Mayi aliyense ali payekha, aliyense ndi munthu. Koma pali chinachake chomwe chimagwirizanitsa chiwerewere chonse, ndikufuna kupeza "kalonga wanu". Zingopeka nthano zomwe Ivan-Tsarevich adatumizira uta pa nthawi yoyenera, adampsompsona chule, ndipo adali ndi chimwemwe chimenechi. Azimayi, makamaka m'moyo weniweni, samakhala ndi mwayi nthawi zonse. Pamene akufufuza, amapeza zojambula zosiyanasiyana, ndipo samvetsa nthawi zonse ndi yemwe mungapitirize kulankhulana naye, komanso amene ndi bwino kukhala naye kutali. Akatswiri a zamaganizo a ku America adathandizira amayi abwino, omwe kufufuza kwawo kunayambitsa kuzindikira mitundu ya amuna omwe maukwati awo ayenera kupeĊµa.
Mtundu woyamba wa amuna omwe safuna kutaya nthawi yawo kuyesera kukhala nawo pachibwenzi ndi munthu wokonda kugonana, kapena wokonda kugonana. Oimira abambo amphamvu amaloledwa mosavuta. Pogonana ndi amayi awo komanso atha kukondweretsa akazi, amatha kupeza amayi kuti avomereze wokonda. Kudandaula pa izi, ndi bwino kukumbukira chinthu chimodzi chimene muli naye, zolinga zosiyana. Mkazi ali wokonzeka kumupatsa zaka zabwino kwambiri za moyo, kumuthandiza ndi nyumba yabwino, kubereka ana ake, kukhala naye nthawi yaitali, mokondwa kwa masiku onse a moyo wake, mwamunayu akungofuna kuti atenge chidwi ndi mkaziyo, kuti amuganizire ndi nthano za "ife." Kutsirizitsa banal yemweyo, kudzuka tsiku ndi tsiku usiku wa chikondi, iwe udikirira bedi la kofev, koma khalani chete ndi chete mu nyumba yanu.
Mtundu wachiwiri wa amuna, umene sungagwirizane ndi kutanthauzira kwa kalonga ndi kavalo wotsika, ndi ochita chidwi kwambiri. Poyamba, ubalewu ukhoza kuwoneka wotsimikizika kwambiri. Pambuyo pake, mwamuna wamalonda amene amagwira ntchito kwa abambo ambiri a kugonana mwachilungamo nthawi yomweyo amapindula ndi wolemera koma komabe chiyanjano chidzabwera, ndiye kuti munthu ameneyu akufunikira ntchito yokha, chifukwa cha iye, amatha kusokoneza msonkhano ndi mkaziyo, kuiwala za tsiku lake lobadwa ndi chaka tsiku lachidziwitso . Amuna oterowo ndi oyenera ngati njira yowunika, koma siziyenera kuwayang'anira kufikira mapeto a moyo, iwo sangayamikire.
Zomwe sizinapangidwe kuti zikhale ndi moyo wa m'banja mwa amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Mwamuna uyu akusowa zojambula zokha, wodziwa zakudya zokwanira komanso wophunzitsa, munthu waumwini komanso cosmetologist, ndiyeno china chirichonse. Ndi mtundu wotani wa mkazi amene angakonde ngati ali ndi iye amene amasamala za chifaniziro chake, khungu, tsitsi, monga zhelevnostno monga iye mwini? Pamapeto pake, ali ndi abwenzi okwanira, omwe angakambirane za zatsopano zodzikongoletsera ndi mafilimu atsopano.
Komanso, sikungakhale kwanzeru kuyambitsa chiyanjano cholimba ndi amuna omwe ali ndi chiyanjano, omwe mwa amai onse amawona amayi. Zitsanzozi, makamaka zimakopa kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yawo yaufulu payekha. Koma simudzakhala odzaza ndi zosangalatsa. Moyo wothandizana, mwatsoka, suli ndi zosangalatsa zokha, nthawi zina pali zinthu zomwe zimafuna anthu akuluakulu ndi zowonongeka, zomwe zimachokera kwa amuna ngati amenewa, osadikira. Pambuyo pake, kuti athetse mavuto omwe amayi ali nawo, zakatoru nthawi zonse mukhoza kubisala.
Komabe, osati njira yabwino kwambiri, ngati muli ndi munthu wotsutsa. Kwa iye, zonse ndizolakwika nthawi zonse, ali wokonzeka kufotokoza choonadi nthawi zonse ndi onse, osaganiza ngati ndi zabwino kumvetsera ena, komanso ngati akusowa malingaliro ake. Amatha anthu kumudzudzula maonekedwe a mkazi wake, kapena nthawi yomwe amaonetsa filimuyo kuti sakonda mizimu yake. Vuto ndilokuti munthu woteroyo saganizira kuti mawu ake samangopweteka mkazi wake, koma amangomudetsa.
Kuwonjezera pa zonsezi, ndikufuna kufotokozera mtundu wina wa amuna, kuti mukhale ndi ubale weniweni wabwino womwe udzakhala wovuta kwambiri. Munthu uyu ndi "moyo wa kampani." Iye ndi wokondweretsa kwambiri komanso wokondana, nthawi zonse mokondwera komanso nthawi zonse. Vuto lalikulu la amunawa ndiloti amasankha kuwonetsa chidwi chawo komanso kusagwirizana kwawo osati ndi mabanja awo, koma kwinakwake pakati pa abwenzi - amzawo, komanso makamaka pa galasi la mowa.
Pafupi ndi munthu woteroyo, mzimayi, nthawi zambiri, amachititsa anthu ogwira ntchito kunyumba kwake, ndipo ayenera kudyetsa ndi kum'tumikira abwenzi ake okhulupirika, omwe adzakuchezerani tsiku lililonse.