"Simumandimvetsa !!" - Nthawi zambiri ana ndi makolo awo akumva mawuwa kuchokera kwa wina ndi mnzake !! Koma posachedwa posachedwa mtsikana uyu wokhala ndi maonekedwe abwino kwambiri komanso a nkhumba zoonda kwambiri anati: "Amayi, ndinu abwino kwambiri!".
Kotero nchiyani chinachitika? Nchifukwa chiyani maubwenzi athu ndi amayi amasintha pa moyo wathu? Ndipo osati nthawi zonse kwabwino! Momwe mungadzitetezere ku mavuto mu ubale "Amayi ndi Mwana", ndipo muyende njira yolondola ya abwenzi awiri, ndikudalirana zinsinsi zonse?
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti zovuta zonse m'miyoyo yathu zidzatsimikiziranso kuti iwo ali ndi chikhwima. Ndipo ndithudi, popanda kuzindikira, kukula, timakhala amayi athu.
Ndipo timapanga zolakwika zofanana ndi ana athu aakazi, zomwe adatichitira. Nchiyani chimayambitsa mavuto pakati pa amayi ndi ana awo aakazi? Ziribe kanthu momwe izo zimawonekera, koma mizu iyenera kuyang'aniridwa mu ubwana.
Mayi ndi mwana wamkazi, nambala 1 yovuta
Kodi amayi amakuuza kangati kuti: "Ndiwe mtsikana wanji?" Ndiwe mnyamata! Chabwino, ndiwe yani? "Kotero bwanji? Chabwino, mudzaganiza, vuto - chovala chatang'ambika коленки chaphwanya! Koma panthawi yomweyi mantha akuyamba kulowa mu ubongo wa mwana - Sindili ngati amayi anga, osati achikazi, osakhala achifundo. Ndili ndi zaka, mantha amakhala ngati phobia. Ndipo inu mumayesetsa mwakukhoza kukhala "oyera ndi opanda pake", ngakhale kuti simukuzifuna konse, koma amayi anati ...
Nthaŵi ya atsikana omwe amatha msampha amatha! Tsopano akazi onse ndi osiyana kwambiri, koma ndizo zonse zabwino! Iwe ukhoza kukhala mngelo lero, ndipo mawa ndi tomboy osakwanira! Lolani izi zikhale zovuta kwambiri. Pambuyo pa zonse, ndifefe akazi, motere, ndipo kotero ndife okondweretsa kwambiri!
Mayi ndi mwana wamkazi, nambala ya nambala 2
Ndikukufunirani zabwino kwambiri, amayi mosazindikira (ndipo nthawi zina makamaka) amapanga vuto linalake mu ubale wanu. Akufuna kuti mukhale buku lake, akuyesera kuzindikira mwa inu, mwana wake wamkazi, zilakolako zanu zonse komanso maloto anu. Sukulu ya nyimbo, kuvina, masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndi zina zambiri! Ndipo zonse chifukwa amayi anga sanachite izi ali mwana! Koma simubweretsa chisangalalo chapadera ichi ...
Zindikirani kuti ndi zosiyana ndi kukhala mayi komanso kukhala khunyu! Iwe ndiwewekha! Khalani nokha! Limbikitsani malingaliro anu, zokhumba zanu. Ndipo lolani ilo likhale ngakhale gawo la bokosi! Ndipotu, mumakonda.
Mayi ndi mwana wamkazi, nambala 3
Kwa amayi athu, nthawi zonse timakhala abwino komanso okongola kwambiri, koma n'chifukwa chiyani tinamva mawu achipongwe kangapo? "Ndiwe wochepa bwanji!", "Iwe nthawizonse umachokera kumalo," "Miyendo yako yokhotakhota ndi yani?" Inde, zambiri zambiri! Ndipo "mau abwino kwambiri" akuti: "Ndiwe ndani amene akusowa?". Mwamsanga zikuwoneka kuti mwanayo - mtundu wa Quasimodo-sloven. Ndipo palibe munthu wabwinobwino yemwe angagwirizane nanu ngakhale kuti angakwere basi basi, osanena kuti akukupatsani dzanja ndi mtima.
