Mfulu ndi okongola
Kugonana kosiyana ndi abwenzi osiyanasiyana popanda chikhumbo chokhazikitsa ubale wamphamvu ndi khalidwe la anyamata ambiri ndi akazi ochepa. Mkazi amasangalala osati kugonana kokha, komanso kuchokera ku mtundu wa ziwonetsero - samabisa okondedwa ake, komanso kuchokera ku mphamvu yoonekera pa iwo - ndizosangalatsa kudziwa mphamvu ya thupi lanu, mphamvu yanu yachibadwa pa munthu.
Mmene angachitire akazi ake
Ena ali chete: "Boma lake!" Ndipo ndi chidwi: "Chabwino, muyenera! Auzeni zambiri! "Anthu ambiri - osakondwera, amawatcha kuti nymphomaniac, amatsutsidwa kuti ali ndi chiwerewere kapena amamvera chisoni omwe amanena kuti ayenera kukhala woopsya yekha komanso osasangalala, atapulumuka kuvutika maganizo, kufunafuna abwenzi atsopano kuvutika, chifukwa sakudziwa kulimbikitsa ubale wabwino ndi amuna ndi posakhalitsa kapena kudzipachika yekha, kapena kumira, kapena kutenga khansa kuchisoni ndi kusadziwika kwa munthu. Pali zifukwa ziwiri za udani wazimayi: nsanje ndi kudodometsedwa mtima - "takhala tikuuzidwa kuti izi sizingaloledwe!" Mphungu yaying'ono kwa bwenzi lomasuka kugonana imasunthira mu moyo ngakhale iwo omwe ali okhutira ndi moyo wawo wa kugonana: amazindikira zomwe akulota, koma sangakwanitse, chifukwa ali ndi udindo ndi wokondedwa wawo. Kuchitira nsanje akazi ake, kukhala ndi moyo kapena kusagonana, kapena osasangalala nawo. Iwo amati: "Kudziona kuti ndine wofunika sikungandilole ine kuti nditsike kumalo osokoneza bongo." Koma ulemu wake suli kanthu kochita ndi izo. Sagone ndi aliyense, chifukwa ali ndi mantha kwambiri ndi maofesi awo, amawopa kutchedwa "kuyenda anthu", amadikirira chikondi chachikulu kumanda, sakudziwa kulankhula ndi amuna, ndipo amakhala kutali nawo. Kapena mufunseni zapamwamba pamalingaliro, makhalidwe ndi kuleza mtima kwa mnzanu yemwe mwamuna weniweni sangakwanitse. Ndipo sawayandikira. Amayi onsewa, mmalo mozindikira mavuto awo, amatsutsa amene alibe mavutowa, koma kugonana ndi. Kusokonezeka ndi kukanidwa ndi njira yofananamo yokhudzana ndi kugonana ndi amayi omwe kholo lawo limapangitsa kuti iwo aziona kuti ndi zachiwerewere. Amafuna kumverera zachikhalidwe zosamvetsetseka ndi zoyera, kugonana ndi "ntchito yonyansa", yomwe ingakhoze kulungamitsidwa ndi malingaliro enieni, komanso ngakhale - osati pazochitika zonse zogonana. Makamaka amakhumudwa kwambiri ndi omwe amagwiritsa ntchito kugonana ngati lasso powasunga ndi kuphunzitsa amuna: ngati amayi ena ali ndi mtima wofunitsitsa kugonana, mwamuna safuna kukhala ndi yemwe "amapereka" malingana ndi zochita zake, koma adzapeza wina yemwe amakhala wokondwa nthawi zonse . Kuzunzidwa sikungatheke. Ndipo amatsimikizira kuti kugonana kokha chifukwa cha kukhutira ndi kugonana ndi kolakwika komanso kunyansa. Ndi kosavuta kuti iwo azitsutsa ena kuposa kuvomereza moona mtima malonda awo. Ngati mukudzivomereza nokha, monga momwe ziliri, kaduka kowawa kudzakhala kochepa, ndi chimwemwe - zambiri.
