Ndi chiyani chomwe chimakopa amuna kupita kwa amayi?

Amuna, makamaka mbali zambiri, sadziwa okha. Ambiri amayesetsa kubisala kuseri kwaukali, kupita ku holo, kudzipaka okha minofu kuti awoneke amphamvu ... Koma nthawi zina amadzipempha okhaokha "kuchokera kwa Renata Litvinova": "Mulungu, zoopsa bwanji kukhala moyo!" Palibe amene angatsutsane nazo, kuti chinthu chachikulu mwa munthu ndi moyo. Ndipo ndikuganiza kuti thupi ndilo malire ofunika a moyo. Palibe khungu la thupi ili limene limakhala popanda kudzaza moyo wa moyo. Chinthu china chiri chakuti aliyense ali ndi kukoma kwake, njira ya chitukuko ndi zochitika zake za valence ndi munthu wina. Chimene chiri chokongola kwa chimodzi, pakuti china ndi choipa.

Ndimakonda akazi okongola komanso okongola kwambiri. Nthawi zonse amangokhala ndi malingaliro anga, ndipo ndimakonda kumwa mankhwalawa. Ndikofunika kuti ndiphonye mkazi masiku onse a moyo wanga. Wina amasamala kukula kwa chifuwa, koma ndimakonda nthawi zonse ngati mkazi. Ngakhale kuti inenso ndingakondane ndi miyendo yabwino, ndipo izi zidzakhala zofunika kwambiri kwa ine kusiyana ndi khalidwe lachinyengo komanso nzeru zopanda nzeru. Chomwe chimakopeka kwambiri amuna mwa amayi - izi zidzakambidwa m'nkhaniyi.

Chikondi ndi "choposa" kuposa analyzer kapena ubongo wathu, womwe umasankha zoyenera kuchita. Kukhululukira kapena kusakhululukira ndi chinthu chopusa. Kuwunika kwathu pazochita za wokondedwa - ngati chitseko pakhomo la nyumba yachifumu. Ndi manja athu omwe, tikhoza kutseka khomo kumeneko. Ubongo wathu umagwira ntchito pa nyumbayi. Ndipo pamene mkazi wanu wokondedwa, atatopa ndi kuletsa, akuganiza kuti achoke, mumamufuula kuti: "Kuti? Motani? Tavomerezana nanu? "Ndipo munavomereza chiyani? Kuti mumusunge pa nyundo yachitsulo, ndipo akudyetsani izi? Palibe cholakwika ndi chakuti wina akugwiritsa ntchito wina mwa awiriwa. Inde, tonsefe timasangalala pamene wina ali wothandiza. Ndipo osasangalala, pamene palibe amene akusowa. Mkazi ndi wokhala wodziwa bwino chikondi kuposa munthu. Ndipo zambiri zimasinthidwa kukonda. Mkaziyo ali patsogolo pa munthuyo palimodzi ndi mphamvu yachisamaliro cha khungu komanso mwachitsimikizo chochuluka ... Ali ndi mphamvu zochepa, koma chisomo chochuluka, chisomo ... Amakhala mu lingaliro la malamulo a wina, osadziwika kwa amuna, maganizo. Ndipo ngati mkazi wokondedwa sakumvetsa iwe, ndiye kuti kulakwitsa kwake kulibe. Kwa amuna, mantha a zaka ndi aakulu kwambiri kuposa azimayi. Koma zoposa zaka, mwamuna amawopa mkazi wosasangalatsa komanso mpikisano. Choncho, ngati izi zichitika, ndiye kuti timaphera mwamsanga banja lathu, kukula mimba ndi kumanganso dziko lonse lapansi. Timakonzekera zokondweretsa zokhudzana ndi msinkhu - "Ndikusangalala ndi ulendo wopha nsomba komanso zidzukulu zanga m'dzikomo" ... Tikukhala mwazimenezi sizowopsa kwa ife, dziko labwino ndikudikirira mpaka titayikidwa m'manda ndi chivomerezo cha anthu omwewo .

Pali lingaliro lakuti anthu autali pamodzi, okondana. Ndikuvomereza, koma pa chikhalidwe chimodzi - ngati pali chikondi mu ubale. Popanda chikondi, thupi limapereka, siligwira ntchito. Ndalama ndi mowa nthawi zina zimayesetsa kuthetsa vutoli. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala bwino. Monga mwa nthabwala imeneyo. Ndi munthu pamaso pa galasi - nyani weniweni: mimba imapachika, tsitsi lochokera kwina kulikonse, nkhope yosasemphana ndi khungu, kutenga chinachake dzulo kuchokera mano, okalamba kwambiri, koma kukhala ndi mafuta aakulu pamapewa. Ndipo pagalasi amasonyeza kukongola kodabwitsa kwa msungwana wazaka 20 wakugona pabedi - mngelo woyera. Iye akuyang'ana pa kusinkhasinkha kwake ndipo akuti: "Ndikofunikira kwambiri kukonda ndalama! .." Amuna-abwenzi kwa ine chinthu chovuta kwambiri. M'malo mwake, pakati pa anthu, mgwirizano, mgwirizano, ndi ubwenzi - nthawi zambiri. Ndili ndi zifuwa zisanu, okondedwa, abwenzi odzipereka. Kuti ndiwakonde, sindikusowetsa pamodzi wakuda kapena kupita kukawedza kapena kupita ku kusamba. Mnzanga wanga, pamsonkhano wapadera ndi mawu anga akuti "Dziko lapansi ndiloling'ono!" Anayankhidwa: "Ndiwe chiyani iwe! Ayi! Wosanjikiza ndi woonda! "Inde. Mndandanda wa "awo" anthu ndi wapadera.

Chikondi sichikalamba - chimabereka kachiwiri. Kuti mukhalenso wotsitsimutsa, mutha kukwanitsa "kuthamanga kumanzere." Simungathe! Ngati pangakhale lingaliro lotero - nkofunikira kuthamanga kumeneko mwamsanga! Izi zikutanthauza kuti kumene "kulondola" - zonse zilibe kanthu ndi mdima. Zatha! Chotsulo chokhacho chadzaza! Njira ina: izi "zotsalira" zingathe kukhala ola limodzi kapena tsiku, kenako mudzazindikira kuti ndinu akhungu, ndipo mubwerere ku zomwe mumakonda kwambiri. Chabwino, simudzabwerera, ngakhale mutasula mkazi. Chilichonse ndi chabwino! Kawiri kawiri ndimayamikira kulankhulana kwabwino kwa anthu osagonana m'moyo. Ine, ndithudi, ndikudziwa kuti chisangalalo cha chikondi sichimangokhala ndi zokhazokha, koma komanso kukondwera, kukonda ... Koma mpaka ndikafa, ndiyesera kusunga maganizo anga. Ichi ndi cholinga chosangalatsa.