Mwamsanga pamene anzanu, mabwenzi anu kapena achibale anu akugwiritsidwa ntchito ku ofesi yolembera, iwo anayamba njira yokonzekera ukwatiwo. Chisangalalo chozungulira chochitikacho chimabweretsa kuwona kuti zokambirana zonse pamaso pa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi zidzachepetsedwa kukhala mutu umodzi. Koma ngati mkwati, monga lamulo, ali "wonyezimira", ndipo zimakhala zovuta kumuchotsa ndi funso lopanda nzeru, zikuwoneka kuti mawu osalakwa, otayika ngakhale mwangozi, ngakhale amayi ake, akhoza kubweretsa mkwatibwi kulira kapena kuwomba. Tidzayesa kukhazikitsa mafunso omwe kawirikawiri amafunsidwa kuti tipewe kusamvetsetsana kwapabanja.
KODI, CHIYANI, CHINYAMATA, PAMENE MUKAKHALA?
Musanafunse mafunso awa, dzipangeni mu nsapato za mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ndipo ganizirani momwe mudzamvera pamene mudzafunsidwa za izo kangapo patsiku, kapena, ponena za zomwe mwakumana nazo, zimapanga zabwino, malingaliro awo, otsogolera. Mwachiwonekere, iwo sanasankhepo chirichonse. Ndi bwino kuyembekezera mkwati kapena mkwatibwi kuti akambirane.
AKUFUNA KUCHITA PA SQUARE YANU
Kodi mukutsimikiza kuti mwatanidwa ku phwandolo? Zingakhale kuti simuli mndandanda wa oitanidwa. Mwinamwake, okwatiranawo ali ndi ndalama zochepa ndikuitana achibale ndi abwenzi okha kuti akondwere. Kodi mungaganizire momwe "mkodzo" wa mkwatibwi ukuchokera mkati: "Wotota, mbuzi!" Kapena chinachake chonga icho, pamene iye, ndi pamaso pa ena "opempha" kutenga nawo mbali paphwando, ayenera manyazi kuti asankhe mawu kuti afotokoze alendo ake osankhidwa. Kukoma mtima kwabwino kwa achinyamata pasadakhale popanda kusonyeza kupezeka kwanu pa phwando.
MAFUNSO OTHANDIZA
Kaŵirikaŵiri amaperekedwa ndi abwenzi a nsanje. Amachita mantha kuti zomwe mkwatibwi akuganiza kuti ndi zokoma ndi zosangalatsa mwa wosankhidwa wake posachedwa amayamba kumukhumudwitsa. Ngati uphungu uli woyenera ndi wolimbikitsa, msungwana aliyense adzawalandira ndi chiyamiko, makamaka ngati apatsidwa ndi mkazi wokhala ndi moyo wopambana.
NGATI MUKUDZIWA KUSANKHA KWA MKWATIBWI - IZI NDI VUTO LANU ...
Ndipo kusiya kukayikira kwanu ndi inu. Ndemanga pa kusiyana kwa msinkhu wa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi kapena kukondweretsa mkhalidwe wotsatira - izi zonse zimayankhula pofuna kulankhula. Ngati simunali wachibale, malingaliro anu angokhala ofiira ofiira chifukwa cha mitsempha ya mkwatibwi. Siyani malamulo atsopano, musalemetsedwe ndi mavuto awo.
SUKHALA NTCHITO KUCHITA ZINTHU ZINA
Ngati anyamatawo sakakuuzani za ndalama zomwe mumagula, ndizovuta kulalira "kuponyedwa kumphepo". Mwina mutha kutaya ndalama mwanjira ina - mumagulitsa zogulitsa nyumba kapena mumalowa. Koma ndizo kusonkhanitsa achinyamata, ali ndi ufulu wowataya monga momwe amaonera. Ndemanga zanu zingawoneke kwa osakwatiranawo zosafunikira ndi zokhumudwitsa.
UKWATI NDI MZIMU WOYERA
Funsani olakwira phwando ngati kuli koyenera kubweretsa ana anu. Kawirikawiri, zochitika zoterezi zimayenera kukhala mikangano yazing'ono zazikulu ndi kuwonetsa alendo - chowonetsero si cha achinyamata. Monga lamulo, maitanidwe amamveka bwino kuti ziwongolero za banja. Ngati pali mayina akuluakulu, zikutanthauza kuti akungoyembekezera phwando. Ngati banja likusonyezedwa kuitanidwe (mwachitsanzo, banja la Ivanov), mutenge molimba mtima kunyumba. Ngati simukukhutira kuti simungatenge ana anu, kani pempho. Komabe, onetsetsani kuti mukufotokozera chifukwa chake, ndiye kuti kupezeka kwanu sikudzatanthauzira molondola.
FUNSO LOKHUDZA ANA PADZIKHALA PAMENE LABWINO - OSATI MFUNDO YOFUNIKA
Simudziwa za mapulani a achinyamata. Mwinamwake iwo adaganiza zokhala moyo wawo okha, mwinamwake pali zolinga zowonjezera ntchito, pambuyo pake, ndi zopanda pake kufunsa mafunso a chikhalidwe chokondana kwa achinyamata.