Tidzafotokozeratu kuti mgwirizanowu ndi "wosafuna, koma sindikusowa", izi sizomwe tingachite. Tidzakambirana za mgwirizano wa anthu okondana wina ndi mzake, omwe ali ndi chidwi pamodzi.
Kotero, tiyeni tiwone zomwe tingachite kuti tipeze mgwirizano ndi mwamuna.
Chikondi.
Choyamba, ndi chikondi chenicheni, popanda icho, simungapange bwanji mgwirizano wabwino kwambiri. Mmene tingakondere sitidzakambirana, chifukwa cha yankho, funso limeneli anthu amatsutsa zaka zambirimbiri mpaka pano popanda zotsatira.
Zomwe zimagwirizana.
Ndiponso, mogwirizana ndi munthu, kufanana kwachilendo n'kofunika, muyenera kukhala ndi zofunikanso, zomwe mungachite pamodzi. Ngati simukutero, yesetsani kumusangalatsa ndi zomwe zimakukondweretsa. Kapena inunso mukhale ndi chidwi ndi zomwe zimamukondweretsa. Kuchokera pazifukwa izi, chinthu ichi ndi malo anu enieni.
Malo anu.
Kukhalapo kwa malo anu enieni, chinthu chofunika kwambiri, chiyenera kuwerengedwa pamene mudzapeza zofanana ndi mwamuna. Pambuyo pake, simungathe kuchita zonse palimodzi, kotero mwamsanga mudzadyetsana. Choncho, kufufuza zofuna zofanana kuyenera kuchitidwa bwino. Poyesa kusagwira mwakuya malo a munthu, khulupirirani ine, posachedwa munthu adziwonetse yekha, koma izi zimatenga nthawi. Pankhaniyi, nkofunika kukambirana, kuti mwamuna wanu asafune kukulepheretsani.
Kulankhula.
Kuti mukwaniritse mgwirizano, muyenera kugawana chofunikira kwa inu wina ndi mzake. Ngati simukukonda chinachake mwa munthu kapena mosiyana, ndinu chinachake kuchokera ku chinachake. Muuzeni. Ngati muli ndi mavuto kuntchito, anzanu, mugawana nawo. Iye, nayenso, sayenera kudziunjikira mwa iyeyekha malingaliro ake ofunika, malingaliro ndi maganizo.
Kumvetsera.
Izi zimachokera ku ndime yapitayi, ngati mutayankhulana, muyeneranso kumvetsera. Ngakhale nthawi zina mutuwo suli pafupi kwambiri ndi inu ndipo umamveka. Yesetsani kuthandizana ndi kumvetsera. Ndipotu, zomwe mumanena n'zofunikira kwa inu nonse.
Khululukirani.
Anthu si angwiro, ndipo ndizo zonse. Kotero mogwirizana ndi mwamuna, muyenera kukhala wokhululukira, mukufunikira, ndipo ali ndi zolakwa zanu. Pambuyo pa zonse, munthu ayenera kukondedwa kwathunthu, pamodzi ndi zofooka zake ndi makhalidwe ake.
Kulemekezana.
Nthawi zambiri, maziko a maukwati awo (popanda chikondi kwenikweni) ndi kulemekezana wina ndi mzake monga munthu. Ndipo izi siziyenera kudalira pa chikhalidwe cha anthu, zachuma ndi zina. Mwamuna wophunzirayo ayenera kulemekeza mkazi wake wamkazi, ndipo mkazi wa bizinesi ayenera kulemekeza mwamuna wake, injiniya wamba. Pokhapokha pokhapokha pali mgwirizano pakati pa okwatirana.
Kugwirizana kwa mkati.
Ndipo, potsiriza, otsiriza, koma osachepera. Kwa chiyanjano chakunja (ndi munthu, ndi dziko, ndi achibale) ndi wina aliyense, muyenera kukwaniritsa mgwirizano wamkati, nokha. Ndipotu, munthu yekha amene ali ogwirizana mkati mwake, akhoza kumanga ubale wogwirizana ndi wina.
Pa zonsezi, mukhoza kuwonjezera kuti kumanga mgwirizano ndi munthu. Ntchito ya onse ifunika, munthu sangathe kufika pa mgwirizano womwewo. Zitha kupindula kokha ngati tipita limodzi kuti tikwaniritse cholinga chimenechi. Kotero kuchokera kwa munthu mumafunikira kubwerera komweko monga momwe mumachitira.