Ndi zodabwitsa bwanji kuti munthu apange chiyanjano?

Nkhanza ndi mikangano - ichi si chikhumbo kwa anthu awiri, omwe ubale wawo umatha miyezi ingapo. Kusagwirizana kumachitika ngakhale pakati pa anthu omwe akuwoneka akuwoneka mtsogolo ndi dziko mwa njira imodzi. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi zofanana (zomwe, mwa njira, sizingatheke), ndiye zofanana, tsiku lina mudzapeza chinachake chomwe chidzakupangitsani kusokonezeka, kumalire ndi chikhumbo chowonetsera mosiyana. Umo ndi momwe mkangano umabadwira. Ndipo sikoyenera kuti choonadi chotsatira chiyenera kubadwa mmenemo, osati kwenikweni kumapeto kwa mkangano iwe udzafika pa mgwirizano ndi kulimbikitsa dziko ndi kupsopsona. Kutsutsana kungakhale kovuta kwambiri, komwe kumapangitsa kuti asiyane. Ndipo, pamene muzizira kuchokera kwa wina ndi mzake ndikuzindikira kuti mukulakwitsa - mumangokhalira kukhazikitsa mtendere ndi mnyamata amene mwamukhumudwitsa. Koma kodi mungachite bwanji kuti izi zitheke? Nkhaniyi "Ndizodabwitsa bwanji kuti munthu apange chiyanjanitso" adzakuyankhulani zazing'ono, zomwe mungadabwe nazo kwa mnyamata, kwezani maganizo anu onse, ndipo ndithudi.

Kotero, ndi zodabwitsa bwanji kuti munthu apange chiyanjanitso? Ndi chiyani chomwe chikanamuthandiza, kumupangitsa kukondana naye mwiniwake? Zosiyanasiyana, makamaka, chiwerengero chachikulu - kubadwa kwawo ndi kuchitidwa kumadalira kokha malingaliro anu ndipo mumafuna kupanga chisangalalo cha munthu amene mumamukonda.

Tiyeni tiyambe ndi zosangalatsa zabwino - zingagwiritsidwe ntchito osati kukumbukira chiyanjanitso pambuyo pa mkangano wamakani, komanso m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Ichi ndi chikondi cha "tsiku ndi tsiku" chimene chimasangalatsa mtima ndipo chimapereka chisangalalo tsiku lonse. Chitani zodabwitsa zosayembekezereka!

Eya, ngati mumakhala pamodzi - ndiye kuti zidzakhala zosavuta kuchita. Gulani mapepala ang'onoang'ono a makondomu, kapena kudula mitima yambiri yazing'ono nokha, lembani mawu awo achisoni, pempho la chikhululukiro ndi kuvomereza chikondi, ndipo mubisala kumene simungakhoze kuwona ndi maso, koma kumene wokondedwa wanu nthawizonse amacheza. Ikani mtima mu thumba la thalauza lake - ndipo pakati pa tsiku logwira ntchito, akakwera kukatenga foni kapena makiyi m'thumba mwake, amapeza uthenga wanu wofatsa ndi wodzaza. Ndipo, ngati iye si munthu wodandaula, iye adzakukhululukirani mwamsanga chifukwa cha chinyengo chopusa. Pamene, mwa njira, anali wolakwa ndipo nayenso - pambuyo pa zonse, inu munali kumenyana ndi zoyesayesa zanu zodziwika!

Ngati muli ndi luso la ndakatulo - ndilobwino kwambiri! Mulembeni iye ode wokondedwa, tiuzeni kuti ndinu okhumudwa bwanji ndi mkangano, momwe mumamukondera. Kumbukirani mu vesili nthawi zonse zomwe zinali zofunika kwambiri kwa mitima yanu. Zitsanzo, zomwe zimadziwika kwa inu ndi iye, komanso zomwe zimakhudza zingwe zakuya za moyo.

Mwina, mukudziwa motsimikiza kuti mnyamata wanu amamvetsera pa wailesi ina pa nthawi inayake? Mwachitsanzo, pamene mukuyendetsa galimoto, kapena mukakhala pa mpando wa ntchito? Kenaka fufuzani - kodi pali kusintha komwe kuli panthawi ino yomwe imapereka moni? Ngati inde - zabwino! Ndikuganiza kuti mwaganiza kale zomwe mungachite ... perekani nyimbo yanu yachikondi ponena za chikondi - ndibwino ngati banjali liri ndi nyimbo "yophiphiritsira". Mwachitsanzo, amene munayamba kumpsyopsyona, kapena yemwe adasewera mu cafe, pamene anabwera kwa inu kudzakumana ... Perekani uthenga wofunda ndi mawu a chikhululukiro - ndikumutumizira moni wokoma. Lolani anzanu onse ofesi yachangu chimwemwe chake!

