Pambuyo pa mavumbulutso ena osayembekezereka a munthu wanu, mwanjira inayake simunafune kugona naye. Maganizo omwe amatsutsana kwambiri tsopano ndi okondedwa ... Ndipo choti muchite: Kodi zingakhale zofulumira kuthamanga, maso akuwoneka kuti? Kapena kuyesetsabe kuti mukhale pansi ndikuyamba kugwiritsira ntchito "chinsinsi chake choopsa"? Kuwona mtima ndi kutseguka mu ubale - izi, ndithudi, ndi zodabwitsa. Koma nthawi zina choonadi chimangovulaza. Ndizitani - kuvomereza kosavuta, zomwe ziyenera kupeŵedwa? Tiyeni tiyesere kuzilingalira izi pamodzi.
KUYAMBA 1. Zakale zamkuntho.
Pambuyo pokhala wofooka pambuyo pa makhwala anu, wokondedwayo akuti: "Mofananamo, akazi akunga ine kuposa amuna." Mukuseka: "Kodi mwafufuza?" Ndipo mumamva kuti: "Kwenikweni kamodzi kokha ..." Muli ndi mafunso ambiri: bwanji ngati akukonzekera kubwerera ku chikondi chomwecho? Bwanji ngati iye akugonana nanu mwa mphamvu?
KODI MUNGAGANIZIRE CHIYANI? Ngati chibwenzicho chimakondwera nanu pabedi, simukusowa kudandaula kuti adzakuthamangitsani kupita kwa mnyamata wokongola yemwe mumakumana naye. Anthu ambiri - 34% - ali ndi zibwenzi. Pafupifupi ana makumi awiri ndi awiri (22%) aliwonse amayamba kugonana ndi amuna okhaokha. Ndipotu, mahomoni ndi oopsa, ndipo atsikana pa nthawiyo - zolengedwa zomwe sitingamvetsetse komanso zosavuta kuzidziwa ... Zochitika zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndizosiyana ndi zomwe zimachitika. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti wokondedwa wanu sayenera kukupemphani kuti mukule masharubu ndipo musatchule Vasya nthawi zovuta kwambiri.
KODI MUYENERA KUCHITA CHIYANI? Kumvetsa mmene mumamvera. Kodi mukusowa munthu uyu? Kulankhulana ndi wokondedwa wanu ndi kupeza zomwe akuganiza za mayesero ake akale tsopano. Yesetsani kukhala ololera.
CHITSANZO 2. Zosayenera bwanji!
Zomwe zimapwetekedwa sizimveka movutikira! Zimapweteka mukachita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Kapena choipa kwambiri: icho chimakwiyitsa kulira kwanu panthawi yovuta, fungo lanu ndi losangalatsa.
KODI MUNGAGANIZIRE CHIYANI? Ngati munthu ayankhidwa ndi kutengera kwa thupi ndikumununkhiza thupi lanu, ndiye kuti mwachionekere chikondicho chatatha. Chikoka cha chilengedwe chimachokera pa iwo. Koma ngati izi zimapweteka ku caresses yanu ndipo akadakali nanu - ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino.
KODI MUYENERA KUCHITA CHIYANI? Musamadzudzule, koma mumutenge ngati wothandizira. Yambani makalasi othandiza pa "Momwe mungakhalire wokonda kwambiri." Awonetseni zomwe zimakhudza zokondweretsa iye, ndi zomwe siziri.
KUYAMBA 3. Lingaliro lolimba!
Izi zikusonyeza kuti mnyamata wanu sakulimbana ndi kugonana kwa magulu. Ndipo tsopano mukunthunthumira ndi lingaliro lakuti tsiku lina adzabweretsa anzanu onse kuntchito ku bedi mwakamodzi. Kapena amavomereza kuti amakonda kugonana mwamphamvu ndi zikhomo, zopweteka kwambiri ndi kukwawa kwambiri. Ndipo maloto ochita zonsezi pamwamba ndi inu. Ndikudabwa ngati ndi matenda ake?
KODI MUNGAGANIZIRE CHIYANI? Anthu ali ndi zokonda zosiyana. Pali ena omwe amafunika kukwapula chikhumbo chawo mothandizidwa ndi zochita. Paunyamata, chidziwitso cha gulu chikhoza kungokhala ulemu kwa mafashoni. Ena amagonana pogwiritsa ntchito kupweteka kapena kugonjera. Wachibwenzi wanu sali wopotoka kufikira atakukakamizani.
KODI MUYENERA KUCHITA CHIYANI? Kambiranani ndi okondedwa anu zonse zomwe mungathe komanso kuti musagwirizane ndi kugonana. Ngati simukukonda lingaliro la kukhala pafupi ndi anthu angapo, ndiuzeni. Yesani zomwe amachita. Mwadzidzidzi mungakonde pamene akukuluma pamapewa? Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusiya nthawi ngati mukufuna kusiya masewerawo.
KUYAMBA 4. Kodi padali dokotala?
Pamene anakulangizani kuti mugone kugonana popanda kondomu, analumbirira kuti ali ndi fayilo mu desiki yake ndi zotsatira zabwino. Ndipo tsopano ine ndikusiya kutsitsa kumene ine sindinayambe ndapita kukawona dokotala. Chifukwa chiyani? Iye ali wotsimikiza kuti ali wathanzi.
KODI MUNGAGANIZIRE CHIYANI? Kodi iye ndi waulesi kwambiri kuti ayese mayesero kuti mukhale ndi mtendere wamumtima? Koposa zonse amadzikonda yekha.
KODI MUYENERA KUCHITA CHIYANI? Kupereka ndondomeko. Ndipo taganizirani: kodi mumasowa munthu amene amadziganizira yekha?