Osati kupasuka mwa wokondedwayo?
Iwo omwe amadzikonda okha, ali opambana kwambiri mu ubale. Izi ndi zoona. Yesani mmalo momangirira kuti musinthe mbali imodzi ya mphamvu zanu zopanda malire nokha ndikuwonetseni mwamuna wanu kuti simukupitiriza kumveka kapena - ngakhale choipa - ntchito yaulere, ndi munthu aliyense. Funsani iye za ntchito yake ndi misonkhano, musaiwale kundiuza momwe tsiku lanu lapita (ngakhale ngati mnzanu sakufuna chizoloŵezi ichi). Chochitika chilichonse chingathe kufotokozedwa m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Yesetsani kuzindikira zomwe mukupita patsogolo komanso zomwe mumachita patsikuli, zidzatithandiza kudzidalira - ndikupangitsani kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu azikuwonekerani mosiyana. Musamayembekezere kukhumudwa, pamene adzagwiritsanso ntchito Loweruka lirilonse ndi anzanga m'galimoto, mipando yamapamwamba kapena nsomba. Sinthani zinthu zomwe mwachizoloŵezi: Amakuuzani za zolinga zake, ndipo mumapanga chisokonezo. Ntchito yanu ndi kupita patsogolo pake! Pitani ndi bwenzi lanu ku mafilimu, kugula kapena pa cafesi ndikumuuza kuti: "Lero sindidzakhala kunyumba tsiku lonse, konzekerani / khalani ndi mwana / kutsuka, chonde, pansi." Mwamuna wanu adzadabwa ndipo sangathe kukutsutsani. Banja, mwamuna, ana - ndizodabwitsa! Ntchito yanu, zokondweretsa, kupuma (osati m'banja lokha) ziyenera kukubweretsani chisangalalo. Ndicho chifukwa chake simuyenera kutenga mavuto onse a tsiku ndi tsiku, ndikuwamasula momasuka kuchokera kwa munthu (pambuyo pake, muli ndi zinthu zambiri zomwe mungachite pokhapokha kuyeretsa, kuyanika ndi kuphika). Gawani maudindo ndipo musaiwale kudzimvera chisoni. Palibe chomwe chingachitike ngati simusamba pansi mukhitchini ndikudzipangira nokha (Mwachitsanzo, pangani maski kapena kusamba). Chisomo chanu chidzaperekedwa kwa mwamuna wanu ndi inu, mwinamwake, simungamufunse nthawi zana: "Sasha, kodi umandikonda?"
Ndipo, potsiriza, njira yabwino yothetsera kugonjera kwa mwamuna payekha ndi kugwirizana naye ndiko kupeza chifukwa chake. Nchifukwa chiyani mukufunikira kumverera nthawi zonse? Mwina, zonsezi ndi za kusasamala kwanu (simungathe kusankhapo nokha, kotero kuti nthawi zonse mumasintha mavuto onse pa mapewa a mnzanu). N'kutheka kuti mukuopa kukhala nokha ndipo khalidwe lanu ndilokuteteza: motere, mukuyesera kumangiriza munthu nokha. Kapena mwinamwake chinthu chonsecho ndi chakuti inu mumadzutsidwa ndi chibadwa cha amayi omwe mumatumiza kwa mwamuna wanu ("Munadya?", "Kuvala bwino pamsewu kuli ozizira!", "Ndiyitanani ndikadzafika kuntchito") kapena, mosiyana , chifukwa chake sichili mwa inu, koma kwa mnzanu (iye ndi ozizira kwambiri, ndipo mumayenera kupempha kuti muthokoze, kukumbatirana ndi mawu osangalatsa)? Monga mukudziwira, kumvetsa vuto ndichinsinsi chothandizira kuthetsa vutoli.
Zolembedwa Zosakanizidwa Zoletsedwa
- Musayitane ntchito ya mwamuna wanu maulendo 7-10 pa tsiku kuti akuuzeni kuti mumatopa kapena mukukondana naye (zoterezi zimawonekera zokoma poyamba komanso kenako, osati kwa anthu onse).
