Chikondi agape
Ichi ndi mtundu wa chikondi cha nsembe. Kuti wokondedwa akhale wachimwemwe, mwamunayu "amuponyera" pamapazi ake.
Makhalidwe a munthu. Mwamuna amasamalira mkazi kwa nthawi yaitali asanamuuze za mmene amamvera. Maganizo ake ndi opanda dyera. Chifukwa cha wokondedwa wake, ali wokonzekera aliyense, adzapereka kopeck yomaliza, ndi zina zotero.
Chiwonetsero cha maubwenzi. Inde, chikondi cha mtundu umenewu chili ndi ubwino wambiri. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zosangalatsa kumva kuti munthu adzipereka yekha chifukwa cha inu. Munthu wotero amachititsa kudalira, kulemekeza. Komabe, chisamaliro ichi chimayamba kukwiyitsa ndi nthawi. Udindo wa "abambo wachikondi" sichimayambitsa kugonana kwa mkazi. Kuonjezerapo, pamene munthu sakufunanso chilichonse, ndiye kuti mumayamba kumuyamikira. Zotsatira zake, ndiye kuti akukukakamizani ndi nkhawa yake, amayang'anira nthawi zonse.
Muzikonda Ludus
Mtundu uwu umatchedwa masewero achikondi. Icho chimachokera ku chilakolako cha kugonana.
Makhalidwe a munthu. Mwamuna samusamala mkazi, chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti kugonana kwake kwa iye ndi chitsimikiziro cha chikondi. Munthu woteroyo samayesa kukuzindikira monga munthu, munthu komanso kuyandikira m'mawu auzimu. Amakhumudwitsidwa ndi kukana akazi. Ngati mkazi ayesa kusunga munthu wamtundu uwu patali, ndiye amayamba kumuzizira, chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti ngati alibe ubwenzi, ndiye kuti alibe chidwi ndi mkazi. Kuwonjezera pa inu, mwamuna akhoza kukumananso ndi amayi ena mofanana, ndipo samakhala ndi nsanje ngakhale atakangana ndi amuna ena. Amayitana kokha pamene akufuna kukumana ndi inu kuti mukhale pachibwenzi.
Chiwonetsero cha maubwenzi. Kumayambiriro kwa chiyanjano chanu mumakhala ndi nkhawa ndi maganizo. Komabe, pakapita nthawi, mukhoza kuzindikira kuti kupatula kugonana ndi mwamuna uyu mulibe chochita. Amuna amenewa nthawi zambiri amakhala odzikonda komanso amakhala ndi zofuna zawo zokha. Ngati muima kuti mukwaniritse zilakolako zake zogonana, adzakuzirani. Maganizo ake ndi amodzi komanso osakhalitsa. Ngati simukukhalapo, ndiye kuti kupatukana n'kosavuta, ndipo chikondi chake chimangowonekera mukakhala pafupi. Ngati mwasankha kusiya, simudzawona maulendo ndi maluwa, kuyitana ndi kuvomereza chikondi. Ubale wanu ndi chinthu chaching'ono ndipo, ngati mukufuna kuti apitirize, musapangitse udindo wanu kwa munthu wanu kuti mukhale ndi ubale komanso kumverera.
Chikondi Eros
Ndilo mtundu wa chikondi chachibadwidwe. Maziko a chikondi ndi eros - kudzipatulira, ndipo pokhapokha kukongola.
Makhalidwe a munthu. Mwamuna amakukondani kwambiri, moyo wanu, zochitika zanu ndi mavuto. Usiku woyamba usanafike. Nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi nkhani zokambirana. Pa zokambirana zotere, mwamuna samakuuzani za umunthu wake, koma amakhalanso ndi chidwi ndi maganizo anu, maganizo anu.
Chiwonetsero cha maubwenzi. Ubale wanu ndi wabwino. Ichi ndi mtundu wa munthu yemwe mudzakondwere naye. Mwamuna amakuyamikirani, sangadzidziyimire yekha, kuti akusonyezeni chinachake. Nthawi zonse amakondwera kukusamalirani, ndipo amakondwera mukakhala wokondwa.
Chikondi cha Mania
Chikondi cha munthu wotero chimatchedwa chikondi-obsession. Pakati pa chikondi cha mtundu umenewu ndi nsanje ndi chilakolako.
