Choncho, pofuna kukakamiza mnyamata kuti apange mwayi wapadera, amafunika kutsutsa zomwe sangathe kutsutsa. Kuti adziwe momwe angapangire anyamata apamwamba, munthu ayenera kumvetsetsa zolinga ndi maganizo a zochita zawo. Choyamba, amuna onse ndi ofunika kwambiri. Ngakhale omwe amawoneka kuti ndi anthu ochepetsedwa komanso osasamala, amafunanso kukwaniritsa zambiri pamoyo wawo. Zingokhala kuti simungamvepo kawirikawiri kuchokera kwa munthu wotero, chifukwa amanyazi kapena safuna kulankhula za zolinga zake. Nchifukwa chiyani achinyamata safuna kulandira maphunziro apamwamba? Mnyamata wanu akuganiza kuti sangathe kukhala pa dipatimenti imene imamukondweretsa. Pankhaniyi, yesetsani kutsutsana naye. Pamapeto pake, palibe wa inu ataya chirichonse. Pemphani wachinyamata kuti apite ku yunivesite ndikuyesa mayeso. Ngati izo sizigwira ntchito - ndiye inu munataya. Inde, muyenera kuchita izi pokhapokha mukawona kuti munthuyo ali ndi chidziwitso chokwanira. Sikoyenera kutumiza munthu ku yeseso ili, podziwa kuti sangathe kuchita. Anyamata ali njuga kwambiri anthu. Mwinamwake, iye adzakhumudwa ndi kuvomereza. Pankhaniyi, theka la milandu yatha kale. Tsopano ndikofunikira kumuthandiza kukonzekera mayeso, chifukwa ziribe kanthu momwe munthu aliri wanzeru, akufunikanso kubwereza zinthuzo ndikuzibwezeretsa kukumbukira. Kwa mnyamata kuti aphunzire zinthu, mungagwiritsenso ntchito dongosolo la mphoto ndi malonjezo. Inde, mukudziwa zomwe mungakondweretse wokondedwa wanu, osati kukuvulazani. Choncho, mumulonjeze zozizwitsa zosiyanasiyana zosangalatsa, pobwereza mutu wina mobwerezabwereza kapena ntchito yothetsera. Ngati, chifukwa cha zoyesayesa zanu, mnyamata angaphunzire ndendende kuti maphunziro, zomwe adalota, ndiye kuti mudzakhala chifanizo chenicheni, chimene adzakondwere nacho.
Komanso, achinyamata ena amakhulupirira kuti adzalandira ntchito popanda diploma. Ndi izi, nkofunikira kukangana ndikulimbikitsanso kulowa ku yunivesite. Mwachitsanzo, mungamuitane kuti ayesetse kupeza ntchito, koma ayi, koma ndi malipiro abwino komanso omwe angakwaniritse zolinga zake, kwa nthawi inayake. Ngati sangathe kuchita izi, ndiye kuti ayenera kupita ku maphunziro apamwamba ndikupeza zapadera zomwe zingamuthandize pa izi. Mwinamwake, mnyamata sangathe kupeza ntchito yabwino, chifukwa, ziribe kanthu, nkofunikira kukhala katswiri kuti akanthe olemba ntchito, kukhala ndi maphunziro apamwamba okha. Pambuyo pa zokambirana zambiri, chibwenzi chanu chitsimikizika kuti sizinthu zophweka ndipo adzaganiza kuti moyo wabwino umafuna kudziwa bwino ndi maphunziro.
Achinyamata ena amakayikira kuti akuphunzira kuti yunivesite imaphunzitsa nkhani zambiri zomwe sakuzifuna, kapena zimadziwa kale. Pankhaniyi, mukhoza kupeza njira yopulumukira. Mwachitsanzo, tsopano pali maphunziro apamwamba, omwe maphunziro okhawo amaphunzitsidwa. Inde, ena amakhulupirira kuti diploma ya bungwe kapena sukulu sizingapikisane ndi boma, komabe, pali mabungwe oyenerera omwe ophunzira awo ali ndi ntchito yabwino komanso malipiro ofanana, ndipo makamaka, amagwira ntchito zawo zapadera. Pachifukwa ichi, muyenera kusonkhanitsa mfundo zambiri kuchokera ku magwero odalirika ndikudziwa kuti mudzi wanu ndi uti wabwino kwa wokondedwa wanu.
Njira yina ndiyo yothandizira maphunziro. Pankhaniyi, mnyamatayu safunikira nthawi yambiri akuphunzira, koma panthawi yomweyi, pokhala ndi chidziwitso chokwanira, akhoza kuwongolera ndikupeza diploma.
Mwa njira, inunso muyenera kukhazikitsa chitsanzo chotsanzira. Choncho, ngati mukuwerengabe, mungathe kumuitanira ku yunivesite nthawi ndi nthaŵi, kuwafotokozera anzanu akusukulu. Muloleni mnyamata wanu amvetse kuti moyo wa wophunzira umasangalatsa komanso wosangalatsa. Ngati mwatsiriza kale maphunziro anu, yesetsani kupeza ntchito yabwino mwapadera wanu. Ichi chidzakhala chitsimikizo chokwanira kuti diploma ili ndi mtengo. Mnyamata wanu ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti, atatha kulandira maphunziro apamwamba, atha kusamalira banja lake, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kukwaniritsa zolinga zake ndi kusangalala ndi ntchitoyo. Kuonjezera apo, ndi diploma yomwe imakulolani kuti muyende pamsinkhu wa ntchito. Choncho, ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse simukhala ndi nthawi yovuta kuntchito, yesetsani kuti musamuuze. Ndi bwino kutchula nthawi ndi nthawi awo omwe adaphunzira ndi kupindula, komanso omwe, pokhala anzeru, koma osakhala ndi diploma, gwiritsani ntchito ndalama zapadera kwambiri. Ngakhalenso chibwenzi chako chimayerekezera kuti sichikukondweretsa, ndithudi, sungamvetsetse, mvetserani ndikukambiraninso zambiri. Ndipo ngati mumagwirizanitsa anthu ndi lingaliro limeneli, ndi maganizo omwe nthawi zonse amalingaliridwa, ndiye posakhalitsa mnyamatayu adzaganiza mozama za maphunziro apamwamba ndikupita kukapereka zikalata ku yunivesite.