Bweretsani ubale ndi mwamuna wake ku msinkhu watsopano

"Chomwe tasiya kuthetsana: monga ine ndi mwamuna wanga - kuchokera ku mapulaneti osiyanasiyana!" - "Inde, ndipo ubale wanga ndi mwamuna wanga posachedwapa ndi wovuta kuwutcha kuti ndibwino." Kukambirana kotereku ndi kozolowereka pakati pa akazi omwe ali ndi chiyanjano chocheperapo. Zikuwoneka bwino: moyo wokhazikitsidwa bwino, ana okondedwa, pafupi kwambiri, pafupi mbadwa, mwamuna. Chowona chake ndi chakuti kwa zaka zambiri za moyo wa banja ubale ndi mwamuna wake unali wamba ... zovala zokalamba, komanso kuti asapitirizebe "kuperewera", amangofunika kutengedwera kumalo atsopano. Sitikuona tsopano zotsatira za chinthu choopsa ngati chiwonongeko - nthawi zambiri palibe "msinkhu watsopano" umene ungathandize pano. Ngakhale kuli koyenera kuyesa, pambuyo pake, chiwombankhanga sichimabwera mwadzidzidzi, pamtunda wofanana, pakuti pali zofunika zina zofunika. Tiyeni tiyesetse kuzindikira: ndi chiyani chomwe chikusowa kwa mwamuna wanu ndi zomwe zikusoweka kwa inu?

Kwa anthu onse, akazi ndi abambo, m'zaka zathu za pragmatic zapamwamba kwambiri palibe zosavuta zokwanira, koma zinthu zofunika kwambiri: chikondi, kumvetsa, chikondi, chikondi, kukambirana, potsiriza. Kuphatikizanso, maubwenzi apabanjapo amachitika pazigawo zingapo: choyamba, ndi chilakolako, chikondi, pamene sikutheka kukhala wokhutirana. Kenaka - kutaya, kusintha moyo, kuzindikira zofuna za ena. Kenaka - kuledzera, kutaya chidwi wina ndi mzake ... Imani! Pa nthawi imeneyi ndi nthawi yobweretsa ubale wabwino. Ndipo ngati izi sizikuchitika pa nthawi, banja losangalala "lingasokonezeke".

Azimayi nthawi zambiri amapanga zolakwika, osati kusamalira bwino ubale wawo ndi amuna awo. Ngati mukufuna kukondedwa ndikufunidwa pamaso pa ukwati wa golide, kumbukirani zomwe simungachite.
Choyamba : Ukatha ukwati sungathe kupumula - mwamuna sayenera kukukonda pokuvala chovala chovala chophimba. Iye anakwatira mkazi wokongola ndi wokondweretsa.

Chachiwiri : Kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yokwanira, okondedwa anu, perekani bwino ntchito zapakhomo - simunamulembere kuti alowe naye? Ndipo kutopa kwanu kwamuyaya ndi "kupwetekedwa mutu" pabedi, sangathe kuyesa mokwanira.

Chachitatu : nthawi zonse muzidziyang'anira - musanyoze poyera, nthawi zambiri mumayamikira, zimatsimikiziridwa kuti amuna amangozikonda.

Chachinai : maubwenzi pamlingo watsopano sangathe kumvetsetsa komanso kulemekeza zofuna za ena, komanso kulankhulana bwino. Kulankhulana, kuyambitsa zokondweretsa zofanana, palimodzi kuyendera malo ammudzi, koma popanda kutengeka! Aliyense wa inu azikhala ndi ngodya yanu, yosadziwika. Mwadzidzidzi ndi kulemekeza chidwi - zomwe zidzakuthandizani kuti muchotse mgwirizano wawo kunja kwa mavuto.

Chachisanu : chiyanjano ndi mwamuna wake pamlingo watsopano sichitheka popanda moyo wokhudzana ndi kugonana komanso kukhulupirika. Ndizovuta kumatsutsana - kusakhulupirika ndi kusakhutira mu malo apamtima - njira yeniyeni yothetsera banja. Choncho, kuyesa kubweretsa ubale ndi mwamuna wake kumalo atsopano, musayambe kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Musaganize kuti ngati akunena kuti mwamuna wanga sasamala za ine, ndiye kuti angazindikire ine mwanjira imeneyo. Inde, iye adzazindikira, komabe, koma sangathe kuchita monga mukuyembekezera. Pa zabwino kwambiri, zidzathera pangozi, poipa kwambiri - kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa Othello.

Chachisanu ndi chimodzi : kugawa kwa banja bajeti. Zimakhala zabwino pamene mwamuna ndi oligarch, koma "chimwemwe" chotero chimachokera nthawi zambiri monga kupambana lottery. Kotero ambiri a ife tiyenera kukhala ndi moyo, monga akunenera kudzera. Ndipo kudabwa ngati tikufunikiradi nsapato zachitatu pa nyengoyi, kapena mwinamwake tizimulimbikitsa kuti agule ndodo yatsopano ya usodzi? Choipitsitsa, ndithudi, pamene nsapato, kapena ndodo ya nsomba - chakudya sichingakhale chokwanira. Koma, tiyeni tisalankhule za zinthu zowawa.
Ndipo potsiriza, chofunikira kwambiri - kondani mwamuna wanu, chifukwa mutasankha izo pa iye!