Wokondedwa wogwirizira kapena wosakhulupirika
Kusakhulupirika sikungatheke kukhululukira kapena kumvetsa, ndipo ngati kuperekedwa kwa wokondedwa wanu, wokondedwa kwambiri, ndiye kwambiri. Rana akuchotsa mpeni, amene akugunda kumbuyo kwake ndi munthu wapafupi, akubweretsa zakudya zam'madzi, ndipo n'zosadabwitsa kuti pali chilakolako chobwezera. Kawirikawiri anthu amene amachitira nsomba zapamapiri ndi magalimoto, motero amakomedwa ndi amuna. Pa mndandanda wa uhosteliti wolemba malemba, kulira kwa moyo, monga akunenera, ndi kunyoza kwa chikumbumtima kukuwombera kapena kuyang'ana kuswa galasi.
Ngati manja amakoka ndi nkhwangwa kapena phial yomwe ili ndi poizoni, ndi bwino kusankha mankhwala ofewetsa ofewa kapena kutsutsa chithunzichi kapena chithunzi, chomwe chingathe, mwa kutulutsa maganizo, kudula mu zidutswa zing'onozing'ono ndikuponyera mu chida, pamene iye, wopandukira yekha, .
Ngakhale kubwezera kungafikiridwe mwachidwi, chirichonse chimadalira khalidwe lanu ndi malingaliro anu. Pali mbiri pamene mkazi adapeza kuti mkazi amagwiritsa ntchito malo a chibwenzi. Iye sanayambe scandals ndi kuyamba amatsenga. Iye, mosiyana ndi iye mwini, analembetsa pa webusaitiyi, adakondweretsa mwamuna wake ndi umunthu wake (ndithudi, kuti mwamuna wake amaganiza kuti akuyankhula ndi mlendo wokongola) ndipo adalandira pempho loti akhale ndi tsiku.Ndinangoganizira momwe mwamunayo adadabwa pamene mkazi wake adawonekera pa tsiku, ndipo ngakhale ndi mwana wake.
Kotero musanati mupitirizebe kumverera ndi kubwezera pa munthu, ganizirani za izo, chifukwa mumamukonda osati chifukwa chakuti muli ndi ubwino wambiri. Ndipo musaiwale kuyang'ana zenizeni za zomwe mukudziŵa. Mwinamwake panalibe kusakhulupirika, ndipo mwakhala kale ndi nthawi yopanga zinthu zopusa ndikukhumudwitsa wokondedwa wanu.
Chief zaubovinenie kapena kupanda chilungamo
Pamene tibwezera pa bwana, sitimangoganizira mozama nthawi zonse, koma timagwiritsa ntchito mfundoyi. Koma ngati titalowetsa zigawo zomwe timagwira ntchito, tikhoza kudzivulaza mtsogolo. Sitikuwotcha kwamuyaya milatho ndi kumakweza chitseko, mwina panthawi yomwe mukufuna kulankhulana, ocheza nawo kapena mudzatha kubwerera kumalo ogwirira ntchito.
Kotero musanabwerere kwa bwana wanu, ganizirani ngati mudzasowapo mtsogolo. Sikoyenera kufalitsa ziyanjano, zidzakhala zothandiza nthawi zonse.
Ogwirizanako pa zomwe iwo alowetsa
Cholinga china chodziwika chobwezera - kuchepa kwazing'ono kuntchito. Koma pakufunafuna kwamuyaya "ndi ndani yemwe" amaganiza, kodi sizowonjezera kutaya nthawi yamtengo wapatali ndi mphamvu pa makoswe awa. Chifukwa chiyani mumagwirizanitsa gulu, ndibwino kuyesa kusintha mlengalenga mu timu. Ngati otsutsa anu amadzifuula okha, ndi bwino kukhala ndi mtima wodzichepetsa komanso mwaulemu. N'zovuta kukhala masewera otetezeka ndi munthu wolekerera, wokhala bwino. Ndikhulupirire, nthawi zina mtendere umakukhumudwitsani ngakhale pang'ono.
Kotero, mapeto ake amadziwonetsera okha: mutakhala nthawi yochuluka yogwira ntchito, ndizosamvetsetseka kuti muzigwiritsa ntchito zolakwika zazing'ono.
