Kukonda matsenga - kwa anthu ambiri ndi mawu okongola okha. Komabe, palinso ena amene amakonda zamatsenga ndi zambiri kuposa mawu osadziwika. Kwa iwo izo zimakhala zamaliseche, zochita zowongoka, mawu ena ndi zochita, mwachindunji, chitsogozo cha kukhazikitsidwa kwa mayendedwe a konkire. Kotero, matsenga a chikondi ndi chiyani?
Mwa kumvetsetsa kwachidziwitso kwa matsenga a chikondi, mukhoza kulankhula za zinthu monga mtima wophiphiritsa pa mawu akuti "Ndimakukondani", za kukoma mtima, kukhudzidwa ndi kufatsa. Za momwe mungaiwale kuti dziko lonse lilipo. Nthawi zovuta, mwachitsanzo, kumeta tsitsi, kukumbatirana, kugwirana chanza, kukupangani inu kumverera ndi zovuta zosiyanasiyana. Ndipo pamene mwamuna wanu akubweretsani inu duwa limodzi kuti mukanena kuti: "Ine ndimaganizira za inu lero," mumadziwa kuti ichi ndi matsenga enieni, matsenga. Ponena za chikondi, mavesi ndi nyimbo amalembedwa, malemba onse akulembedwa, ndipo zochitika zomwe zimakondana zikufotokozedwa kwa zaka zambiri. Zomwe zimayenderana ndi chiyanjano zingakhale zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa. Koma iwo akhoza kukhala owopsya. Mwachitsanzo, maubwenzi akwezedwa kamodzi amalephera ndikusiya iwe wosokonezeka komanso wosasangalala. Kapena amathyola mtima, kuwapweteka kwambiri kuti mungadzifunire nokha imfa. Komabe, nthawi zovuta sizimatilepheretsa zatsopano zomwe timachita ndikugwira ntchito mudziko losamvetsetseka lachikondi. Ndipo apa pakubwera matsenga achikondi achikondi.
Koma ngati ambiri amangodzipatulira kuti akonde zolephera, ndiye izi sizikanenedwa pa aliyense. Tonsefe timadziwa malingaliro a chikondi, spelling, spell. Ndipo izi zikutanthawuza kale zochitika zosiyana kwambiri ndi zomwe zokambiranazo zinapita pamwamba. Si chinsinsi kuti pali anthu omwe amadzitcha okha amatsenga, amatsenga, amatsenga ndi mfiti, omwe akulonjeza kuwathandiza pazochitika zilizonse, kuphatikizapo masewera achikondi. Kuphatikizana ndi mapangano omwe amasangalala ndi malingaliro ndi chikondi, timapepala zomwe zimathandiza kupeza wokondedwa wanu, pofuna kusunga mtendere m'banja, kubwezeretsa "hafu" yawo, kuti akwaniritse chikhumbo cha chikondi, amakhalanso otchuka. Ndipo zonsezi zikhoza kupindula pogwiritsa ntchito zovuta kapena zosasangalatsa, zowonjezera, kapena njira zina zothandiza. Zambiri za zipangizozi ndizosiyana, ndipo ntchito zomwe zingatheke zingakhale mfiti zomwe zakhala zikugwira nawo moyo wawo wonse, komanso anthu wamba omwe adziŵa kusiyana kwa zofunikira kapena zozizwitsa. Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito tarot, nyenyezi, palmistry, zithunzi kapena nkhani zina ndi njira. M'mbiri ndi mabuku, pali zitsanzo zambiri za matsenga achikondi, mwachitsanzo, nkhani ya Tristan ndi Isolde, omwe adalawa zizindikiro za chikondi. Komabe, ambiri amachenjeza za chikoka choipa cha matsenga pa nkhani ya chiwembu, ndipo kwa munthu, chiwembu ichi chikukwaniritsa. Zotsatira zake zikhoza kukhala zochepa, koma zingakhale zovuta, kuyambira mavuto a umoyo mpaka ku zotsatira zakupha.
Mwina padzabwera tsiku pamene kupita patsogolo kwa zamakono kudzapangitsanso chiyero china komanso ndi anthu ochepa lero omwe amamva ndi kudziwa (kuwatcha matsenga, ufiti kapena zoonjezera) zidzapezeka kwa aliyense. Masiku ano, matsenga ndi osiyana ndi malamulo, zovuta. Kotero, si zachilendo kuti matsenga achikondi alephere ntchito yake, zomwe zimapangitsa okhalamo kukayikira. Zolakwika sizingapeŵeke, chifukwa mfundo zofunika kwambiri zowonjezerapo zowonjezereka ndizomwe zikuchitikabe. Ndi chifukwa chake simuyenera kuyesa kukayikira kachiwiri. Ngati mutapanga chisankho chotero, yesani mobwerezabwereza zonse zomwe mumapindula nazo ndizopweteka, mwinamwake mukutha kusintha zinthu popanda kugwiritsa ntchito makhadi omwe angawononge moyo wanu wamtsogolo. Pambuyo pake, kukonda matsenga sizongoganizira chabe, zithumwa ndi zopsereza; Ndimasewera, misonkhano, kukambirana, kugwirizana, zochita - zonse zomwe akhala akugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi amayi kwa zaka zambiri kuti agonjetse amuna awo. Ndi njira zonse zofunikira kuti zikhale ndi chikondi, pa dzanja lachiwerewere chilichonse: kuwala kwa diso, milomo yosalankhula, manja ofewa, kuseketsa ndi zambiri, zambiri.