- Zowonjezera "mphukira yanga", "cat", "bunny" ndi "kukushech" amavomerezedwa pokha pakhomo. Simuyenera kutchula mwamuna wanu monga choncho ndi anzake kapena anzake.
- Mitu yonga "Ndikudziwa kuti mumamva chisoni", "Ndikukhulupirira kuti zidzakuyenderani ngati ..." akuwonongeka. Choyamba, ziribe kanthu kuti mwakhala pamodzi zaka zingati, simungadziwe kwenikweni zomwe mwamuna wanu akumva panthawiyi. Ndipo kachiwiri, mwamuna ayamba kukuzindikira osati monga mkazi komanso mkazi wokondedwa, koma monga mayi (ndipo ichi ndi chiyambi cha mapeto a kugonana konse).
- Kudziimba mlandu sikuli maziko abwino a ukwati. Malipiro; "Ndinapereka chilichonse chifukwa cha banja, ndipo simungathe kusiya nsomba!", "Sitinakuwoneni sabata yonse chifukwa cha ntchito yanu, ndikuyembekeza kumapeto kwa sabata, ndipo mumapita kwinakwake ndi anzanu!", " Ana anaiwala dzina lanu! "- zambiri, zidzatsogolera kuzinyozo, zochititsa manyazi ndi mikangano. Ntchito yanu sikuti muwonetsere kuti mwamuna wanu ndi amene amakuchitirani cholakwa chirichonse musanayambe (kapena kuipa kwambiri - pamaso pa ana anu ndi achibale anu) ndikumuuza za momwe mumamvera ("Ndidzakhala womvetsa chisoni mukachoka", "Ndikuwopa kuti sindidzapirira ndi ana okha. .. "," Ndikufuna kuthera sabata ino palimodzi! ").
Kusamvana moyenerera mmalo mwa chikondi
Chabwino, mwamuna wanu ndi inu (ndipo kwenikweni) ayenera kukhala ndi abwenzi awo, nthawi yachinsinsi, maholide ogwirizana ndi osiyana, ufulu wokhala pawokha, komanso kutonthoza ndi kuyitana woweruza milandu. Izo sizothandiza ophimba, mopanda kukayika. Pokhala ndi zokonda zanu, zojambula ndi zochitika, mumapeza chifukwa ndi mitu yoyankhulana, mukondweretse wina ndi mzake, komanso mukwaniritse bonasi yayikulu (panthawiyi muli ndi nthawi yochulukitsana kwambiri, kuti kachiwiri ndikumabwereranso). Komabe, zimakhalanso mwa njira ina: Mwachizoloŵezi, ufulu wochuluka wa ufulu ("bwerani pamene mukufuna", "chitani zomwe mukufuna") nthawi zambiri umasanduka wosayanjanitsika, ndipo tsopano pansi pa zipilala za nyumba imodzi sichikhala ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi, koma kwathunthu alendo kwa wina ndi mzake anthu. Kumva kuti pali chigwirizano ndi mgwirizano, ndipo chitonthozo ndizofunikira kwambiri popereka ufulu waumwini wa okwatirana. Ndi chinthu chimodzi ngati mwamuna wanu amatha sabata limodzi pa tchuthi lake ku Karelia ndi abwenzi ake pa usodzi, ndipo ena atatu - ndi inu ndi ana panyanja, ndi ena - ngati apita yekha ndi mnzawo wapamtima ku European resort (pamene mukukhala m'dzikoli kuphika borsch). Zomwezo zimapita ku zofuna zaumwini. Ngati mwamuna wanu amapita kumapeto kwa sabata limodzi ndi abwenzi ake, kuntchito kapena pa kompyuta - ino ndi nthawi yosinkhasinkha, kukambirana mozama ndi kuganiziranso ubale wanu. Ndithudi sizinali choncho nthawi zonse! Kotero, pa nthawi ina chinachake chasintha mmoyo wanu, vuto lina, modzidzimutsa kuponyera mawu, mkhalidwe watsutsa zomwe mukugwirizana. Ntchito yanu ndiyofika pansi ndikuchotseratu.