Ndipotu, kusiyana pakati pa okwatirana ndi kwakukulu, kutsutsana kwapakati kumayambira. Koma banja ndi limodzi lokha, mwakuti malingaliro a okwatirana ndi zolinga zawo ndi amodzi. Apo ayi, zochitika pambali ya banja ndi zosiyana, monga "swan, kansa ndi pike" wakale wa Krylov, simudzakhala khalidwe.
Awa ndi mawu owopsya - m'badwo ...
Amuna omwe ali ndi kusiyana kwakukulu m'zaka zina (ndipo motalika kwambiri, ndiyenera kunena) nthawi si zabwino basi - koma zabwino kwambiri. Chinthucho ndi chakuti, mosakakamizika, mwamuna kapena mkazi wake (kapena mwamuna kapena mkazi) ali ndi mphamvu yowonjezeramo. Mkulu, osati wofunikira kwambiri, mkazi kapena mwamuna - kuti azilamulira, kuthetsa nkhani zazikulu ndi "kukokera" "wamng'ono".
Pa awiriwa ndi zophweka kwambiri kugwera mu chikhalidwe cha ubale wa kholo la ana. Ndipo iwo amang'amba tsitsi lawo pamutu, kutsimikizira kwa mwana wawo kuti mkaziyo akhale wochenjera komanso wamng'ono - koma izi sizithandiza. Ndipotu, mwana wawo wamwamuna amadzipeza kuti ndi "mayi" wotsatira, yemwe ali wokongola kwambiri pabedi. Tsopano kuti zithandize moyo palibe chifukwa cholimbana - komanso sikofunika kudziwa yemwe ali mwini nyumbayo. "
Mamkinaketi
Sikofunikira kwambiri, kapena zofunikira zake n'zosavuta kuchita. Iye samangoyendayenda pakhomo - nthawi zambiri safuna thandizo. Mkazi wa ukalamba wakhala "watenthedwa" kangapo, kotero maso ake atsekedwa ali wokonzeka kusinthanitsa "maso" kwa okoma ndi okoma, okondedwa, ofewa ndi ophwanyika ... mwana wamng'ono.
Pambuyo pake, mzimayi ayenera kukhala wochenjera ndi wamng'ono - osasamala kuti asayambe kubwezeretsa ubale wa "mwana wamwamuna" mpaka nthawi yobereka. Ndipo osati munthu wamphamvu kwambiri padziko lino lapansi, nthawi zina amafuna kubisala "Mamkiketi"!
Koma mulimonsemo - ngati mwamuna ali wamkulu zaka 5-7 kapena kuposa - pali mwayi waukulu kuti mtsikanayo akufuna kukhala "mfumu". Moyo wokoma wopanda mavuto, kukoma mtima ndi chisamaliro chochuluka, kulemera kwachuma - ndipo, motero, m'zaka 40 mkazi akhoza kukhala woyang'aniridwa ndi mwamuna wonyenga ndipo akulimbana ndi tsoka losayembekezereka. Ndicho chifukwa chake mkazi ayenera kukhala wochenjera, osati wamng'ono chabe.
Thanzi ndi kubereka
Kuwonjezera apo, musaiwale kuti mzimayi adakali ndi nthawi yobereka! Choncho, nthawi yathu, pamene maanja omwe ali ndi mwana woyamba kubadwa sakufulumira, ndipo phindu la kubereka msinkhu lacheperachepera, mkaziyo ayenera kukhala wathanzi, wamphamvu, wokhutira kwa nthawi yaitali. Kuonjezera apo, kubadwa kwa mwana woyamba kubadwa asanakwanitse zaka makumi atatu ndi physiologically kulungamitsidwa. Ndipo kenako tidzasamalira makolo athu ...
Choncho, atapatsidwa kuti pamene amuna "okhwima" asanabadwe, mosakayikira mkazi ayenera kukhala wamng'ono kuposa wosankhidwa wake. Ndipo ngati odziimira okha, okhaokha ndi opambana a "katundu" uyu - chisangalalo chosaneneka cha amayi - adzafunafuna?
Tsitsi ndilolitali - lingaliro ndi lalifupi?
Kusiyana kwa maphunziro ndi nkhani yofunikira. Koma pamene abambowo adzapatsidwa "tsitsi lalitali", osadziwa "malingaliro ochepa" - amachedwa kwambiri. Choncho, maanja ambiri omwe ali bwino ndi omwe ali, ngakhale kuti ntchito yake yonse ikuyenda bwino, ndi "wopusa" kuposa mkazi wake tsiku ndi tsiku ndi moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku.
Ndi chiyani chomwe chingakhale chofunika kwambiri kuposa kudula milomo yanu nthawi, kapena kudandaula ndi mwamuna wanu za msomali wosweka? Ndipo mwamuna, akupha manda kapena kupachika palafulo, amawoneka wofunikira kwambiri komanso wofunikira kwambiri. Kotero, mkazi wanzeru mu dongosolo ladziko lapansi ndi chuma chenichenicho. Ndipo ngati ali wokongola - ndiye sachita manyazi kukhululukira kwambiri, ndichifukwa chake chikhulupiliro chakuti mkazi ayenera kukhala wochenjera ndi wamng'ono chikupitirirabe.
Koma malingalirowo ndi osiyana. Ndipo mkazi ndi Ph.D., ndipo "ali ndi zowonjezereka ...", ndiye kuti ayenera kusiyanitsa pakati pa bwalo la nyumba, kumene ali wokoma mtima ndi wokondedwa, ndi ntchito yake, kumene anzakewo (mwina) pansi.
Banja: moyo ndi kupambana!
Zikhulupiriro zokhudzana ndi msinkhu wotani komanso momwe chikhalidwe cha anthu angasankhe kuti akhale ndi banja, akadali amoyo. Koma, mochititsa chidwi, nthawi zina zimachitika kuti abwana akukwatirana ndi alembi, ndi amayi a bizinesi - pa oyang'anira awo, mwachitsanzo, ogulitsa malonda. Komabe, ndi anthu ochepa okha amene amakhalabe ndi moyo.
Ndipo kodi ndi bwino kuika pangozi, ngati chikondi chimakhala chaka choposa, ndi chikondi (osati kusokonezeka ndi chikondi chokhwima) - zaka zitatu. Zokwanira kubereka ana palimodzi ndikubalalitsa ... Choncho, ndi bwino kumvetsera kamodzi kuti muzitsatira nzeru komanso osati motsutsana ndi chilengedwe ...