana

Munthu wophunzitsidwa bwino sayenera kusokoneza anzake, ogwira ntchito kapena ogwira ntchito pa nthawi yopanda ntchito, kupatulapo zochitika zadzidzidzi. Ponena za kuyitana kwanu, sikuli koyenera kutchula nthawi ya 9 koloko masana ndi pambuyo pa 22 koloko masana (ganizirani kusiyana kwa nthawi ndi mizinda ina ndi mayiko). Ndipo sizowonjezedwa kuyitana:

Lachisanu madzulo;
• nthawi yoyamba ndi yotsiriza ya tsiku logwira ntchito;
• Lolemba mmawa;
• nthawi yamasana.

Koma mukhoza kutumiza SMS nthawi iliyonse. Musaiwale kuti: SMS ndi njira yolankhulirana momveka bwino, siyotheka kuti mutumizidwe uthenga wofunika ndi wovomerezeka.

Mu ofesi osati osati kokha

Mukatuluka mu ofesi, musasiye foni pamalo ogwira ntchito: ma trills omwe amamveka mosalekeza amalepheretsana ndi anzanu.

Pamaso pa anzanu simukufunika kuti muzikambirana momasuka. Ngati ndi kotheka, pitani ku khola.

Simungayankhe maitanidwe kuchokera pafoni ya wina pamene mwiniwake sali pafupi. Simungathe kuuza manambala a foni kwa anthu ena popanda chilolezo kuchokera kwa eni ake.

Ndizosayenerera kulankhula pa foni kuchipinda chakumbudzi. Choyamba, mumachedwa msanga, ndipo kachiwiri, mumanyoza interlocutor.

Musamagwiritse ntchito fakitale ndi malo odyera. Koma lamulo ili silikukhudzana ndi mabungwe akulira.

Timayankhula molondola.

Zili choncho kuti pa nthawi ya kukambirana kwa foni sikuli koyenera:

• Kuwombera (amakhulupirira kuti nkhope yosasangalatsa ndi kumwetulira ndi "omveka" kwa oyankhulana), kuti alankhule mokweza mawu:
• kulankhula momveka bwino;
• kusintha mozama mutu wa zokambirana, kusokoneza;
• kupereka ndemanga, kutsutsana;
• kuphatikiza kukambirana ndi zina;
• Kukhala chete kwa nthawi yaitali, osati kusonyeza chidwi pa zokambirana;
• Yambani foni.