Kuwerengera kachitidwe
Makhalidwe a Larisa palibe choyipa, ndipo palibe chifukwa choti wina amvetsetse. Ngakhale mukudabwa ndi mkwiyo kapena kupsa mtima, koma simungamutche kuti hule. Palibe lamulo limodzi losavomerezeka la anthu omwe amalephera: Munthu wokondedwa samasintha chifukwa chosakhalapo, ndalama zogonana ndi mphatso sizikusowa, chifukwa cha ntchito yake sichiperekedwa. Palibe amuna omwe samanama: moona mtima akuti: "Ndikufuna" - "Sindikufuna." Ngakhale mosaloledwa, simungathe kumuimba mlandu: amadzikonda yekha ndipo amasankha mosamala anzake.
Mfundo yodalirika
Pofuna kugonana ndi amayi ndi abambo, ma testosterone amasonkhana. Mwa amuna, amapangidwa zambiri, kwa akazi - osachepera. Amapangitsa anthu kuti azichita zachiwerewere, koma komanso olimbitsa mtima, olimbikira komanso omwe ali ndi zolinga. Mphuno yamtundu wa congenital ndi yosiyana kwambiri. Mzimayi wina amalephera kuchita zachiwerewere chaka chimodzi. Wina pamwezi kenako akukwera pamwamba pa khoma ndipo ali okonzeka kumenyana ndi munthu woyamba kugwa. Zizindikiro za mlingo wa mahomoni, kapena zowonjezereka - zogonjetsa mphamvu ya chilakolako cha testosterone - zingaperekedwe kwa mwana wamkazi, onse kudzera mwa mayi wokonda kwambiri komanso abambo ofooketsa, kugonana kwa kholo kulibe kanthu.
Chiphunzitso cha kupambana
Pamwamba pa kupambana, iwe umakhala wokhazikika, komanso pamtundu wa thupi, ndipo panthawi imodzimodzi - wodziimira yekha, woopsa komanso wolimba mtima. Thupi lathu limamangidwanso kuti tikwanitse kufika pamwamba. Ndipo ngati mkazi nthawi zambiri amamuuza kuti ndi wokongola-wolimba-wolimba mtima ndipo amamuyamikira, ndiye kugonana kwake kumakula pamodzi ndi kudzidalira. Koma kumbukirani: mosasamala kanthu momwe mumagwirira ntchito, kugonana sikudzawonjezeka, ngati ntchitoyo siyikukhudzanso ndi kuvomereza ena, kutamanda ndi mphotho.
Karmic Theory
Tiyenera, muzochitika zathu zonse za padziko lapansi, tipeze mbali zina za umoyo waumunthu. Ndipo kugonana kwapamwamba kumaperekedwa kuti tithe kukwaniritsa luso la chikondi chakuthupi, ife tokha tinkasangalala nawo mbali zonse ndipo taphunzira kubweretsa chimwemwe kwa ena. Pokhapokha titakwaniritsa kukondana kwathunthu, kugonana, timatha kusamukira ku malo ena - chikondi cha uzimu. Choncho, kugonana sikungakanidwe. Mukungoyenera kuthetsa. Nthawi zina kugonana kwapamwamba kumakhala ndi vuto linalake lomwe liyenera kuthetsedwa. Ngati inu mumatengeredwa kale mmbuyo munasiya zosangalatsa zakuthupi ndi kunyalanyaza zofuna za munthu wokondedwa, lero mumapeza kugonana kosavomerezeka kwenikweni kuti mumve chomwe chiri pamene palibe kugonana kokwanira ndikukonza zolakwa zanu.
