Nchifukwa chiyani timabisa maganizo athu ndi malingaliro athu?

Ngati panali chida chokonzekera maulendo a mawu otchulidwa, pakati pa atsogoleriwo mosakayikira angakhale "sindikusamala", "kulavulira", "ziribe kanthu" kuphatikizapo "musamapanikize", "ponyani pamutu panu" ndi "nyundo". Ngati mwakhumudwa kapena mnyamata amene ali ndi bayi sakubwerera, kapena nthawi zambiri amakhala wosungulumwa ndipo amakhala wonyansa mumtima mwake - amathandiza nthawi zonse. Ndipo mumachotsa zopanda pake, "zinyalala", mutseke ming'alu yosambira, zadraivaesh armor, kukoka nyumba ndi "mwakuti" mukhale ndi moyo, penyani mndandanda, mvetserani kwa aliyense amene mukufunikira, pitani kuntchito. Nchifukwa chiyani mukuchita izi komanso momwe mungasamve chisanu chozizira, kutseka maganizo anu ndi maganizo anu pansi pa lolo lolemera? Ndibwino kutsekedwa. Wosasunthika, monga Lara Croft. Yang'anirani kuchokera kutalika kwa kusowa kwake. Tangoganizani ndinu wamphamvu. Madona aang'ono a Turgenev omwe ali ndi mipango yowazira samalemekezedwa. Amalira, amavutika. Ndipo tikukhala mu nthawi yamagetsi, nthawi ya intaneti ndi milandu yopanga mafoni. Maganizo sali ergonomic ndipo motero sagwirizana ndi zenizeni zamakono. Kodi ndi chiyani tsopano? Dinani botani la "ndondomeko" pansi pa nkhani yowonong'oneza za pogona, kuti mupereke makombo zana kwa wina mu bedi mu mawaya, omwe chithunzi chake tsiku lachitatu chikuwonekera pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ngakhalenso ukali nthawi zambiri umasonyezedwa mwachinsinsi, kupanikizira zala za mphutsi mu aipad. Chabwino, musathamangire ku mbale, mawu olondola.

Takhala okongola ndi pulasitiki, takana zinyama zonse zokwawa. Masewu-kumwetulira, tinasankha mawu odziwika bwino, mmalo mwa zofuna zachirengedwe, timasonyeza pa tsiku loyamba malamulo a NLP. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi ichi: "Musamuwonetse munthuyo kuti akumva zoona." Ndizochititsa manyazi kwambiri - ndipo mwadzidzidzi adzaganiza kuti mukufuna kukwatira. Chochititsa mantha kwambiri ndikuwonetsa kuti muli achisoni lerolino. Ayi, msungwana wabwino, mu nsapato zolondola, ndi matanthwe abwino, ayenera kukhala "pa zabwino." Ndiyeno mwadzidzidzi simungakayikire Lara Croft, ndipo kuti, ndi Turgenev, ndi mpango wa lace?

Kubiriwira kwamuyaya
Kodi tikuopa kuti tidzipeza enieni - popanda kupanga malingaliro, popanda zizoloŵezizi? Katswiri wa zamaganizo a ku Canada Gordon Newfeld ananena kuti kuteteza koteroko kumakhala kofunika kwambiri kwa achinyamata.

Poyankhula za infantilism, nthawi zambiri amatanthawuza kukhala ndi maganizo oyenera ku moyo komanso chizoloŵezi chokhala ndi nthawi pa kompyuta. Komabe, pokhala ana athu tili ndi chinthu china chofanana. Mwachitsanzo, kusasintha maganizo, kutha msinkhu kuopa maganizo, chizoloŵezi cha kundipangira "mawonekedwe" poyankha kukhumudwa kulikonse. Pa chitsanzo cha achinyamata, izi zimatheka chifukwa chakuti munthu amafunika kukhala ndi chibwenzi cholimba, chodalirika, chosasinthika, ngati chitsulo chamkuwa kwa Lenin. Makolo akamachoka pa ana awo, ndipo anawo amanyalanyaza makolo awo, anzako amayamba kukhala ngati singano ya singwe, ana otere omwe amapita ku mafilimu ndi inu lero, kuseka pamodzi mawa, ndi mawa amayamba kucheza ndi wina wodalirika. Mu chiyanjano cha anzako palibe maudindo omwe angakhoze kudalira, palibe geti yotetezeka, palibe kumverera kuti iwe umadziwika bwino ndi kumvetsa. Mu chikhalidwe choterocho, thanzi labwino kwambiri la thanzi limakhala lokhalokha, kukangana, mantha okhudzidwa, osagwirizana ndi moyo. Willy-nilly m'pofunika kuti mukhale glacier ndikuwonetseratu zosawonongeka za mtundu wa bream. Mwa Newfeld, mwa njira, ambiri a ife ngakhale patapita zaka ndikukhala achinyamata, amawopa kuti amvetsetse, akuwongolera m'maganizo amodzi. Koma kukhwima maganizo ndikuthenso kuvomereza kusatetezeka kwanu, nthawizina kumati "inde, zimandipweteka," "inde, ndine wosatetezeka," ndipo samawoneka ngati emo.