Makhalidwe a munthu. Chinthu chachikulu mu chiyanjano cha mwamuna ndi iye mwini. Iye nthawi zonse amatsimikizira kuti amawononga ena mwa kuthandizidwa ndi kunyalanyaza, manyazi, ndi zina zotero. Munthu amadziwa mwachidwi maonekedwe a maubwenzi ake kapena akudzipanga yekha. Amalakalaka wokondedwayo kuti azidalira iye. Kuonjezera apo, amakhulupirira kuti mkazi ayenera kukhala wokondwa kale chifukwa ali pafupi naye. Mwamuna nthawi zonse amayesetsa kupeŵa chizoloŵezi, chizoloŵezi, kudzimva chisoni, komanso chifundo komanso zojambulidwa. Ndicho chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri amasintha mabwenzi, mabwenzi, malo okhala, gawo la ntchito zamaluso, ndipo ndithudi, sikunakwatidwe kamodzi.
Chiwonetsero cha maubwenzi. Mudzakhala pansi pa nthawi zonse. Nsanje yake yachisoni si mantha a kutaya inu, koma mantha omwe mungathe kuthawa kuulamuliro wake. Pamene mkazi ali wofooka komanso wodalirika kwambiri mu ubale wotero, munthu amakhala ndi chidaliro choposa. Mwamunayo nthawi zonse amafuna kukupangitsani kukhala ndi udindo. Amatenga chikondi chanu mopepuka. Mukamayesetsa kuti muyandikire kwa iye, ndiye kuti adzakuchotsani kwambiri. Ndipo mosiyana. Kotero izo zidzabwerezedwa mpaka inu nonse mutatopa nazo. Kusiyana kawirikawiri kumakwiyitsa ndi munthuyo mwiniwake, kuyesanso kuyesa kutsimikizira kuti ndi wofunika.
Kukonda pragma
Ichi ndi mtundu wa chikondi "cholingalira".
Makhalidwe a munthu. Mwamuna wotero amafunika mkazi wokhala "womasuka". Pomwe akudziwana naye, amayesa kupeza chomwe mkazi ali mbuye, chuma chake, ndi zina zotero. Choncho, munthu ndi wofunika kwambiri kuposa udindo wanu, osati umunthu wanu.
Chiwonetsero cha maubwenzi. Palibe zokondweretsa, zosangalatsa zodabwitsa, musati dikirani. Moyo wanu wonse pamodzi udzakhala limodzi ndi kumverera kuti ndinu chinthu chamtengo wapatali. Ngati mumupatsa munthu zonse zimene mukufunikira, ndiye kuti banja lanu likhale mgwirizano, mgwirizano, bata ndi chikondi. Ngati sichoncho, ndiye kuti ubale utha. Mwamuna amayesetsa kuyesetsa kuthetsa malingaliro ake onse, ndipo motero kuchokera kwa inu adzafunanso chimodzimodzi. Ubale wamtundu uwu siulandiridwa kwa anthu omwe nthawi zonse amafufuza malingaliro atsopano, malingaliro, malingaliro, kusintha.
Chikondi Storge
Ubale umenewu umamangidwa pa ubwenzi wa chikondi.
Makhalidwe a munthu. Mwamuna akugawana nanu malingaliro ake onse, mavuto ndikukumverani. Mukhoza kulankhula naye ndikukambirana mutu uliwonse. Simudzakhala ndi funso la momwe mungalankhulire kapena kunena za chinachake. Mukudziwa kuti nthawi zonse mumalandira thandizo kuchokera kwa iye ndipo simukuyenera kumudalira.
Chiwonetsero cha maubwenzi. Patapita nthawi, mwamuna ndi mkazi omwe ali pachibwenzi chotere akhoza kukhala ochulukana, chifukwa amadziwa za wina ndi mnzake china chilichonse: maganizo, zilakolako, maganizo. Muzochitika izi, abwenzi amatha kusangalatsana wina ndi mzake. Mwinamwake, iye adzafuna chidwi chatsopano ndi maganizo. Muyenera nthawi zonse kukhala ndi chizoloŵezi chomwe chidzakonzera malo anuawo.