Nthano za nyenyezi
Malinga ndi okhulupirira nyenyezi, zosowa zathu zogonana zimakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi malo omwe nyenyezi za kubadwa - makamaka Venus, Mars, Sun ndi Moon. Pa zizindikiro za zodiac, anthu omwe sagwirizane kwambiri ndi a Scorpions ndi Aries. Phunzirani zonse za inu nokha mu kugonana kungakhale pa horoscope, yolembedwa ndi ora ndi tsiku la kubadwa.
Nthano ya Wiccan
Azimayi onse amapangidwa chifukwa cha chikondi. Pamoyo wonse, mkazi ayenera kukonda amuna ambiri, chifukwa ali owuzidwa ndi chikondi chathu ndipo amachokera kwa iwo mphamvu kuntchito, ndakatulo, nyimbo ndi mitundu yonse yodabwitsa. Timakonda anthu m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Azimayi ena amapatsidwa mphamvu yokonda ndi kutumiza mphamvu pazomwe amauzidwa. Amagwera m'chikondi, koma pa kugonana amasungidwa, nthawi zambiri amakhala oyera, ndipo amalimbikitsanso anthu kulenga nzeru. Azimayi ena amapereka mphamvu kudzera mwa chilakolako chakuthupi kwa amuna. Iwo ndi achigololo kwambiri ndipo amamupatsa mwamuna kumasulidwa, kumatha kufotokozera momasuka maganizo ake. Onsewo ndi okondweretsa mofanana ndipo sayenera kudziletsa okha mu china chilichonse ndi kuwakakamiza pachabe. Ndiyeno aliyense adzakhala wosangalala - onse azimayi ndi amuna.
Amuna okhaokha, kugonana mosiyana
Oksana anasandulika kukhala mkazi wa "supersexual" chifukwa cha mwamuna wake. Ayi, sanaphunzire Tao wachikondi ndipo sanaulule duwa la kugonana kwake ndi kuyesayesa mwamphamvu pa nkhani ya kugonana kwa tantric. Anangotumiza mkazi wake wovomerezeka ku Germany kuti akapeze ndalama zothandizira banja lake monga mtsogoleri wa hotelo yapayekha. Gulu lake laling'onoting'ono la kugulitsa mawindo a glass window linatentha, ndipo Oksana, mphunzitsi wodekha, wogonjera ndi wofatsa wa Chijeremani, anayenera kupulumutsa mwamuna wake, mwana wamkazi wa khumi, ndi apongozi ake. Chifukwa cha khama lake komanso kuchita kwake, hoteloyi inayamba kubweretsa phindu kwa mwiniwakeyo. Chaka chotsatira Oksana adayamba mnyamata wokondedwa - mwana wa mwiniwake. Ndipo ndinapeza zosangalatsa za kugonana. Ali ndi mwamuna wake kwa zaka khumi ndi zisanu zaukwati iye anali ndi ziphuphu zitatu. Chochita chirichonse chinali limodzi ndi wokonda chiwonetsero. Chifukwa chiyani? Mwamuna wake anali munthu wamng'ono kwambiri, ndipo chikhalidwe chake chachikazi pa kugonana sichinamuchitire iye. Ndipo wokondeka, mnyamata wokondeka ndi wamphamvu amene anayenda pabedi ndi mphamvu ya kalulu pa mabatire, adayankhabe! Patapita chaka ndi theka, Oksana anabwerera ku Riga, chifukwa adakondabe banja. Ndi kufotokoza kwa mnzanga wa ku Germany anapeza ntchito yabwino. Ndipo amuike mwamuna wake asanadziwe: kawiri pachaka kwa mwezi amachoka ku Latvia ndikukumana naye wokonda. Mwamuna wanga anavomera. Panthawiyi, Oksana amapanga kusagonana ndi anzako mu Finnish bathhouse kapena maphunziro opititsa patsogolo. Iye samamva chisoni ndipo amakhutitsidwa ndi chirichonse. Ubwino wa udindo wake: sakusowa kunama. Amuna amaganiza kuti: "Chabwino, mwamunayo - adatumiza mkazi wake kuti akapeze ndalama, anamupatsa gudumu m'manja mwake. Ndipo tsopano_ndizo zomwe iye akusowa! Sindisiya ine - ndine mwamuna weniweni! "Ndipo akazi amaganiza kuti:" Amabwezera mwamuna wake chifukwa chosachita ngati mwamuna. " Ndipo amadziwatsutsa. Kwa onse, nkofunika kuti Oksana asafune kusiya mwamuna wake, chifukwa mwa njira yake amamukonda. Cons: mwamuna akhoza kupanduka ndi kuletsa mgwirizano wabwino chotero.
