Poyamba, wina akhoza kukonda kwambiri, komatu pamapeto pake pamakhala nthawi yomwe ndizofunikira kuti afotokoze momveka bwino kuti sangathe kuwerengera. Ndipo ndikufuna kuchita izi mwaulemu komanso molondola, kuti musakhumudwitse munthu mosazindikira ndikumukhumudwitsa kwambiri.
Kodi mungamulole bwanji munthu kuti simukumufuna? Yankho lodziwika bwino: Mowona mtima ndikumuuza munthu za maganizo ake kwa iye. Choonadi sichiri chophweka kuchita monga chikuwonekera kuchokera kunja. Muyenera kuyankhulana maso ndi maso, kuyamba ndi zinthu zabwino zomwe mumakonda mwa iye ndikumufikitsa ku lingaliro lomwe simukukonzekera posachedwa ndi wina woti alankhule bwino. N'zotheka kuti kumvetsetsa munthuyo kumakhala kovuta. Mwinanso adzatsimikiziranso kuti adakwaniritsa zochitika zake ndipo ndi mphamvu zatsopano "adzakantha linga".
Kulola munthu kumvetsa kusamvetsetsana kwake n'kofunika osati ndi mawu okha, koma ndi zotsutsana. Kusayang'ana bwino pamsonkhano, kusalongosoka pakukambirana, kusasamala za nkhani, kukambirana ndi anthu ena kumafunika kulimbitsa khalidwe lanu. Ngati mwasankha kusapereka chifukwa china choyankhulana, khalani olimbikira mpaka mapeto.
Musayese kuseka nthabwala, osati kukondana, ngakhale mwinamwake osati kumwetulira komanso kusagwedeza mutu wanu. Musapangitse munthu kukhala ndi chiyembekezo chifukwa cha chisoni. Kotero inu mumangopanga chirichonse chovuta kwambiri.
Yesetsani kumudziwitse kwa msungwana wanu wosungulumwa, mwinamwake mwamuna angasinthe maganizo ake ku "chinthu chochezeka". Athandizeni kuti apeze zofanana, asinthe njira yowakomera ndipo mwakachetechete muzisiye nokha.
Funsani mmodzi wa anzanu ndi mawonekedwe olimba kuti muyankhule naye ngati mwamuna.
Ngati zifukwa zowonjezereka sizikuthandizani, ndipo mukuchita mantha, mukuzunzidwa nthawi zonse, muyenera kuchita zinthu zochepa komanso zowonongeka. Ganizilani zomwe mu manja anu, maonekedwe a nkhope, kulankhula kungathe kubwereza, kukhumudwitsa kapena kunyansidwa. Yesetsani kuyankhula mosayenera, musokoneze, mumuimbireni nthawi ya 3 koloko m'mawa, muzichita zinthu mopitirira muyeso pamaso pa amayi ake kapena anthu omwe amamukakamiza, kuwonekera pamaso pake mu mawonekedwe osakondweretsa.
Yesani kuvala zovala zopanda pake kwa kanthawi, musapange mafilimu openga. Thandizani kuti asatenge chidwi mwa inu. Mwinamwake muyenera kudziyerekezera kuti muli ndi zizoloŵezi zina zonyansa. Funsani iye, potsiriza, kuti abwereke ngongole kwa iye. Musiyeni athawe!
Mwamva kuti mnyamatayo wayamba kuziziritsa, yesetsani kuchita pang'ono. Psychese yaumunthu yapangidwa kotero kuti anthu nthawi zambiri azithamangira omwe akufunikira kufunafuna, ndipo atangomva zotsatira zake, chidwi chawo chimatha.
Zochepa ganizirani momwe mungamulole munthuyo kudziwa kuti sakufunikira, ndi kuchita zambiri. Musakhale kunja "mumudzi wa agogo anga," fotokozani luntha lanu. Pamapeto pake, mamiliyoni ambiri alembedwa za momwe angapezere chifundo ndi chikondi, ndipo ndi zophweka kwambiri kuwononga kumverera kovuta.
Pomalizira, ganizirani, kapena mwinamwake mu mtima mwanu simukufuna kusiya munthu amene ali pamsonkhanowu. Dzifunseni nokha ngati mudzakhala achisoni ngati mwadzidzidzi amasiya moyo wanu. Pamapeto pake, sikuti munthu aliyense pa dziko lapansi amakumana ndi chikondi chodzipereka komanso chopanda kudzikonda.