Pa chifukwa china, lingaliro lakuti pakubadwa kwa mwana, chisangalalo chazimayi chimathera, chokhala ndi anthu ambiri m'maganizo a amayi amakono amakono. Zomwe zimakhudza nthawi zonse za kutopa, kusowa tulo, mantha, kusamvana kwa achibale, komanso kusakhutira ndi chiwerengero chawo - zinthu zonsezi zimatipha ife mu chidziwitso chenicheni.
Pansi ndi mphamvu yoipa!
Kuwoneka ndi chiwonetsero cha dziko lathu lamkati. Poyamba, mayi wamng'onoyo atatha mwanayo atatopa kwambiri chifukwa cholephera kugona mokwanira, ndiye - kuchokera kumayesetsedwe kuti asamalire mwanayo, ndiye - kuchokera ku moyo wosasangalatsa, ndiye - kusamvetsetsa achibale, ndi zina zotero, popanda malire ndi masiku. N'zosadabwitsa kuti nthawi zina mumalira, kufuula, ngakhale kumenyana. Ndi mphamvu yanu yoipa yomwe imayenera kuchotsedwa. Yesetsani kuvomereza zochitikazo pamene zosokoneza zanu zidzasokoneza mwana, mwamuna, ndi anthu ena okondedwa. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kupereka pasadakhale mphamvu yanu.
Ndi bwino kulembetsa zolimbitsa thupi zolimbana ndi masewera a nkhondo (mwachitsanzo, taibo), kapena mungathe kuyika peyala kunyumba ndi kulipiritsa. Kusokonezeka maganizo kudzatsika, ngakhale kuti iyi si njira yothetsera vutoli. Ndiye muyenera kuyesa mkhalidwe ndi mutu "utakhazikika" ndipo mumvetsetse: chifukwa cha mkwiyo wanu chinali mavuto enieni kapena mutatopa ndipo pangakhale kusweka. Ngati pali vuto, liyenera kuthetsedwa. Kumasula anthu pang'ono pano sikungakuthandizeni. Ndipo kupirira sizingatheke. Kotero iwe udzichepetse wekha, tembenukira ku mkazi wachikulire, udane nokha ndipo ... bwino kuti usapitirize.
Musati mupange ndodo ya mphezi kuchokera kwa mwamuna wanu!
Malingana ndi chiwerengero, mwana atabadwa, kuthetsa chiwerengero cha mabanja akusudzulana. Amuna nthawi zambiri amachoka m'banja, kusiya akazi awo okha ndi mwanayo. Ndipo nthawi zambiri mkaziyo ndi wolakwa. Iye amaiwala kwathunthu kuti pafupi ndi iye_munthu. Chimene akufuna kuwona mwa mkazi wake wokondedwa ndi kugonana ndi chikazi, kumverera kuti amasamala, osati kuti azigwiritsidwa ntchito ngati chinthu chomasula anthu awiri kapena fakitale kuti apange ndalama. Mkaziyo amakhulupirira kuti mwamunayo akuyenera kumvetsera ndi kulekerera amatsenga ake, akudziyesa kuti amamukonda tsitsi losasamba losadulidwa, misomali yolumala ndi kutopa, kutupa usiku. Ndipo iye sasowa, iye ndi munthu yemweyo monga wina aliyense, iye amakonda maso ake, pambuyo pake! Ndipo, osatonthozedwa maso ndi moyo, amasiya.
Choipa kwambiri n'chakuti pakakhala amuna ambiri, amayi achichepere kawirikawiri amakhala gehena la chinthu. Amaiwala cholinga chawo choyambirira - kukhala mkazi. Mwa kudzipereka kwa mwanayo, amasautsa miyoyo yawo ndikumva kuwawa, ndipo matupi awo alibe chidwi. Kotero chofunikira chofunika: samalirani amuna!