Kuposa udindo, makamaka kugonana
Izi ndizofunikira kuti zitsimikizidwe kuti ndizochita zachiwerewere "zaulere ndi zachiwerewere". Ufulu wa zachuma, mawonekedwe okongola ndi okonzeka bwino, kukhumba kukhumba, ndi kudzidalira, kuti mulekerere kulekerera kukana kwa amuna omwe ali nawo ufulu. Timakhulupirira kuti akazi oterowa, kukhala ngati amuna ogonana, amangowonekera m'masiku athu okha. Ndipo timafotokoza maonekedwe ake mwa kumasulidwa, zomwe zimathandiza kuti tisadalire thumba la munthu, komanso kupangidwa kwa mapiritsi opatsirana omwe amalepheretsa kutenga mimba mwangozi. Ndipotu, amayi osagwirizana ndi amuna komanso akazi okonda kwambiri zachiwerewere akhala nthawi zonse. Zoonadi, iwo adakumana ndi anthu apamwamba kwambiri, omwe ali ndi mphamvu ndi ulemerero, komwe kunali kupambana ndipo kunali kotheka kusaganizira za m'mene angakhalire komanso momwe angadyetse ana. Ndikukumbukira kukumbukira Catherine Wamkulu, Sarah Bernhard, Golda Meir, Madeleine Albright. Ndipo pakalipano, kuti asonyeze kugonana kwawo mwaufulu komanso kwa zana, amayi amafunika kuti akhale, ngati si mfumukazi, osakayikira bizinesi, bwana kapena mwini nyumba komanso kuti apindule nawo. Aliyense ayenera kuwona kuti mkazi amabweretsa pabedi amuna osati ndalama komanso osati kukweza anthu. Ndiyeno amuna adzayifunafuna, akazi amalemekeza, ndipo palibe wina, ngakhale ndi mkwiyo, angatchule kuti hule. Kodi ndizokhumudwitsa? Mwinamwake. Koma zimagwira ntchito.
Ndani-chifukwa cha malingaliro, amene_wa kukongola
Mkazi wamwamuna wapamwamba ndi chilakolako chogonana nthawi zonse komanso kukhala ndi mwayi wokondwera nawo. Ndipo, mwa njira yomwe tikuchotsera zosowa zathu - izi ndizo ntchito yathu. Tikufuna - timasankha anzathu apamtima. Mukufuna - okonzeka mosakayika pansi pa lamba. Tikufuna - timasintha okonda Lachinayi lirilonse. Tikufuna - tikhala okhulupirika kwa mwamuna kapena bwenzi lathu. Ndimakumbukira momwe ziwerengero zowonjezera zandichitikira zaka zingapo zapitazo: kawirikawiri zimagonana ndipo sizingatheke kuti asinthe amuna awo ndi Italy. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa mwa amuna awo iwo ali ndi Italy ochepa okonda kwambiri. Ngati ali pabedi mkazi yemwe ali ndi chilakolako chachikulu cha kugonana ali ndi munthu wodetsa nkhawa, wothandizira kwambiri - amatha kuyendetsa bwenzi limodzi ndi kutsogolera kunja, koma mwachikhalidwe ndi zosiyana siyana zokondweretsa zolaula - moyo wapamwamba ndi wosasangalatsa.