Funso la kulemera ndi kukonzekera kwake tsopano ndiloyamba pakati pa akazi ambiri amakono. Chidwi mu vuto ili chimayambitsidwa osati mochulukitsa ndi thanzi, koma monga mwa kukongola kwake kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kuchokera pa TV ikuwonetsera ndondomeko yowalengezedwa 90-60-90, zovala zonse zapamwamba za Chifalansa ndi Chiitaliyana zimasulidwa kufika pazithunzi 46 za Russian. Ochepetsetsa, malire ndi zowonda, zitsanzo ndi nyenyezi zamasewero - chikhalidwe cha kupambana, kufuna, kupembedza kwa amuna ambiri. Uwu ndiwo moyo wokongola umene aliyense akufuna kukhudza. Komabe, madona enieni ali kutali ndi zomwe timapatsidwa. Ndipo funso lakuti ngati kukhuta kwa mkazi sikungasokoneze munthu, kumakhalabe kotentha.
Kukwanira kwa mkazi sikungathe kusokoneza munthu mwa njira iliyonse. Ndipo izi ndi zoona! Nthano yakuti kulemera kwakukulu kumawononga chiyanjano, kumapangitsa amayi kukhala osungulumwa, timadzitengera tokha. Izi nthawi zambiri zimalamulidwa ndi khalidwe la amuna okha. Amakonda asungwana ochepetsetsa, amalankhula nthawi zonse. Ndi hudyshkami nthawi zambiri amadziwa bwino, ali ndi mafani ambiri, n'zosavuta kukwatira. Kawirikawiri timamva mawu omwe anthu amati kwa osankhidwa awo: "Ndinu olemera," "Idyani pang'ono," "Mudzapeza mafuta, ndipo ndikusiya kukukondani." Kulingalira konseku kumabweretsa zochitika, koma kodi chidzalo cha mkazi chimasokoneza munthu wogona?
Ndikoyenera kuyang'anitsitsa kwambiri ndipo zonse zidzatha. Ngati mwamuna, posankha mtsikana wochepa kwambiri, amamuletsa "thupi lakuda" nthawi zonse, amatha kulemera kwake, ndipo atangomva, amasiya kumukonda. Chifukwa cha kusiyana ndi chidzalo cha mkazi? Ziribe kanthu bwanji! Chifukwa chenichenicho n'chosiyana kwambiri. Mwamuna uyu sanamukonda mkazi uyu, amafunikira chithunzi chokongola ndi iye. Inde, mwinamwake ndiwotchuka, ndizokongola m'mamafoto ndipo abwenzi amalondawo asakhale ndi chinachake chodzitamandira, koma ichi ndi chigoba chakunja. Ubale wawo unali wopanda kanthu ndi ozizira. Anthu awa analibe chochita kuchokera pachiyambi pomwe. Iye ankafuna kuchokera kwa iye yekha chithunzi. Ndipo kulemera sikulibe kanthu. Ndipo kodi ndi bwino kuti mulandire vuto ngati chitsanzo chakuti chidzalo cha mkazi chinamlepheretsa munthu? Ndikuganiza kuti yankho lake ndi lodziwika bwino.
Komabe, pali mbali yokhudza maganizo. Ndi kosavuta kuti mkazi azidziimba mlandu yekha chifukwa cha zofooka zake, osati mwiniwake, koma chinthu china chosaoneka. Ziri zosavuta kuti mupewe chifukwa cha zolephera zanu zonse ndikuchotsa cholakwa chanu kwa inu nokha. Pumulani, khalani chete ndipo musachite khama. Kapena kulimbana ndi kulemera, osati mavuto enieni. Inde, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti atakhala wolemera, mkazi amalimbikitsa ubale ndi amuna. Koma, mwinamwake, ndilo kachiwiri, osati chifukwa cha kulemera, koma chifukwa chimayamba kudzidalira, kuti iye amadzikonda yekha. Kuchokera kwa mkazi woterowo kuli mphamvu yowonjezera, amadzidziwa yekha, amadzikonda yekha ndi thupi lake, amadziŵa kuti ali wokongola kwa wosankhidwa wake. Zadzasintha zokha, ndipo chifukwa chake ndizomwezi, osati mwa chidzalo chake.
Kuonjezera apo, sikuti anthu onse ali okhudzidwa ndi zokongola za khungu. Chirichonse chimadalira pa zokonda zanu. Kumbukirani zojambula za Kustodiev ndi zokongola zake? Koma iwo anali okondedwa ndi okondedwa. Kapena Marilyn Monroe, ali kutali ndi 90-60-90. Ndipo zitsanzo zambiri zoterezi zikhoza kutchulidwa. Pakalipano, pali chizoloŵezi choononga zochitika izi. Zowonjezera ziwerengero ndi makulidwe enieni akufalitsidwa. Monga chitsanzo chabwino cha izi - posachedwapa, mpikisano "Miss England" inagonjetsedwa ndi msungwana wodzaza, kukula kwake kukufanana ndi 48 molingana ndi mtundu wa Russian. Lingaliro lakuti chidzalo cha mkazi chikhoza kusokoneza munthu ndi mawu osatha, osasamala. Sili ndi ufulu kukhalapo m'dziko lamakono. Ndipo palibe mkazi woona amene angafunse funso ili.