Phunzirani zosowa zake.
Dziwani zosowa za anthu ndipo yesetsani kuzikwaniritsa - izi ndi zofunika kwambiri pa njira yopita ku cholinga chomwe mukufuna - kuphunzira momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito munthu. Komanso, ziyenera kumuthandiza kumvetsetsa mfundo za amayi. Ngati mungakwaniritse zosowa zake, mwamunayo sangamvetse zomwe mumapereka kwa izi.
Aliyense wa ife amakondwera ndi zizindikiro zilizonse za chisamaliro ndi chisamaliro. Kumbukirani kuti kwa mwamuna aliyense makolo anapereka mphatso yamtengo wapatali, chifukwa, malinga ndi makolowo, mphatsoyo iyenera kukhala yosangalatsa kwa mwanayo, komanso imakhala yothandiza, makamaka sizingakhale choncho. Ndikofunika kuti munthu apereke mphatso zoterozo, zomwe angafune. Pamene apatsidwa zomwe sakufuna makamaka, munthu akhoza "kuika" kukumbukira maganizo a makolo ake pa iye.
Lemezani mfundo zake.
Lemezani mfundo, malamulo ndi mfundo za amuna. Ngati malamulo anu ndi osiyana, ndiye kuti, ponena za zoyenera zanu, yesetsani kusatsutsa malingaliro ndi zoyenera za amuna. Mtengo umenewu ndi wofunika kwambiri, koma siwowonekera kwambiri pakati pa akazi. Munthu wamba sangafune mkazi yemwe samuwerengera. Komanso, yesetsani kupeza chimene chimamuchititsa mantha m'mabambo ena, kuphatikizapo amayi anu, ndipo yesetsani kuchepetsa ntchitozi.
Valani, mukulingalira kukoma kwake.
Phunzirani za zomwe amakonda pa maonekedwe. Yesetsani kukhala okongola malinga ndi zofunikira za amuna. Phunzirani za zofuna zake za kugonana, kuphatikizapo zomwe zimamukondweretsa ndi kuzikonda mu zovala zake. Chirichonse chimadalira pa zokonda za munthu aliyense, mosasamala kanthu kuti mu chikhalidwe chathu pali zobvala zopanda pake. Ngati mumaphunzira ndi "kulowa" muzofuna zake, izi zidzakhudza mwamuna kwambiri molimba komanso mogwira mtima. Ndikofunika kudziwa kuti kukonzekeretsa ndi kusamalira maonekedwe kumatengedwa kuti ndi imodzi mwa malamulo apamwamba a chidwi cha amayi.
Muwuzeni manjenje ake.
Kwa munthu aliyense, gawo lalikulu la moyo ndilopambana. Komanso, kupambana koteroko kungakhale kumadera osiyanasiyana. Ndikofunika kuti munthu aziwona kuchokera kumbali yanu zizindikilo za kuzindikira zabwino zake, ndipo ziribe kanthu zomwe zachitika. Mwachitsanzo, munganene kuti: "Inu mumaphika kwambiri kebabs" kapena "Mumanena nthabwala bwino" ndi zina zotero. Musaiwale kuyankha moyenera za ziyeneretso zakuthupi, kuwonetsa mbali zina za thupi, makamaka kugonana.
Khalani chithandizo kwa munthuyo.
Kudziwa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mwachangu mwamuna wokondedwa kumathandiza komanso lotsatira - yesetsani kukhala wachifundo ndi wokoma mtima nthawizonse. Pano ife sitinena za kukongola kwa thupi, koma chifukwa cha maganizo a wokondedwa, zabwino. Mwamuna amene akukumana ndi mavuto ndi thandizo lofunika pa mawonekedwe: "Mudzapirira izi", "ndikukhulupirira mwa inu", koma osati m'mawu okha, koma ndi ntchito. Ndipo, ndithudi, ngati pali zolephereka, munthu ayenera kupeŵa mawu olakwika monga: "Nthawi zonse mumakhala nazo", "Ndinakuuzani chomwecho," "Palibe chomwe chidzabwere" ndi zina zotero.
Yesani kusankha mawu olondola.
Ngati pali kusiyana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, muyenera kuwasankha mofatsa komanso mwachikondi. Chinthu chachikulu ndi kuyesa kugwirizanitsa kutsutsana kumeneku, monga momwe anthu nthawi zambiri amamvekera bwino komanso osayesedwa. Pankhani yowunikira ubalewu, chitani njira yowonekera bwino komanso yowoneka bwino kwa amuna - komanso ngati kuli kofunikira. Kawirikawiri mawu akuti "Tifunika kulankhula ndi inu", amachititsa kuti asokonezeke, amayamba kugwiriridwa, osathandizidwa ndi zina zotero.
Panthawi imodzimodziyo, mkazi wokongola nthawi yomwe abwenzi akulekanirana kapena mu chibwenzi pali mavuto, amatha kuzindikira nthawiyo ndikuthandiza mwamuna kuti afotokoze mkhalidwewo. Ndipotu, munthu sangathe kuzindikira zomwe zikuchitika, ndipo sakudziwa momwe angakonzere zovuta monga amai.
Musati "mutenge" munthu wokhala ndi maganizo.
Simukuyenera "kutsegula" munthu ndi chiwerengero cha malingaliro ndi malingaliro omwe sangathe kupirira. Kumbukirani kuti munthu sagwirizana ndi maganizo, kotero amatha kupirira zochepa kuposa mkazi. Mukakufotokozerani chimwemwe chochuluka kapena chisoni, maganizo anu amamulemetsa, ndipo sakudziwa momwe angachitire ndi momwe angagwirire nazo. Zimakhulupirira kuti misonzi ndi imodzi mwa zipangizo zogwirira ntchito zachikazi. Koma, makamaka, ngati mukuzunza misozi, mwamunayo amayamba kuchoka ndikuyang'ana akazi ochepa kwambiri.
Khalani owona mtima.
Mu chikhalidwe chathu, pali zambiri zokamba za njira zowonongeka pofuna kukopa mwamuna. Ndipotu, amuna amakopeka ndi kuwona mtima, m'malo mochita zinthu zonyansa komanso kusagwirizana. Chitetezo ndi chimodzi mwa zofunika zomwe amuna amafunikira, choncho khalidwe lofunika kwambiri ndilokhazikika pa chikhulupiliro cha mwamuna, kuphatikizapo osati zongopeka komanso zosasintha.
Ndikofunika kusunga muyeso mu chirichonse.
Musaiwale zochitika za wotchuka wotchuka "Mwamuna amazizira kwa mkazi yemwe amamukonda kwambiri, komanso mosemphana." Choncho, powonetsa malingaliro awo, kuchititsa munthu osadziŵika, m'pofunika kusunga muyeso winawake.
Yesetsani kukhala okhutira.
Ndikofunika kuti mkazi akhalebe wodziimira, wowala komanso wodziimira, osati chifukwa cha cholinga chokondweretsa bamboyo. Makhalidwe ndi maonekedwe a ufulu adakopa anthu.