Mu chikhalidwe chathu, malingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana amamveka kwambiri ngati gawo la moyo. Ku Asia, maganizo osiyana pa kugonana. M'mayiko ena lero atsikana amaphunzira luso la zipinda zogonana asanalowe m'banja. Zochita za Daoist zimakulolani kumvetsetsa zosowa zanu ndi zofuna za mnzako, kuthandizira kupeza maluso angapo a "luso" lokhala ndi thupi lanu, ndipo chifukwa cha ichi, kukhudzidwa kumakula, pali chisankho kuchokera kuzinthu zambiri: kugonana pang'onopang'ono, mwamsanga, kwa nthawi yayitali ... Chinthu chachikulu ndichoti chidzakhala zokondweretsa, zosangalatsa ndi zosangalatsa. Inde, munthu ayenera kupeza luso lothandiza la ambuye a Taoist osati m'mabuku kapena m'nkhani, koma polumikizana ndi mphunzitsi waluso. Nazi malingaliro kwa iwo amene akufuna kukwaniritsa mgwirizano wa Taoist mu kugonana. Taganizirani momwe mukufunira kuti izi zichitike. Tachita zonsezi kamodzi, pamene tinkalingalira za momwe zidzakhalire nthawi yoyamba, pa tsiku lathu loyamba ndi okondedwa athu. Ndibwino kuti nthawi zonse mubwerere kumaganizidwe awa. Ndondomeko kuti ndikwaniritse zolaula, ndimatha kuphunzitsa pafupifupi chirichonse, koma kukongola kwa zomwe zikuchitika kumapangitsa mpikisano wokondana, womwe umayenera kumudziwitsa mtsikanayo.
Pangani holide ndi manja anu. Ngati mukufuna tchuthi mu ubale wautali, konzani. Phunzirani nokha ndikupatsa wokondedwa wanu khadi. Akazi ali ndi chidziwitso chokwanira kuti ngati akufuna, ndiye ayenera kulingalira momwe mumakonda. Patapita nthawi ndikutsogolera masemina a amayi, mochulukitsa ndikuwona kuti amayi samvetsa - mwamuna kwambiri akufuna kukwaniritsa mkazi komanso wokonda kugonana. Choncho, ngati munthu sakuchita zomwe mukufuna kuchokera kwa iye, mwina sanamvetse zomwe mumakonda kwambiri. Komanso, amayi samadzifunira okha momwe amachitira zimenezi, kuphatikizapo m'zinthu zowopsya za moyo zimayenda. Ndimalangiza mtsikanayo kuti amvetse zomwe amakonda. Ukadakhala wabwino kotero, koma tsopano ndi wosiyana kwambiri. Dzisokonezeni nokha ndikumvetsetsa bwino. Chabwino, komanso chofunika kwambiri - muuzeni. Dulani mapu: kuti, bwanji ndi chiyani. Sungani malo kuti mugonane. Patsiku loyamba zinthu zonse ndi zokongola: makandulo akuyaka, nyimbo zimatengedwa, bedi latsopano ndi ... Kenako timayamba m'chipinda chogona kuti tidye, kugwira ntchito, kuyankhula, kugona, madzulo komweko kusewera ana ... Chipinda chagona ndi malo opatulika. Maphunziro osiyana ndi anthu ena amapanga vuto losafunikira kwenikweni. Izi ziyenera kukhala malo okha kwa inu awiri. Kuwonjezera pa akazi, palibe amene angachite. Mkaziyo ndi wosunga chiyanjano cha ubalewu. Gawani malowa, imwani. Izi ndizopitirira, ndipo ziyenera kuchitidwa popanda kutopa.
Kulankhulana za kugonana
Awa ndiwo malangizo othandiza kwambiri omwe mungapereke pa nkhani yogonana. Kugonana sikungoyamba ndi kubwezeretsa, kumpsompsona ndi kuyamwa, kumayamba ndi kulankhulana. Ndipo malo ogonana si malo okhawo, komanso ndi malo ogonana. Chimodzi mwa zinthu zowonongeka kwambiri zomwe mkazi angachite ndi kumuuza mwamuna momwe angakhalire ndi choti achite. Werengani momwe mumaperekera malangizo. Ngati muwerenga oposa atatu pa ora, mumasankhidwa kwambiri. Palibe katundu wokhala ndi minofu yambiri yomwe idzakonzekere izi. Thandizani munthu yemwe ali ndi mphamvu zake. Samalirani zomwe wapindula, zopambana ndi mikhalidwe yamtengo wapatali. Pezani zomwe mumazikonda ndikuzisunga nokha. Uwu ndiwo malo osokonezeka kwambiri a munthu.
Sungani chovala chanu cha kunyumba
Ndinamva madandaulo ochokera kwa amuna kuti adadzuka m'mawa, atapeka, atabvala, andpsompsona ndikuchoka. Kubwerera, choyamba chotsukidwa, kuchotsa mapiritsi, kuvala magalasi owopsa ndi T-shati yakale. Ndimasirira anthu omwe amagwira nawo ntchito! Muyenera kukhala wokongola koyamba kwa munthu wanu. Tsegulani zovala. Ngati pakati pa zinthu za panyumba mudzapeza zomwe simukufuna kutuluka, ziwathetseni. Chenjezo lofunikira kwa iwo omwe akufuna kuphunzira "zamalonda" kulandila kugonana m'mabuku: tsopano mungapeze malangizowo ochuluka zokhudzana ndi zomwe zimachitika kuti minofu ikhale yovuta. Iwo amayamba kuona kuti ndi otetezeka, koma sikuti apangidwira kuti mudzawathera nthawi yaitali. Kuchita kumafunika kuphunzitsa momwe mungagwirizanitsire minofu, ndi momwe mungasinthire. Jekeseni wochuluka wa minofu yamtunduwu imamulepheretsa mkazi kuti akhale mayi. Ngati muli ndi ntchito yozama, kukonzanso, kukonzanso zochitika zogonana, yesetsani ndi iwo omwe amaphunzitsa mwakhama. Monga momwe mumavina ndi mphunzitsi. Popeza palibe diploma m'madera akumidzi ndipo n'zosatheka kutchula ku bungwe la maphunziro, munthu ayenera kutsogoleredwa ndi nzeru. Mbuye wanga anati: "Munthu akhoza kuphunzitsa zomwe iye amadziŵa yekha." Muzochita zazimayi pali magawo angapo: umayi, chiyambi cha kugonana, mimba, kubala, kubwezeretsa pakubereka, kusamba. Mukhoza kuphunzitsa kokha machitidwe omwe mumakhala nawo. Ndikokuti, mayi yemwe sanakonzekere ndi chithandizo chazizoloŵezi za kubadwa kwake sangathe kuwaphunzitsa. Opani zowonjezera - pano sangathe. Ndimagwiritsa ntchito zofanana ndi posankha dokotala: zochitika, mbiri, ndemanga. Popeza gawo la maphunziro ndi lochepetsetsa, kuyanjana ndi munthu ndikofunika, ndikofunikira kuti payenera kukhala kumverera kuti uyu ndiwewekha.