Zili zofunika osati kungofuna ndalama komanso kuthandiza banja, komanso kusunga uzimayi. N'zoona kuti abambo ambiri angapangidwe pazinthu zambiri: Amakhala ndi nthawi yocheperapo ndi ana awo, alibe nthawi yothandizira pa ntchito zapakhomo, ndipo samvetsa nthawi zonse kuti kupita kwa amayi oyembekezera sikuli tchuthi, koma kwambiri ndi ntchito. Koma apa chinthu chachikulu ndicho kugwiritsa ntchito njira zamtendere: mumadziŵa bwino mwamuna wanu, mumadziwa mtundu wa ziwombankhanga zomwe mukufunikira kukoka, kotero kuti iyeyo akufuna kukumana nanu.
Musaiwale za kukongola
Khalani mkazi wokongola ndi wokongola, ngakhale atatha kubadwa angathe ndipo n'kofunikira. Mzimayi ayenera kumverera nthawi zonse kugonana. Kotero musakhale wamanyazi kuti muzikonda mwamuna wanu, ndi nokha.
Musaope kuteteza ufulu wanu wopita ku salon kapena kugula. Mulole izo zichitike mochedwa - chinthu chachikulu chomwe malingaliro amenewo anali. Tayang'anani pagalasi nthawi zambiri - chifukwa tsopano simukuyang'ana mwamuna, komanso mwana wanu. Musayesetse kupita pansi kuti mutambasule malaya, zovala zoyera komanso maopaleshoni okalamba.
Kugonana - "inde"! !! !! !! !!
Mwanayo samasokoneza kugonana. Kukhalitsa kanthawi kochepa kwachilendo ndi koyenera. Chinthu chovuta kwambiri ndi kuyamba. Choncho yambani - chilakolako chimadza ndi kudya.
Choyamba, musamve zosangalatsa zomwe poyamba munkachita. Iwe ndiwe wochepa chabe, koma ndi wokonzeka. Kumbukirani: mayi wamng'ono amayenera kugonana. Kuwona kwa mkazi wosakhutira, osadalira munthu, ndikumvetsa chisoni. Ndipo kutopa kuphatikiza pa kusakhutira kugonana ndiko kuvulaza kwa ukazi wanu.
Mu khola kapena kuthengo?
Inu, ndithudi, mungakhale ndi mwana kunyumba: tsiku ndi tsiku, mwezi ndi mwezi, ndipo muzisokoneza ndi chiyembekezo kuti chirichonse chidzadutsa. Ndipo simungayambe kuvutika, koma phunzirani kuti mukhale watsopano, kokha ndi mwana. Yambani kuyendera, kuwonetserako, ku sitolo, yesetsani kudutsa kumanja, kupeza maphunziro enanso.
Mayi aliyense, ngati akufunidwa, amamuuza njira zake kuti amvere moyo. Musanyalanyaze zinthu zothandiza monga kugubuduza, kang'anga-kangaroo, kuyenda pang'onopang'ono, kunyamula ndi zina zatsopano zamakono zamakono. Izi zidzakuthandizani kukhala ndi mwana wanu wamtundu wambiri.
Kugonana kwambiri!
Ndipo siziri za madiresi, manicure ndi tsitsi. Mayi wokongola ndi wokongola mumng'anjo waung'ono ndi nsalu yopanda ulusi ndi mwana ndipo woyendayenda akuwoneka mopusa kuposa kukongola. Musati muyiwale kuti muyang'ane pa chithunzicho ndipo musamabvala bwino, koma mwadongosolo. Ndi bwino kupatsa chikhalidwe cha masewera - zinthu zoterezi ndizowonongeka, sizidzataya zogonana, koma zimangowonjezera.
Sungani malo anu. Adzakulankhulani zonse: mwina "Ine ndine mkazi wosasangalala komanso wotopa, momwe ana amapindulira kwambiri", kapena "Tawonani, ndine mayi wokongola bwanji, nanga ndine mwana wokondeka bwanji! "
Ndipo komabe, nthawizina si tchimo kuti tiyese kukopa. Ichi ndi masewera osavulaza omwe amachititsa chidaliro kwa mkazi. Musaiwale kuti ndinu mkazi yemwe angakhoze kuyang'ana, kuwapatsa ubwino ndi zabwino, kudziyamikira nokha. Ngati simukupita patali, "zochita" zoterezi ndi zothandiza kwambiri. Pamapeto pake, sangalalani zotsatira zanu zidzakhala mwamuna wanu wokondedwa.