Pambuyo poyambitsa zokambirana, zinadziwika kuti anthu ambiri amayang'ana TV kuti athe kumasuka kapena nthawi kuti azidzipatula okha ku chirichonse. Akatswiri a maganizo amatsimikizira kuti pakuonera TV, mavutowa amatha, koma tikangowatulutsa, zonse zimabwerera kuzinthu zachilendo, kapena zimadutsa chiwerengero choyambirira, pamlingo winawake.
Ndipo sizosadabwitsa, mwatsoka, kuti mu ubale wa banja ukuchitika pakapita nthawi, mwamuna ndi mkazi amachokerana wina ndi mzake, chifukwa amasiya kugwirizana. Kwa kamodzi m'moyo wanga tamva kapena tawona kuti awiriwa akuonera TV muzipinda zosiyanasiyana kapena osasintha. Alibe filimu yodziwika bwino kapena filimu, osatchula zochitika zina zomwe amakonda. Zimakhala zosavuta kuti mabanja azikumana pamene anthu awiri achikondi amawonera pulogalamuyi palimodzi, kukambirana nawo mtsogolo. Ndipo ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe zimagwirizanitsa mu ubale. Ndipotu, mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kukhala ndi zozoloŵera zomwe amakonda.
Koma ichi sichitha kuthetsa vuto lina lofunika kwambiri lokhudzana ndi momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito nthawi yaulere m'banja. Pambuyo pa zonse, malinga ndi umboni wa maphunziro, zinadziwika kuti ntchito sikuti yokha ya chikhalidwe, komanso zochitika za thupi ndizobadwa kwa atatu okha omwe amamvetsera, ndipo kwa anthu anayi omwe amayankha izi sizodziwika ngakhale nthawi ndi nthawi.
Kuchepetsa kuyendetsa galimoto kumaika moyo pachiswe munthu ndi maganizo. Izi zinkasokoneza maganizo a dziko lapansi kuti, chifukwa cha bungwe la World Health Organization, pulojekiti idalimbikitsidwa yomwe imalimbikitsa lingaliro la kayendetsedwe ka thanzi. Ndipotu madokotala ambiri amakhulupirira kuti ntchito yofala kwambiri ndi mwayi wokambirana ndi chilengedwe ndizo zowonongeka kwambiri, muukwati komanso m'moyo wamba. Ndipo okwatirana omwe amaphatikiza pamodzi, pafupi ndi mikangano ya banja ndi machitidwe opweteka nthawi zambiri amangomva kuchokera kwa anthu ena.
Pa zosangalatsa zoterezi monga chigwirizano chokwera pama skate, mahatchi, kuthamanga, madzi, mapiri ndi maulendo oyendayenda, ndi zachilengedwe kupereka ndalama zochuluka kusiyana ndi kumangopita ku paki kapena kusodza. Koma ubwino wawo wa ubale wa iwo okha ndi wosadziwika bwino. Ndipo ngati banja liri ndi mwana, ndiye kuti zosangalatsa za banja ngati zimenezi zimathandiza kuthana ndi mavuto a achinyamata mofulumira komanso moyenera.
Kuvina pakati pa maiko awiri kumadzulo ndilo malo otchuka kwambiri achibale. Banja lachichepere lidzasuntha mosavuta zomwe zimatchedwa "kugaya" mu ubalewu, ndipo maanja omwe akhala pamodzi palimodzi kwa zaka makumi awiri, mu chikhalidwe ichi, akukumana ndi malingaliro oyamba a chibwenzi.
Kuyankhulana ndi ziweto ndizo zowonongeka kwambiri, mutatha ntchito zomwe tatchulazi zokhudzana ndi zochitika. Kafukufuku wambiri amasonyeza kuti ndizo kusamalira aliyense, kuphatikizapo ziweto, pakati pa zifukwa zazikulu zopezera moyo.
Poganizira za mutu wakuti "Mwamuna ndi Mkazi: zofuna zodziwika", tikhoza kugogomezera zochitika zina zabwino kwambiri, zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri chikhalidwe cha banja. Chinthu choterocho chimasewera ndi masewera a banja, kuphatikizapo masewera okha.
Mwachitsanzo, mabanja a ku America amapita ku maphunziro apadera omwe angathe kusankha bwino masewera omwe amayenera banja lawo kuposa ena. Akatswiri a zamaganizo atulukira nthawi yochititsa chidwi yomwe anthu onse amafunika kuphunzitsidwa kusewera. Izi zimagwira ntchito kwa ana ndi akulu, chifukwa ana sakudziwa momwe, komanso akuluakulu sakudziwa momwe angachitire. Ndipotu, zokondweretsa ndi zokonda zilizonse ziyenera kukhala ndi zotsatirapo. Pano pamaphunziro otero maanja amawatenga.
Chinthu chinanso chotsitsimula zapakhomo ndi kupita ku museums. Koma, mwatsoka, chaka chilichonse chiŵerengero cha okwatirana omwe amapangitsa mabanja kupita ku museums za mtundu uliwonse, mochuluka amachepa. Otsutsa amene anachita nawo maphunzirowa adavomereza kuti ndi khumi okha mwa iwo omwe adafika ku museums mumzaka zisanu zapitazo. Ndipo makumi asanu ndi awiri mwa anthu 100 alionse omwe anafunsidwa adanena kuti akufuna kuphunzitsa ana awo chikondi chojambula, koma zonse sizikwanira nthawi ino.
Mofananamo, okwatirana sayenera kuthandizidwa pa vuto ili, vuto la zozoloŵera zomwe amakonda. Inde, simukuyenera kuiwala za izo. Aliyense m'banja, kupatulapo wamkulu, ayenera kukhala ndi zofuna zake zaumwini. Pambuyo pake, mwachitsanzo, bokosi la mkazi silolomwe iye analota, kapena kuchita masewera akummawa kwa munthu-kulankhula mofatsa osati zomwe dokotala adalamula.
Inde, ngati mwamunayo amapita kukawedza kapena kusaka, ndipo mkazi amakhala pakhomo ndikuyeretsa, izi sizikhala ndi phindu lapadera pa ubale wa banja. Mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kukhala ndi zinthu zofanana, mwinamwake posachedwa adzasokonezedwa ndi kusiyana uku. Koma, ngati panthawiyi apita ku masewero olimbitsa thupi kapena kujambula, ndiye kuti msinkhu wa mgwirizano ndi mtendere wa m'maganizo mu banja ukutsimikizirika kuwonjezeka.