Ogwirizana nawo kuti iwo
Malamulo a bizinesi ndi ovuta, zimakhala zovuta kupeza malo oyanjana. Pofuna kupeza ndalama, abwenzi anu, omwe mumadalira, akhoza kukunyengani mosavuta. Pofuna kupewa kubwezera ndalama zowonongeka, ndi bwino kuganizira zoopsa zomwe zingakhalepo ndikuyamba kugwirizana pa chilichonse. Koma sikoyenera kukhulupilira okondedwa mosagwirizana, mu nthawi yathu, bizinesi yowonjezereka yowonjezereka ndi yosawerengeka.
Choncho musanayambe kulemba mgwirizano, yang'anani mnzanuyo ndikuyang'anitsitsa mbiri yake ya bizinesi. Kulemba kumakhalabe kofunika kwambiri masiku athu ano, ndipo nkokayikitsa kuti munthu wamkulu akhoza kuyesa kuika pangozi.
Kodi mungabwezere bwanji?
Kubwezera ndi kosiyana. Amatha kutengera munthu, kwa zaka zambiri kuti amusakale chidani chake, akukonza ndondomeko zovuta kupeza ndi kugunda mfundo yofooka. Kubwezera kotereku kumawononga munthu, kumamupangitsa kukhala wamwano, yemwe sangathe kumva china chirichonse osati chilakolako chakupweteka. Ndipo ziribe kanthu, chifukwa chakuti zonsezi zinayamba, kaya khalidwe loipa la munthu linali lalikulu kapena, m'zaka zambiri, adakhumudwa, akuwonjezeka patsogolo. Munthu samvetsa kuti iye mwini akukhala wozunzidwa.
Pali kubwezera kwina, monga akunena mu chilakolako. Podziwa bwino zochita zawo, anthu amachita zinthu zonyansa, amawononga katundu, m'malo mwawo, amatha kumuseka. Izi ndizofanana ndi antiki a hooligan a osati mwana wokwanira.
Koma ngati simungathe kuchepetsa maganizo oipa, mukhoza kuwagwiritsa ntchito mosiyana. Musalole kuti chokhumudwitsa chanu chisakulepheretseni, koma mosiyana, chidzakhala cholimbikitsani kukwaniritsa malo atsopano. Munali okonzeka ndi ogwira ntchito kuntchito, kuti mupangidwe kukhala odzaza ndi mphatso? Ndipo iwe udzakhala katswiri wapamwamba mu gawo ili. Munthu wokondeka amakuperekani, akusintha, achoka m'banja? Choncho dzifunseni wina, wabwino, munthu amene amakuyamikirani kwambiri payekha, amene mumamukonda kwambiri, chifukwa maganizo enieni samachokera ku chipwirikiti. Kuchita izi si koyenera, monga akunenera, koma moona mtima.
Nthawi zina kusagwirizana kungakhale kubwezera kwa adani anu. Iwo amachita zoipa ndipo chikumbumtima chawo chimafunafuna zomwe zakhala zikuchitidwa, choncho amayembekeza kuti chigwirizano chanu chichoke kwa inu kuti mwadzidzidzi chidziyese nokha. Monga, iye mwiniwake ali wachikazi, ndipo ine ndinachita chinthu choyenera, kuti ine ndimulowe m'malo mwa iye. Eya, musalole kuti alandire chifukwa chotere, adziwe kuti iwo sali kanthu kwa inu kusiyana ndi malo opanda pake, kuti malingaliro awo aunyenga ndi ochepa ndipo sangakuvulazeni. Musasokoneze chidwi chanu pa iwo omwe akuyesera kukukhumudwitsani. Ndi bwino kuitananso kachiwiri kwa iwo omwe amakusamalirani ndi chikondi.
Ngati mukufuna kutulutsa mpweya, pali njira zambiri za izi. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti zochita zanu zinali zolinga, osati kuwononga. Chitani chinthu chofunikira, chofunika. Pitani ku priutvolteraterom, thandizani mnansi wakale kukonza, pangani munda kuzungulira nyumba yanu. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti kuti muyang'ane mmbuyo, simunadandaule zomwe zachitika, ndipo mwina, mosiyana, mumayenera kuyamikira wina.
Musanayambe kupaka penti pa galimoto yake kapena kudula zovala zomwe mumazikonda, taganizirani, sizingakhale zochititsa manyazi ngati ena akuphunzira za kuvomereza uku? Kodi simukuyang'ana pamaso pa anthu ozoloŵera odzaza amanyazi? Kumbukirani, kubwezera ndi gawo la ofooka, choncho tiyeni tikhale olimba.