Kodi muyenera kuyenda ndi chibwenzi pansi pa denga limodzi? Ndipo izi zingakhudze bwanji ubale wanu wapamtima? Ndipo osati wokondana basi? Funso limeneli limadandaula amayi ambiri amakono. Pambuyo pa zonse, ndondomeko yowonetsera: ukwati - mgwirizano wa moyo umayesedwa kale ngati pafupifupi ambiri a ife. Nanga bwanji ngati "sitikugwirizana ndi zilembo"? Ndicho chifukwa chake anthu ambiri amasankha kusuntha pasadakhale. Nchiyani chimatsatira ndiye? Momwe mungachitire molondola kuti musapangitse moyo kukhala pankhondo? Mudzadabwa, koma pali malamulo asanu okha oyenera kukhala pamodzi. Ndi zophweka. Wowona mtima.
1. Ngati simukudziwa patronymic yake, tenga nthawi. Chitsanzo chabwino: kuyesayesa kugwirizanitsa kunayamba kwambiri. Anzanga anawauza iwo kumidzi, pa phwando la jazz, ndipo nthawi yomweyo anafikira wina ndi mnzake. Patatha sabata, adavomereza chikondi chake, ndipo patatha mwezi umodzi adasamukira kwa iye. Usiku woyamba pa malo omwe anthu amakhalamo umakhala ngati izi: Mphindi zisanu ndi zinayi kuti adye chakudya ndi televizioni, ndiye maola atatu ogonana. Chirichonse chinali chabwino kwambiri. Koma patapita miyezi inayi adathawa, ndikuyika zinyalala zake m'thumba limodzi la masewera. Kodi iwo anawononga chiyani? Zakale kuti mulembe. Zaka chikwi ndi chimodzi chodabwitsa cha zomwe zimachitika tsiku ndi tsiku.
Iye sankadziwa momwe angalekerere. Ndipo nayenso. Anakhumudwitsidwa - komanso anali. Ngati atatha kutsimikizira kuti anali wodzipereka kwa iye, ngati Labrador, amatha kumukhululukira chizolowezi chokankhira kumbuyo kwake ndi mphanda woti adye. Ndipo ngati iye anali ndi nzeru ndi chikhumbo chodziwa chomwe dzina la bambo ake linali, iye sakanati asokoneze kwambiri chifukwa chakuti iye samatseka chitseko cha chimbudzi. Ayi. Kawirikawiri, nkhani yeniyeni ya momwe moyo unaphetsera chirichonse. Kotero chonde samalani ndi izi. Yesetsani kuyang'ana mwakuya mu "wokhala naye" watsopano. Phunzirani zambiri za izo, pasanapite nthawi, ganizirani zomwe mungakhululukire. Kuphatikizana n'kofunikira. Popanda iwo, kukhala pamodzi sikungokhalako. Pitirizani ku lamulo lotsatira.
2. Pitirizani mtunda - chikole cha malingaliro atsopano. Mudziko muli zosiyana zokhazokha pa lamulo ili lagolide. Mwachitsanzo: Dima ankakhala limodzi ndi amzake Olya zaka ziwiri, ndipo amakhala osangalala kwambiri kuti sangathe kuyang'ana popanda misozi yokhudzidwa. Dima amamusiya mwamantha nthawi yake, ndipo amamusiya ndi zida zachikondi, nthawi zina zimakhala zosavuta, m'malo osayembekezereka. Ndipo chirichonse ndi chodabwitsa kwambiri, kuti nthawizina ndimangofuna kufunsa: mungachite bwanji chinachake?
Mwachidziwikire, sichidziwika kuti chidzatha bwanji. Kawirikawiri osati, anthu amangowonjezera "nthawi yachisangalalo", ngati tiyi wokoma kwambiri. Kutalika mu ubale ndi kofunika basi. Kuchokera mu malo osungirako malingaliro, zokhumba zachinsinsi, zilakolako zamanyala. Pamene zonse zikuchitika bwino, tsiku ndi tsiku - posachedwa kapena potsiriza adzatopa nazo. Makamaka ngati achinyamata amakhala pamodzi. Ngakhale, Mulungu amaletsa aliyense wa ife kugwera m'gulu lazosiyana ...
3. Sewerani ufulu wanu. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa ndinu anthu awiri osiyana kwambiri. Musaiwale izi! Chitsanzo chabwino: Dean ndi Kolya anachita zonse pamodzi. Nthawi zonse ndi kulikonse. Kenaka mwadzidzidzi madzulo amodzi "okongola" mu ubale wawo ngati chiphalaphala. Zinachitika kuti aliyense wa iwo amangolekerera, kumvera wina. Koma chikondi chinapambana, ndipo iwo amatha kupeza njira yodziwika. Tsopano iwo amadya chakudya chosiyana. Atafika kunyumba, Dean akudalira maapulo, ndipo Kolya, m'mawu ake omwe, amadya "chinachake chowotcha." "Madzulo, ndimadya mofulumira ndi chinachake chowala, ndipo amadya mochedwa ndipo amasankha mafuta ndi zokometsera," anatero Dina. "Ife timadya tokha, ndizo zokha zomwe timakhala nazo, ndithudi, zofala." Vuto linathetsedwa. Aliyense anakhalabe pambali pake kuti asasokoneze maubwenzi. Moona mtima komanso m'njira yachikulire.
4. Musapite kukasunga buku lanu. Zili ngati zonyansa monga kuyesa kutenga mimba, kuti musataye wokondedwa. Chitsanzo chabwino: Yura amaganiza kuti nyumba yodziwika bwino (yokhala ndi zipangizo zamtengo wapatali zamtengo wapatali) idzamuthandiza kusunga ambuye pafupi naye. Koma panali kusemphana - iwo ankatsutsana chifukwa cha mtundu wa zojambulazo, zomwe chilakolako chawo chokhazikika chinawongolera pang'onopang'ono. Yura anadandaula kuti: "Moyo wathu wonse unangowonjezera kusungulumwa kwathu.
Ngati simukudziwa za mphamvu ya malingaliro anu, kapena osakonzekeretsani moyo pamodzi - musakhale opusa. Nyumba zonse - o, sungasunge chikondi chanu! Ndipo amatha kukulitsa mavuto. Ndipo bwanji!
5. Apatseni makiyi anu okondedwa (kuchokera kutsekedwa). Nthawi zina sikofunika kuti "mwathunthu" mubwere pamodzi. Mukhoza kungosinthanitsa makiyi kuchokera ku nyumba zanu kuti mukhale ndi nthawi ina iliyonse. Koma musakhale pamodzi. Chitsanzo chabwino: Christina ndi Mitya adapeza kuti wina akhoza kukhala ndi moyo, monga akunena, apa ndi apo ndikusintha mafungulo kuchokera kunyumba zawo. "Tsopano zovala zanga zimadzaza ndi nsalu, koma panthawi yomweyi ndasunga malo omwe mungapume," adatero Dmitri. "Mwa kuyankhula kwina, mavalidwe ake okha ndi chikwama cha ski akusambira kwa ine!"
Zingakhale njira yotulutsira ngati simunatsimikize kuti cholinga chanu chidzatha. Mtundu wa "nthawi yosintha." Ndipo apo-nthawi ndi kumverera zidzasonyeza.