Aliyense adzakukondani
Anthu ambiri sangagwiritse ntchito mphamvu zawo komanso khalidwe lawo chifukwa amaopa kukhumudwitsa ena. N'zoona kuti palibe amene akufuna kuti azimvetsetse bwino, koma mwa anthu oterowo, maganizo amenewa amafalikira nkomwe. Mwachitsanzo, munthu sankaloledwa kusintha basi, koma sakanena za izo, kuti asakhumudwitse dalaivalayo, sanazipeze zoipa. Ndipotu, khalidweli limakhala lokhazikika chifukwa cha zovuta za ana. Ngati anawo sakondedwa ndi anzawo, nthawi zonse ankayesetsa kuwakondweretsa ndikuyesera kuti asamachite chilichonse chimene chikanawapangitsa ana kukhala osasangalatsa. Ndicho chifukwa chake, akadzakula, anthu oterewa akupitiriza kugwiritsa ntchito chitsanzo ichi, ngakhale kuti ndizolakwika. Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti simungakhoze kusonyeza khalidwe lanu ndipo musalankhule maganizo chifukwa chakuti simukufuna kukhumudwitsa ena, ndiye kuti nthawi yomweyo muyenera kusintha maganizo anu pazochitikazo.
Choyamba, vanykto samangokhalira kufuula ndi kulumbira. Mwachitsanzo, ngati simunapereke kusintha, mutha kukumbukira mofulumira dalaivala za izo, osati kumuponyera. Kumbukirani kuti aliyense wa ife ali ndi maudindo athu ndipo ngati simukuzichita bwino, ndiye kuti mukhoza kudandaula. Choncho, muli ndi ufulu wofanana ndi wina aliyense. Tembolee, ngati munthu ali wokwanira ndi wamba, sangatenge pempho lanu lachitsutso kapena chipongwe. Chabwino, ngati mutayambitsa katundu poyankha, kumbukirani chinthu chimodzi: si inu amene muli woyipa, ndi mdani wanu yemwe ndi woipa.
Nthawi zina munthu amadziwa kuti ali ndi vuto, koma zonse zimayamba kuzunzidwa, khalidwe lake limangotchula zokhazokha zomwe sangathe kuzigonjetsa, ndipo tsopano akudziwonetsera yekha chifukwa cha ndalama za anthu ena. Komanso, musaiwale kuti anthu sangathe kukhala ndi ife kuvuta maola makumi awiri mphambu anai patsiku. Ngakhale anthu apamtima nthawi ndi nthawi amakwiya komanso amakwiyitsa, koma sitidziwa kuti ali pafupi kwambiri ndi mtima, chifukwa timadziwa za mavuto awo. Koma ndi anthu ena, timaiwala za izo. Kotero, mmalo modzichepetsera nokha nokha ndi kunyengerera kulikonse komweko kuti mukhulupirire kuti zoyipa ndizo zolondola, ganizirani za otsutsa anu. Ngati dalaivala wa basi ikuyamba kutulutsa mawu a Navas, zikutanthauza kuti iye, poyamba, amadzikwiyira yekha. Ndipo panjira, sikuti ayenera kukhala munthu woyipa. Mwinamwake zinali zongokhala kuti sizinapambane kapena chinachake chinalakwika mu moyo wake. Munthu uyu amatha kumvetsa mwa njira yake, koma, palibe chifukwa chofunikira chifukwa cha mavuto ake omwe ayamba kuti adziyese yekha, kuti azikakamizidwa kumangodya ngodya ndikuyesera kumudziwitsa munthu uyu. Pambuyo pake, zilizonse, analibe ufulu wolankhula ndi munthu wosiyana, yemwe adamfunsa funso loyenera komanso loyenera. Ngati mutsogoleredwa ndi mtundu umenewu wamtundu uliwonse, ndiye kuti m'kupita kwanthawi mudzazindikira kuti mwasiya kusasunthika ndikudzichepetsa. M'kupita kwa nthawi, mudzaphunzira kuti musamawope maganizo a wina, chifukwa ndizo za wina aliyense ndipo palibe amene angathe komanso sangakhale mzere.
