Mwinamwake, muyenera kuyamba kumvetsa chifukwa chake muli ndi malingaliro otero ndi kusamvana? Kawirikawiri, zimachitika ngati munthu wokondedwa sakudziwa kuti ndi ndani kwenikweni.
Kodi mumamva kuti pafupi ndi inu palibe munthu m'modzi koma awiri amapasa abale, kuti, mmodzi wa iwo ndi mngelo, ndipo winayo ndi satana weniweni? Ndiye chifukwa cha zochitika zanu ndi zomveka bwino. Chowonadi ndi chakuti amuna oterewa amavala kuvala masks, kuyesa kuwoneka ovuta kuposa momwe iwo aliri. Komabe, pamene amuna oterewa ali pafupi kwambiri, akamasuka ndi kusonyeza malingaliro, chigobachi chimagwera pang'onopang'ono ndipo chimatsegula munthu wosiyana kwambiri yemwe angakhale wachikondi ndi womvetsetsa. Koma, mwatsoka, khalidwe ili, nthawi zambiri, limadziwonetsera palokha. Koma mu kampaniyi, makamaka pamene akadali oimira amuna, amuna achinyamatawa amatsutsana kwambiri ndi zomwe mukuwona pamene akukhala naye yekha.
Poyamba, masewerawa ndi munthu woyipa, akhoza kusekerera, koma, m'kupita kwa nthawi, zimakhala zoonekeratu kuti chifukwa cha khalidweli, munthu amalepheretsa kudalira kwanu. Ndimamuda, ndimamukonda ... bwanji? Mumamukonda chifukwa cha zomwe iye ali, ndipo mumadana ndi mask kuti iye mwaluso kapena mosamalitsa amasonyeza pamaso pa anthu ena.
Kodi mungatani kuti muthane ndi vutoli? Inde, ndi bwino kuganizira ngati mukufuna kupitiriza kukhala paubwenzi ndi munthu amene sakudziwa kukhala nokha. Kawirikawiri, amuna oterowo amakhala ndi zovuta zambiri, kuyambira paubwana. Angathe kuyankhula momveka bwino kapena kupitirizabe kukana, koma khalidwe lawo ndilo umboni weniweni.
Chifukwa cha malingaliro awo olakwika, awa amadza ndi njira zosiyanasiyana zolimbikitsira ulemu wa anthu kapena mantha. Zingakhale kudzidalira pokhapokha kwa ena, nkhanza zodzikweza kapena kungokhala malo osayenera, omwe amakhumudwitsa ena. Mukawona kuti mnyamata akuyesetsa nthawi zonse kuti azinyozetse wina ndi kumukhumudwitsa, akhoza kukweza dzanja lake motsutsana ndi mkazi, kusonyeza chinyengo ndi chidziwitso - achoke. Posakhalitsa, adziwonetseranso mtima womwewo. Anthu otere amadana nawo kwambiri kotero kuti akukwera panjira zawo, kutsimikizira kwa ena kuti iwo alibe. Ndicho chifukwa chake, ngakhale mutamva kuti mumamukonda, komabe musonkhanitse chifuno chanu kukhala chigwirizano ndikuchotsa chiyanjano chotero, chifukwa chidzaipiraipira. Chotsatira chake, iwe unalekanitsa, koma iwe udzakhala ndi zilonda zautali mu moyo wako ndi dzenje lakuda mu mtima wako. Mudzaiwala kuti munamukonda kale, ndikumverera kokha, kudzangotentha. Kudana kwamuyaya. Choncho ganizirani ngati mungawononge moyo wanu ndi mkwiyo, pamene mutha kuyima chirichonse panthawi.