Yesetsani kudzikonda nokha, ngakhale zomwe anthu akuzungulira inu akunena. Khalani odzidalira nokha, mvetserani dziko lanu lamkati. Ndipo kumbukirani kuti anthu onse ali pawokha, palibe amuna okongola komanso omveka bwino. Kwa aliyense pali chinachake chomwe chimasiyanitsa icho ndi ena. Ndikofunikira kuti aphunzitse kusiyana kumeneku kumene kuli kofunikira kwa inu.
Mayi ndi mwana wamkazi, nambala ya nambala 4
Inu nthawi zonse mumalumbira, amayi anu amakudzudzulani chifukwa chosankha chovala, zonunkhira, ntchito, etc. Sakonda abwenzi anu, khate lanu ndi (Mulungu amaletsa) mwamuna wanu. Ndipo zonsezi sakukufotokozerani mwachindunji, koma "mwangozi"! Koma maonekedwe ake onse amasonyeza kuti sizikugwirizana nazo.
Kuthetsa vuto : Lankhulani ndi amayi anu pamtunda wofanana - za momwe akumvera, za ubale wanu, za maganizo anu pa moyo. Musaope kunena kuti simukukonda. Ndiroleni ine ndizindikire kuti moyo wanu ndi moyo wanu. Lonjezerani kuti mupeze njira yodziwika yothetsera vutoli. Yesetsani kuchita chimodzi pamodzi - kupita kumsika, kupita ku salon yokongola. Popeza mwamvapo kuchokera kwa Amayi vuto liri lonse - mumupatse malangizo mu maonekedwe osagwirizana. Yesani ndikumvetsa amayi anu. Simungathe kulimbana ndi vutoli - akukutsutsani inu, mwana wake wamkazi, ndikukufunirani zabwino!
Mayi ndi mwana wamkazi, nambala yachisanu
Amayi anu akukhala moyo wanu weniweni. Zonse zomwe akufunikira kudziwa za iwe. Nthawi zonse mumadandaula, kumvetsetsa ndi kulira pazomwe mumasokoneza - kusiyana ndi zomwe zimayambitsa chisokonezo chachikulu! Ndipo pamene mumayamba kumukwiyira - zimayambitsa misonzi ndi maganizo ena!
Kumvetsetsa amayi anga - amawopa kukhala opanda pake kwa mwana wake wamkazi, chifukwa anali Mfumu komanso Mulungu ali mwana. Ndiyeno izo zikukhalira kuti ngakhale popanda izo inu mukupirira! Kwa amayi, ichi ndi chodabwitsa kwambiri! Kambiranani naye za ufulu wanu, ndipo ndibwino kuti iye ali pomwepo ndipo mukhoza kumudalira!
Ndipo ngati chirichonse chiri chopanda pake ... Chabwino, simukupeza chinenero chimodzi ndi amayi anu, ziribe kanthu momwe mukuyesera! Mutengereni zomwe iye ali, ngati chifukwa chakuti ndi amayi anu - munthu amene anabala ndi kukubweretsani inu chimodzimodzi monga choncho. Ndipo, chofunika kwambiri: kumbukirani kuti ifenso tsiku lina tidzakhalanso amayi, ndipo sitidziwika momwe tidzakhalira ndi ana athu aakazi. Choncho, pokweza mwana wamkazi, khalani ndi moyo mukakumbukira ubwana wanu, ndipo musayese kubwereza zochitikazo ndi mawu omwe adakuchititsani kuti mukhale okhumudwa komanso okhumudwa. Khalani mwana wanu bwenzi ndi mlangizi. N'zotheka kuti mukhala ndi abwenzi anu omwe simunakhale ndi amayi anu.
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