Strahpoteri
Kawirikawiri anthu amawopa chinthu china chodetsa nkhawa, kuti asatayikire munthu wokondedwa. Ndipo pamene mukuyenera kusonyeza khalidwe lanu, mwakulankhula, kuti muwombere pa tebulo, munthuyo amasiya ndikudziyerekezera kuti amavomereza zonse. Muzochitika zoterezi, munthu akhoza kunena chinthu chimodzi chokha: ngati munthu akunyalanyaza khalidwe lanu, ndiye kuti pali chinachake cholakwika. Muzochitika izi, anthu omwe safuna kusonyeza khalidwe amawopa mkwiyo kapena kupsa mtima. Zonsezi ndizosazolowereka. Ngati wokondedwa wanu kapena munthu wapafupi atayambika kuchokera ku theka-kutembenukira, atamva kuti akutsutsa, ndiye kuti ali ndi mavuto ena ndi psyche. Anthu ovuta amakonda kupondereza omwe ali ofooka. Ndipo ofooka, nthawi zambiri, ndi okonda. Ndicho chifukwa chake munthu wotere amayesa nthawi zonse kuti asonyeze khalidwe lake, panthawi yomweyi kukana kukonda khalidwe la munthu wachiwiri. Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti zomwe zikuchitika zikuchitika bwino, muyenera kuphunzira kudutsa nokha ndi kuteteza maganizo anu. Chowonadi ndi chakuti mwa kukuchotsani inu, munthu mochulukira amamva m'manja mwake mphamvu pa moyo wanu. Ndipo kuthekera kwakumverera kungaperekedwe kwa anthu omwe ali ndi psyche yokwanira ndi lingaliro la dziko. Kwa ife, munthu ndi wosokoneza komanso wolamulira. Kotero, ngati icho chikupeza mphamvu zonse, ndiye izo zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti inu muthawirepo, kapena ngakhale zosatheka. Kotero muyenera kuyamba mwamsanga kuteteza maganizo anu ndikuyang'ana zomwe munthuyo anachita. Ngati iye amachitira bwino mokwanira ndipo sakuyamba kugonjetsedwa chifukwa cha khalidwe lanu, mwinamwake, mwazochita zake adakuchititsani kuwonetsera khalidwe ndipo tsopano mu moyo amakondwera ndi zotsatira zomwe analandira.Koma ngati munthu ayamba kukwiyira, amathamangira mwamsanga , akufuula kuti adzakusiya ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi kuwala, ngati simungatseke, muyenera kulingalira mozama za momwe chiyanjano chidzatsogolere. Tengani, musamaope kuuza wachikondi zomwe mumaganiza. fuck, amatanthauza, ubalewu ulibe tsogolo. Ndipo ziribe kanthu, inu mumakhala mukuwopa ukali kapena mkwiyo kwa iye. Kulephera kuzindikira kuti akutsutsidwa ndi chikhumbo chokhumudwitsa nthawi zonse si nthawi zofunikira zomwe zingathandize ubale pakati pa anthu kuti alimbikitsidwe ndi kupangidwa.
Ndipotu, saloledwa kuwonetsera chikhalidwe: kaya zathu, kapena omwe atizungulira ndi kuchita mbali yofunika pamoyo wathu. Choncho, musayambe kunena kuti ndinu munthu wopanda khalidwe amene sangasinthe chilichonse. Ndipotu, zonse zili m'manja mwako. Choncho, nthawi zonse yesetsani kukumbukira kuti kugonana kwabwino kumamangidwa pa choonadi. Bwenzi lapamtima, munthu wachikondi, kholo labwinobwino nthawi zonse amalankhula zomwe amaganiza ndikutsutsa pamene kuli kofunikira. Pamapeto pake, munthu wokwanira ndi wotsitsila amalandira mwatsatanetsatane kutsutsidwa ndipo sadzakodwa mumatsenga. Choncho musamaope kufotokoza maganizo anu ndikuchita zomwe mukuziona. Ngati mukuona kuti mukulephera kuchita khalidwe lanu, kumbukirani kuti vuto liri mwa anthu awa, osati mwa inu.