Mwa njira, kodi mukukumbukira kuti ndi liti pamene mudapsompsona? Malo awa ndi otani? Mwinamwake mudzafunika kukongoletsera ndi mipira ndi zolembera "Pepani" ndi "Ndimakukondani", zithunzi zanu ndi mitima yanu? Ngati ndi choncho, ndiye chitani zonsezi, ikani makandulo ndikufunseni mnzanu wina kuti "apulumutse" mnyamatayo kumalo ano. Ndikutsimikiza kuti zodabwitsa zoterozo ndizo zabwino zomwe mungachite polemekeza chiyanjano ndi chibwenzi chanu chokondeka.

Ngati wokondedwa wanu - wokonda chakudya chokoma, mukhoza kutonthoza machimo anu mothandizidwa ndi chakudya chamadzulo chokonzekera ndi manja anu. Kuyanjana koyenera kwa chakudya chamtundu umenewu kumakhala nyimbo yomwe amamukonda, makandulo okometsera okongola akuyandama m'magalasi okongola pakati pa maluwa okwera, ndipo inu, okongola, omvera, omvera ndipo mukufuna!

Chodabwitsa china chimene mnyamata wanu angachifune ndicho kalata iyi. Inde, ilo linali kalata, monga mwa kachitidwe kachitidwe kachikale: kulembedwa pamanja, kusindikizidwa mu envelopu ndi kutumiza. Mukhoza kupanga envelopu yanu, yokongoletsa bwino ndikuikongoletsa ndi chinachake. Ndipo mkati mwake musaike kalata yokongola komanso yokongola ya moyo, koma, mwachitsanzo, matikiti ku cinema (chabwino, kuti chirichonse chikuyembekezeredwa: gawo lomalizira, mzere wotsiriza, ndi pulogalamuyo - melodrama yogwira mtima) kapena ku concert kumene iye adakondwera kodi wanu wopepuka.

Chabwino, kwa atsikana omwe amasankha zida zakuti "mthandizi", ndinganene kuti ndikuchita zinthu zosayenera. Inde, zonsezi zidalira kokha ngati mwakonzeka kutsutsana ndi mfundo, kodi mwakonzeka kusiya manyazi onse ndikuwonetsa zonse zomwe mungathe? Popeza kuti pokhapokha padzakhala chisangalalo chimene mnyamata adzalandira chidzakhala chachikulu. Apo ayi, kuuma kwanu kudzakutetezani kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu - ndipo zodabwitsa sizidzapambana. Ndipo ndi zodabwitsa zotani? Ndikuganiza kuti sizovuta kuganiza.

Kukonzekera kuchitapo kanthu kungakutengeni nthawi. Poyambira, muyenera kukongoletsa bwino chipinda chomwe "chidziwitso" chanu chidzachitike. Zokwanira mwangwiro ma balloons, mitima ya winker, maluwa. Osangowonjezera kuti chipinda chanu chiwoneke ngati chodabwitsa, chokhazikika chomwe chinalengedwa m'munda. Gulani zokometsera zina, kutulutsa fungo losasunthika komanso losavuta kumva. Musaiwale za kandulo - mungathe kununkhiza. Koma osati ndi lakuthwa, mwinamwake chidwi chonse chidzagwiritsidwa ntchito pa zokoma zanu.

Penyetsani mwapadera ku bokosi lanu loyanjanitsa. Kufalitsa mipando yokongola, makamaka kuchokera ku satin kapena silika - zipangizozi zimakondweretsa khungu, motero zimamukondweretsa kwambiri. Ngati mukufuna - mukhoza kuwaza bedi ndi maluwa, kuti mukhale ndi zotsatira zabwino.

Samalani zovala zanu. Ayenera kukhala wokhumudwa kwambiri komanso wachigololo, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti amakukondani, musamangokhalira kusuntha ndi kutsegula zida zanu zonse, koma osati zonyansa komanso zonyansa, koma mosamala, kusunga chinsinsi.

Ngati ndinu mtsikana wolimbika mtima, konzekerani masewera owonetsera wokondedwa wanu - adzakondwera kwambiri, pambuyo pa zosangalatsa zoterozo adzaiwala kuti adakukhumudwitsani nthawi ina. Pitani ku sitolo ya njira inayake - ndipo mutenge nokha nokha - khalani olimba mtima, yesetsani zosiyana!

Kumamuitanira ku madzulo ano kupanga mtendere kungakhalenso koyambirira. Mwachitsanzo, tsamba lina losangalatsa la positi. Mungathe ngakhale kulimbikitsa abwenzi ndikuba, atapereka kwa inu ndi maso otukumula. Ulendo wodabwitsa ndi wolandiridwa!

Koma. Mulimonse momwe mungasankhidwenso, chinthu chofunikira ndi kuchita zonse ndi moyo, ndi chikondi, kuti mupange ndalama zonse mu gawo la moyo wanu. Ndipo ndithudi adzawona m'misozi yanu-maso akhungu kuti mukulapa moona mtima, ndipo adzakukhululukirani. Kuyanjananso kudzakhala kolimba, pambuyo pake mudzakhalanso ndi chikondi chachikulu, kuyaka ndi malingaliro anu, osayang'ana panthawiyo, pamene mudakangana!