Mukudandaula zambiri za chisudzulo, mumatchula bwenzi lanu, kudandaula za moyo, mukulira nthawi zonse, mumayang'ana zolephera zanu ndipo mukuganiza kuti moyo wosangalatsa suli wanu.
Kodi mukudziwa momwe mungakhalire mutatha chisudzulo? Nkhani yathu yadziwika pa nkhaniyi. Tidzayesa kukuthandizani kudutsa nthawi yovuta ya moyo wanu ndi kuyamba kukhala atsopano.
Poyamba, kumasula malingaliro onse - kuphatikiza, kumenyera mbale, kuvula zinthu zake zonse ndi kuwononga zithunzi. Kukhalitsa pambuyo pa chisudzulo ndizopusa chabe - ndi zachibadwa.
Komanso, pamene misozi yomalizila idzauma, yankhani funsolo: Kodi munadzifikitsa bwanji kumutu kuti munasiyidwa ndipo moyo umatha pa izi? Pitani pagalasi ndikuyang'ane mtsikana amene akuwonetseredwa. Mukuwona chiyani? Mukuwona kuti msungwana wokongola ndi wanzeru yemwe amadziwa kusangalala ndi moyo, amene amalira mafilimu olira, amakonda kwambiri nyama ndi ana. Chofunika koposa, ndiwe wofanana - msungwana yemwe akuyenerera chikondi ndi chimwemwe. Ndipo, chimene sichiyenera kulira chifukwa cha munthu amene adasankha kukhala ndi moyo popanda iwe, pambuyo pa chisudzulo iwe uyenera kukhala wolimba mtima.
Kodi mukufuna kukhala nokha mutatha chisudzulo? Dzikhulupirireni nokha. Musatseke nokha kudziko lakunja ndi anthu. Musadzimvere nokha chisoni - kudzimvera chisoni, kungokuponyani mumatope achisoni ndi chisoni. Dzikhulupirireni nokha ndi mphamvu zanu. Musati mutseke nokha mu dziko lanu ndipo muzitha kuwamvera chisoni. M'malo mwake, yambani kukhala ndi moyo wathunthu. Mwamuna wanu akusiyani inu - mutenge ngati mphatso yamtsogolo ndi mwayi kuyambitsa moyo watsopano womwe sudzafanana ndi wakale.
Timapereka malangizo pa funso limene mwafunsapo: momwe mungachitire mukatha kusudzulana.
Kupita ku zochitika zonse zamtunduwu palimodzi ndi ma crones ake. Anzanu abwenzi - kuseka kudzakubweretsani masiku amenewo pamene mudali msungwana wosasamala. Sangalalani, monga mukufunira. Sangalalani ndi ufulu - mwayi wopambana usanafike.
Khalani nokha, munthu yemwe adzakondwere kachiwiri mu dzuwa lammawa, madzulo dzuwa litalowa. Mwamuna amene mulibe moyo wake wokhumudwa chifukwa cha munthu amene adamupereka ndi kumusiya.
Musasinthe nokha - taganizirani, munalibe nthawi yanji? Mwinamwake inu munalota za maphunziro, koma kufunika kophunzitsa ana ndi kusakhutira nthawi zonse kwa mwamuna wanu ndi malingaliro anu kunapangitsa kuti zovuta kuti maloto akwaniritsidwe. Nchiyani chikukukanizani tsopano ndi kukhala pansi kuti muwerenge mabuku ndi kuyamba kuyambitsa gnaite science?
Kodi mungatani ngati mutatha kusudzulana? Kuti mukhoze kuyankha funsoli, ndibwino kukumbukira poyamba: Kodi munali ndi banja lotani musanalowe m'banja kapena musanakwatirane? Kumbukirani kanthu kakang'ono kalikonse, kutengeka kulikonse pa izi kapena zochitika m'moyo wanu.
Mukangoyankha mafunso onsewa, mutha kale kukhala ndi lingaliro la zomwe mungachite kuti mukhale nokha mutatha chisudzulo.
Musadzipusitse nokha ndipo musawope kusonyeza wanu weniweni "I". Dziphunzitseni nokha kuti mutatha chisudzulo - phunzirani kuvomereza nokha momwe mulili. Mukhoza kuyankha pa zochita zanu zonse, kudziyang'ana nokha kuchokera kunja ndi kumvetsa zomwe mukuchita molakwika.
Ambiri amaopa, kukhala nokha pambuyo pa kusudzulana, popeza kutsegula kwa munthu kumawonjezera mwayi wokhala ndi ululu ndi kupandukira mobwerezabwereza. Ikani mantha awa. Ngati mukulota kukhala ndi chifuwa chonse - ndiye kuti mulibe ufulu woopa chinachake.
Ndipo, ndibwino kuti munthu wokondedwa wanu akuchokereni - khulupirirani ine, m'malo mwake posachedwa, mzere waukulu wa iwo akufuna kukukondweretsani udzamangidwa.