Pofuna kuti mkazi aliyense atha kuyamba kuphunzira sayansi pansi pa mutu wakuti: "Momwe tingagonjetse munthu aliyense," tidzakhala ndi mfundo zochepa zoyambirira.
1. Kodi uyu ndiye "Kalonga"?
Musanagwiritse ntchito spell, sankhani ngati uyu ndi mwamuna wa maloto anu ? Ndipotu simukusowa aliyense? Onetsetsani kuti mudziwe za zomwe adachita kale, onani zochita zake, phunzirani zizoloŵezi. Mwinamwake mukukonzekera chidziwitso, "kuzindikira" kosayembekezeka kudzachitika. Zingatheke kuti simunalota za munthu woteroyo. Kenaka imani, puma, ndikuyambiranso kufunafuna kalonga kumbali inayo. Ndipotu, chofunika kwambiri ndi mtendere wanu wa m'maganizo.
2. Phunzirani zofuna zake.
Onetsetsani kuti mudziwe zambiri zomwe mumasankha. Phunzirani zambiri za nkhani ya chidwi chake. Sungani zinthu kuchokera kuzinthu zosiyanasiyana: mabuku, magazini, intaneti. Lembani mosamala ndikumenyana. Khalani omasuka kuyambitsa zokambirana pa mutu wokondweretsa. Mudzagonjetsa munthu ndi changu chachikulu komanso luso lanu pankhaniyi. Zidzamukopa ndipo zidzakupangitsani ulemu. Zomwe zimagwirizanitsa zimagwirizana chimodzimodzi.
3. Khalani wokhulupirika kwa anzanu.
Ponena za ubale wa munthu mavesi ndi nyimbo zambiri zalembedwa. Zonsezi zikusonyeza kuti mwamuna ndi abwenzi ake ndi achibale ake achiwiri. Wodziwa bwino ndi abwenzi ake ndipo pozindikira kuti "samuponyera kuphompho," muwatengere iwo. Musalepheretse mwamuna kuchoka ndi kampani ku bathhouse kapena nyumba ya mowa - kulemekeza chikondi chake. Onetsani chimwemwe chifukwa cha kupambana kwa abwenzi ndikudandaula kugonjetsedwa kwawo pamodzi ndi wosankhidwa, khalani omvera chisoni. Inu mudzagonjetsa munthu aliyense mwa njira iyi ndi kukweza chiwerengero chanu mmaso ake ku chiwerengero chapamwamba. Pomwepo, iwe umapeza ufulu kukhulupirika kwake kwa abwenzi ake ndi maphwando a amayi.
4. Nsanje yapamwamba.
Azimayi, omwe, ngati mchenga, amawotha ndi okondweretsa, omwe akuyimira kugonana amphamvu sakufuna. Mwamuna amakopeka ndi kupsinjika kwa ubale. Kuyenda pamphepete ndi kusakhoza kufotokozera zomwe muyenera kuyembekezera mumphindi wotsatira ndi adrenaline kwa iye, popanda zomwe sangathe. Komabe, sikoyenera kuti nthawi zonse "azikongoletsa" moyo wake ndi chizoloŵezi chokwiya ndi chipsinjo. Onse aŵiri inu mudzatopa mwamsanga ndi izi. Ndipo Mulungu asalole, ngalawayo idzapita kukayang'ana pa doko lamtendere, ngakhale ngati kanthawi.
Onetsani mwachisoni chakudzikayika nokha, kutsindika kufunsa kwakukulu kwa munthu, koma ... moyenera. Kuti musalephere kudzizindikira nokha weniweni, mukukhulupirira mawu anu.
5. Phunzirani kumvetsera.
Chilengedwe chamatipatsa ife makutu awiri ndi kamodzi kamodzi. Akazi wokondedwa, kumbukirani izi. Ngakhale kuti miseche imayesedwa, yesetsani kuti musasokoneze wosankhidwa wanu ndi phokoso lokhazikika komanso lokhazikika. Amuna amatha kutopa ndi okongola, koma wogonjetsa wamantha wa mtima wawo. Mvetserani kwa wokondedwa wanu mosamala ndi mwamtendere. Musamamusokoneze pamene akukambirana. Funsani mafunso akutsogolera, kumulimbikitsa kuti alankhule za iye yekha, zomwe wapindula, kupambana ndi kupambana. Izi zidzakwaniritsa "zovuta kwambiri" za munthu aliyense. Chifukwa chakuti mumakhudzidwa ndi umunthu wake, adzakunyamulani m'manja mwake. Apa, choonadi ndi chimodzi "koma". Izi zichitika ngati iye sali wodzipusitsa yekha ndipo osati wodzikuza ku Turkey, yemwe sangakhoze kuyamikira kuyamikira kwanu.