Chifukwa chiyani mwamuna amanyengerera chibwenzi chake chokondeka

Inde, ndizosangalatsa kupeza zomwe mumakonda kusintha, ndipo, nthawi zonse. Bwanji ngati mwamuna wanu ali ndi vuto la Donjuan ndipo sangathe kudumphira siketi? Momwe mungamvetsetse zomwe zimayambitsa kusakhulupirika kwa amuna, ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, choti achite?

Kotero, zifukwa zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mwamuna apereke mwana wake wokondedwa: kufunikira kwachibadwa, egoism, chilakolako chogonana, kukhudzidwa, kusowa mtima kwa chibwenzi chake, mimba ya mkazi, kubwezera, kukhudzidwa mwadzidzidzi, mwayi wopambana, chikondi choyambirira. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, mwamuna amamasintha mkazi wake kuti asatengeke. Moyo wosangalatsa tsiku ndi tsiku, zosangalatsa zosasangalatsa ndi kugonana ndizo chifukwa chake munthu akufunafuna chinachake chatsopano kumbali. Kotero, ngati mwamuna wanu akufuna chinachake chatsopano, mumudabwitse! Chitsimikizo cha moyo wachimwemwe wa banja chimakhala muzosiyana. Ndi chidole chimene chimayendetsa, chimakondweretsa mwamuna. Ngati mwamunayo akumvetsa kuti mkazi wake ndi wokonzeka kumuthandiza, sangasinthe, funani maubwenzi ena kumbali. Ngati mumalota moyo wautali wa banja, mukhale chinsinsi chenicheni, mumudabwe. Kukhala maluwa okongola omwe amakopa fungo lake, koma, silinadziwulule lokha mpaka mapeto ndi lovuta, koma ndi loyenera. Sinthani chithunzi chanu nthawi zambiri, ganizirani njira zosiyana zogwiritsira ntchito nthawi yanu yopuma. Tsoka, ah, moyo wonse wa mkazi ndi woti nthawi zonse uwonetsere kwa mwamuna yemwe ali pafupi, kuti iye ali wabwino kwambiri.

Kuchitira nkhanza amuna - ndi zopweteka, zopweteka, zowawa ... Koma, bwanji ngati muziyang'ana kuchokera kumbali ina? Kudzikuza, kudzimva ndi kupweteka kumapangitsa mkazi kukhala ndi khalidwe laukali, amatsenga komanso misonzi. Pomalizira pake, iye akukhala wotayika, watayika pamaso pa mpikisano wochulukira komanso wodalirika. Kotero zimakhala kuti munthu ali patsogolo pa kusankha. Kumbali imodzi, inu, omwe mwakhumudwa, mukukwiyitsa, pitirizani kukhumudwa nthawi zonse, kulumbira ndi kumunyoza. Komabe, ambuye amene amamuthandiza, samadula, amachepetsa komanso amachitira naye zogonana (simugona ndi mwamuna yemwe adakusintha?). Mwachidziwikire, mwamunayo adzasankha zosasangalatsa. Kuchokera pamalingaliro a nzeru, iyi ndi khalidwe lopusa kwambiri. Njira yeniyeni yoperekera munthu. Ndicho chifukwa chake, ngati mukufuna kupulumutsa banja, kondani mwamuna wanu ndipo simukufuna kumutaya, muyenera kusintha khalidwe lanu.

Choncho, choyamba, ndikofunika kuponyera maganizo anu onse osokonezeka, musamangokhalira kukwiyitsa mwamuna wanu, kuyang'ana msonkhano ndi mbuye wanu ndikuponyera amatsenga. Kumbukirani kuti kuti mwamuna amanyengerera msungwana wake wokondedwa angakhale inu, ngati, ndithudi, si donjuan yangwiro. Kuwoneka kwatsopano pa zomwe zikuchitika panopa kudzakuthandizani kupeza chisankho choyenera, kupeza phindu ndikubwezeretsa mwamuna ku banja. Ganizirani za kuti muli kale mu malo opambana. Chifukwa, mwamunayo ali ndi iwe, osati ndi wina. Palinso mfundo ina yofunika kwambiri, amuna, pafupi ndi omwe ali okoma mtima, olemekezeka ndi azimayi olemera, osasudzulana nawo. Ngati inu simukuchita chirichonse chopusa, ndiye mwamuna akhala ndi inu, ndipo mbuyeyo posachedwapa adzaiwale.

Chinthu china chabwino: Mwamuna wanu nthawi zonse adzakhala wokondwa, osamanama pabedi, kuchitira nsanje abwenzi anu. Mutha kukhalanso ndi mawonekedwe, muzidziyendera nokha, mukayendere ma salons, mukakumana ndi abwenzi. Mwamuna nthawi zonse adzakhala wokondwa, amakuyamikirani, mkazi wake, amathera nthawi yochulukira limodzi ndi ana chifukwa chodziimba mlandu. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, chiwombankhanza chachimuna - chifukwa chachikulu chokhalira mopatula. Unali liti nthawi yomaliza kutchuthi popanda mwamuna? Popanda kufufuza nthawi zonse, kuganizira ndi kusamala?

Pezani chifukwa chake mwamuna amanyengerera mtsikana wake wokondedwa ndi zovuta, ndipo nthawi zina sikofunikira. Pambuyo pake, ndi zopweteka, zosasangalatsa, koma ngati muziyang'ana kuchokera kumbali inayo, ndiye kuti mungapeze mfundo zabwino. Moyo wanu udzakhala wosangalatsa, wophweka, wochuluka kwambiri komanso wosangalatsa. Simusowa kuti muwone ngati muli waulesi, mtundu wotopetsa komanso wachinyamata. Mwamuna ndi Donjuan, ndipo pali chinachake mmenemo!