Kukhoza kulandira alendo moyenera ndi luso lonse. Ndipo sikuti munthu aliyense m'dziko lathu amadziwa kukonzekera zikondwerero za banja molondola komanso moyenera, kwa anzanu, achibale, ogwira nawo ntchito ndi abwenzi omwe angathe kuitanidwa. Ngati mutasankha kusonkhana ndi abwenzi pa phwando lachikondwerero kunyumba, mumakhala ndi udindo wokonzekera chakudya chamadzulo, komanso mkhalidwe wa mlengalenga (kuphatikizapo ngakhale zing'onozing'ono monga mapepala, kuunikira ndi nyimbo).
Makhalidwe abwino amakhala ndi phwando lililonse. Ndipo muyenera kusamala kuti alendo azikhala omasuka komanso okondwa, choncho muyenera kuganizira mozama zoyenera kuchita ndi zomwe mungachite nawo.
Munthu aliyense ayenera kudziwitsidwa za komwe angatenge mbali. Panthawi yoikidwiratu, aliyense m'banja ayenera kukonzekera kubwera kwa alendo (zochitika zonse ziyenera kumaliza nakuchne, kuyeretsa kudatha, tebulo iyenera kuikidwa, mipando ikukonzedwa, etc.).
Chinthu choyamba kukumbukira ndi chakuti alendo akuyenera kulandiridwa ndi kuthandizidwa kuchotsa zovala zawo zamkati. Kumbukirani kuti simuyenera kuzipereka zokhazokha (izi ndizosasamala). Ngati munthu abwera kunyumba kwanu nthawi yoyamba, muyenera kumudziwa ndi malo a zipinda, ndiye mukhoza kupereka kuti mutsegule manja anu. Ngati si alendo onse omwe amadziwana bwino, onse ayenera kuperekedwa kwa mnzanu pa chidziwitso chapadera: muyenera kumudziwitsa mwamuna, mtsikana wamng'ono, amuna kapena akazi awiri, iwo amaimira wamng'ono kwambiri m'zaka. Dzanja lotambasulidwa ndi chizoloŵezi cha chiyanjano, kotero chizindikiro cha mkazi (kumalira kapena kunena zabwino) mkaziyo amamupatsa mwamuna poyamba, koma samaumirira.
Pogwiritsa ntchito alendo ambiri, dziwani kuti alendo onse samabwera nthawi yomweyo, choncho ndibwino kukonza chakudya chamadzulo cham'mawa (Lafourchette, yomwe inamasuliridwa kuchokera ku French ngati mphanda, maziko a chotukuka ndi zakudya zozizira monga canapes, tartlets, thalers, etc.).
Mwini chikondwererochi ayenera kusamalira chikhalidwe chonse cha tchuthi, kotero kuti ayambe kukambirana ndi kofunikira, momwe alendo onse angatengere mbali. Pakukambirana kulikonse, wina samalankhula motalika kwambiri, amauzidwa za iwo okha mwa njira yaing'ono komanso yodzichepetsa. Musati mufunse mafunso ochuluka kwambiri. Wothandizana nawo amafunika kuti amvetsere, ngakhale kuti simukufuna. Muyeneranso kusagwirizana, monga njira yomaliza, mukhoza kusonyeza kusakhutira kwanu. Popanda kutchula kapena kutchulapo zabwino zokhazokha.
Zonse zikadzasonkhanitsidwa, mwiniwake wa phwando akuitanira aliyense ku gome, osakayikira za kuyendetsa bwino komanso koyenera kwa alendo. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti payenera kukhala "malo" a "amuna" pa tebulo, chifukwa abambo amathandiza amayi kutenga malo awo - kukankhira mpando ndikusunthira.
Imodzi mwa malamulo oyambirira a malingaliro ndi kuti simungathe kukakamiza mlendo kuti adye - ngati munthu pazifukwa zina sakufuna kuyesa kudya, musamaumirirepo.
Kawirikawiri phwando la zikondwerero (malinga ndi mwambo) liri ndi nsalu yoyera, pakati pa tebulo iyenera kukhala ndi maasasita ndi zipatso, ndi m'malo ena pakati - mchere wambiri. Pakatikatikati, pamakhala zozizira zozizira, ndi bokosi la mkate m'mbali zosiyana. Zida zazikulu ndi zing'onozing'ono zimayikidwa pamtunda wofanana wina ndi mzake, kawirikawiri kabokosi kakang'ono kameneka kamayikidwa pamwamba pa osaya, ndi kumanzere - chitumbuwa chaching'ono. Kwa mbale zonse zomwe zili ndi zakudya ndi zopatsa zokometsera zimatumizidwa pazipangizo zina (supuni, foloko, spatula kapena tongs). Ngati phwando lachikondwerero limagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi mafoloko angapo (monga zopanda chakudya, nsomba kapena nyama), ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito poyambirira, kutumizira mbale (kuyambira ndi mbale zoopsa kwambiri). Kumanja kwa sitete ikani mpeni (tsamba mpaka mbale) ndi supuni, kumanzere - mphanda. Magulu onse a chivundikirocho ayenera kukhala ndi mbali yonyamulira pansi. Pamene zakudya zonse zidyedwa, m'pofunikira kuwuka, chotsani tebulo ndikukonzekera mchere. Zipangizo za mchere zimatsanulidwa ndi magalasi a vinyo kapena amatumizidwa atachotsedwa zipangizo zina ndi mbale.
Nthawi zina akamagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi nsalu zotchinga, amaikidwa pamadzulo, ndipo atatha kudya amawapukutira ndi milomo ndikuyika pa tebulo kumanzere kwa mbale (koma osati kupukuta).
Mkate, makeke, manja a zipatso. Ngati mbaleyo ili kutali ndi inu, simungathe kuufikira, muyenera kufunsa wina kuti akupatseni pafupi (musaiwale kuyamika ntchitoyo patsogolo). Pulogalamu yonse imachotsedwa pansi, osakhudza chakudya. Pa chakudya, muli mpeni mu dzanja lamanja, ndi mphanda kumanzere. Ngati muwona kuti wina wochokera kwa alendo oitanidwa aika mpeni ndi mphanda pamphepete mwake-izi zikutanthauza kuti munthuyo watsiriza kudya.
Mwini ndi wokonzekera phwando sayenera kusiya alendo ake kwa nthawi yayitali, chifukwa ichi ndi chosamveka komanso chosayenera. M'malo mwake, ndikofunikira kuyesa kusonyeza kudera nkhaŵa kwa mlendo aliyense - chinachake chopereka, chithandizo, chithandizo ndi zina zotero.
Kumbukirani kuti atatha kudya, alendo amafuna kumasuka, kupuma kapena kuvina, choncho ndikofunikira kusankha nyimbo zam'mbuyo, chifukwa zimachokera kumbuyo kwa nyimbo zomwe zimachitika pa holideyo komanso zomwe zimasangalatsa. Nyimbo zimasowa zosavuta, zosavuta komanso zosavuta.
Alendo ambiri pambuyo pa tchuthi angapereke thandizo lawo poyeretsa ndi kutsuka mbale. Pachifukwa ichi, zingakhale zabwino kwambiri osati kuziphatikizira, koma kuyamika chifukwa cha kupereka ndi khalidwe. Alendo onse amawatumizira ku malo awo, koma ngati pali munthu pakati pa alendo omwe akuyenera kupititsidwa kuti ayime, sayenera kuthandizidwa, ngati kuli kotheka, kuyitanitsa tekisi.