Ndi chinthu china, ngati mumvetsetsa kuti khalidwe lanu, mnyamata amadzivulaza nokha. Pankhaniyi, anyamatawa amatchula anthu omwe amawazungulira, kulemekeza mokwanira, osanyoza aliyense, ngakhale atayankhula za kudana ndi anthu onse. Ndipotu, awa ndi achinyamata achichepere komanso okondweretsa. Zoona, "zokondweretsa" zawo, zimasonyeza kwambiri kawirikawiri, zikaiwala kuti zimafunikira kusewera. Kawirikawiri, munthu wotero amayesa kusonyeza ndi maonekedwe ake onse kuti ndi oipa komanso owonongeka bwanji, amadziuza za iye yekha nkhani zosasangalatsa ndikuopseza kuti zonsezi zikuchitika. Inde, samapitirira kuposa mawu, koma ena amadziwa zonse zomwe zili pamaso ndi kumunena, mogwirizana ndi khalidweli.
Inde, asungwana sali okhudzidwa ndi maganizo a anthu ngati amuna, koma, komabe, ndizosasangalatsa kwambiri pamene wokondedwa wanu akuonedwa ngati schizophrenic ndi wosokonezeka. Pa nthawi zoterezi, chidani cha udani chimakwirira mutu. Kodi tiyenera kuchita chiyani? Inde, musaiwale kuti mnyamata akhoza kuchita moyo wake wonse ndikusewera mnyamata woipa. Mwachidziwikiratu, iye yekha adzakhala wokoma mtima, wofatsa komanso wodetsedwa, koma poyera sangathe kuvala chigoba chake. Izi zikusonyeza kufooka kwake ndi kudalira kwake. Kodi mumasowa munthu woteroyo? Ngati yankho ndilo inde, ndiye kuti muyese kusintha. Ndipo ntchito iyenera kubisika ndi yaitali. Anthu otere sasintha tsiku limodzi, chifukwa zovuta, zomwe zimayambitsa khalidweli, zinayamba nthawi yaitali, zimakula kwambiri mu psyche ndipo sizidzasiya mosavuta, ndi kusiya mbuye wawo.
Muyenera kukhala oleza mtima ndikuiwala za udani wanu. Anthu oterewa amafunikira chikondi. Osati wonyansa, pafupifupi wosawoneka, chifundo ndi chisamaliro. Yesetsani kuyankhulana naye kwambiri kuti mudziwe zomwe zimayambitsa zovuta zake komanso kuti musakonde nokha.
Yesetsani kumutsimikizira kuti iye ndi woyenera kukhala wachimwemwe ndipo akhoza kukwaniritsa zambiri pamoyo wake. Koma mulimonsemo, musalole kuti mawu anu aziwoneka ngati osagwedezeka, omwe alibe ufulu wokangana nawo. Kuuma kwaumunthu kumapangitsa chibwenzi chako kusiya chirichonse chimene iwe unena, ngakhale, makamaka, akuzindikira kuti ndi zoona. Kotero, ingomupatsani iye chakudya cha kulingalira. Lankhulani za chirichonse, monga zinalili, pakati pa zinthu zina.
Mwa njira, musaganize kuti muyenera kuvomerezana naye muzonse. Mosiyana ndi zimenezo, nkofunika kukambirana, koma musayambe kukangana ndi chithovu pamakutu, chonyansa komanso chiwonongeko. Mwamuna ayenera kumverera kuti pali munthu wanzeru, wololera pafupi naye. Ndiye, pokhala ndi nthawi, willy-nilly, iye ayamba kumverera mwa inu ulamuliro ndipo mosamvetsetseka mverani izi.
Chikondi ndi chinthu chachilendo. Choncho, ngati nthawi zina sitinaganize kuti timadana ndi okondedwa athu ndi moyo wathu wonse, nthawi ndi mkwiyo zimatha. Choncho, yesetsani kusokoneza mphamvu zanu pazinthu zopanda pake. Kuwongolera bwino mphamvu zonse zothandizira wokondedwa wanu. Ndipo kuthamanga kuchokera ku "Ndimadana ndi mnyamata" "Ndimakonda chibwenzi changa" ndithudi sikutuluka. Makamaka ngati mukufuna kupeza malo omwewa.