Kusewera chitetezo
Kukhalapo popanda kukhudzidwa ndi, ndithudi, nkhani yachidule yokhudza "munthu payekha". Kamodzi pa nthawi panali bwana: magalasi a maso pamphuno, gulu pamutu pake, akumanga aliyense mu mzere, osachedwetsa ntchito, ndipo mwachidziwitso akugonjera zizindikiro zonse za chofunika cha msonkhano wachitsulo. Kenaka ndinagwidwa ndi chikondi - ndipo anzanga omwe adadabwa adazindikira kuti mtolowo unasokonezeka, magalasi adachoka, ndipo pa lipoti lapachaka, wina adakokera mitima. Pano pali: moyo, ndi misonzi, ndi chikondi.

Imeneyi ndi nkhani yokhudza Kugona, Kukongola, kuzizira ndi bokosi mu bokosi, kuphanga ndi mdima. Kuti muyambe kukondana, zidzakhala zofunikira kugawaniza ayezi, ndipo izi sizingatheke ndi kupsompsona kumodzi - nthawizina muyenera kugwira ntchito ndi kusankha. Ndiyeno kukongola uku, ndiko kuti, bwana, wodumpha ndi mafunde a mahomoni, amadabwa kuona dziko latsopano lolimba mtima. Amaphunzira kuti mphepo yamkuntho isanunkhire kwambiri ndipo imapanganso zina zomwe simukuziyembekezera. Ndiyeno kupotoza kwatsopano mu chiwembu: kalonga mwadzidzidzi akutembenuka kuti asakhale kalonga, koma kotero ... mtundu womwewo umene unadutsa. Maluwa amafota, mitima imapita ku urn, ndipo Lyudmila Prokofievna potsiriza amakhala satana. Chochita, chitetezo chochita. Nthawi inanso, iye sangalekere mosavuta. Wotsutsa wotsatira wa mtima pokhapokha pa zosankha adzasowa zina zitatu zowonjezera, ndipo izi sizomwe zingagwire ntchito.

Mwamuna amene ali mu chigoba chachitsulo
Chinthu chosasangalatsa kwambiri ndi chakuti anthu ochepa chabe amangodziyerekezera kuti ndi mafano, ndizosavuta kukhala. Kugwira ntchito ndi achinyamata ovuta Newfeld anazindikira kuti kusowa chifundo, kumvetsetsa, kulemera kwa mtedza wovuta - nthawi zambiri si masewera kwa anthu. Ndizoti ubongo wadzitetezera bwino pa zolakwa zomwe zalepheretsa chifundo, mantha, ndi zina mwachindunji. Titatha kuvutika maganizo, timakhala ndi chitetezo ku zinthu zoterozo mtsogolo. Kuchokera pa kuvulala kwatsopano, ubongo, ndithudi, sukuteteza, koma zingamuthandize kuti asamve. Nthaŵi zina kugwirizana kwapakati kumakhala malo otetezeka. Atagwera mmenemo, munthu sangalembe zachabechabe monga "malingaliro amwalira" kapena kulemba mavesi "pakati pathu makilomita chete ..." Anatsekedwa ndipo amafinyidwa mano. Kodi mungazindikire bwanji kuti mlengalenga mumakhala mdima? Kuti kumwetulira kwa wina sikukhudza? Ndani amene amadera nkhaŵa zazitsamba zoterezi? Chotsutsana nacho ndi chinthu chomwe sichimveka bwino.

Kumvera chisoni anthu osamvera
Komabe, popanda kukhudzidwa, moyo waumunthu umangochepa. Zojambula zonse zochokera kumayimbidwe a Beethoven kupita kumakono amakono mwa mawonekedwe a zinthu zochititsa mantha ndizowonetseratu za mtima. Chotsani moyo wa malingaliro - ndi chiyani chomwe chidzatsala? Kukhalapo kosasangalatsa.

Koma ndi zophweka kulangiza kuti: "Lolani kuti mukhale ndi maganizo," mukutero. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi anthu ozungulira sangamvetsetse? Tikukhala mu chikhalidwe chomwe sichilandira bwino mawu otseguka a malingaliro, makamaka pagulu. Zosasangalatsa, ngati basi kwa iwe kumbuyo kumataya: "Hey, mkazi wonyansa, pita ulendo!" Komabe, pofuna kuteteza maganizo atsopano a dziko lapansi komanso maonekedwe ake, munthu ayenera kumayesetsabe kumverera.

Gwiritsani ntchito masewera a maganizo ndikutheka ku Museum of Fine Arts kokha. Ndibwino kumvetsera ku dziko lozungulira: chomwe chinasambira ndi mitambo, momwe, kuyendayenda, timapepala timatuluka kuchokera ku birch, momwe mvula imagwera mmbali mwa msewu. Pali zokongola zambiri padziko lapansi. Kumbukirani maphunziro a sukulu - ali ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zambiri pakuwona zithunzi za chibadwidwe ndipo ena amatha kuthamangira kukalowa m'dziko la Russia, kuvina Kamarinsky kapena filosofi. Chabwino, mukumvetsetsa.

Musatseke mu chiyanjano. Ngati amuna amafunikira kuti aime pamaso pawo nthawi zonse pambali ya "Smirno., Heel., Napra-in-in!", Zingakhale bwino ngati iwo sali m'moyo wathu nkomwe. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalingalira kuti ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri yothandizira kulumikiza. Uku ndiko, ubale umene mungathe kumasuka, kulira, kupempha chitonthozo ndikuulandira. (Mwa njira, ngati mapewa anu amphamvu akufuna kulira, muyenera kuwatenga mwachimwemwe.) Kotero amakukhulupirirani.)