Choncho, kumbukirani malangizo othandiza pophunzitsa munthu.
- Zochitika kunyumba zimakhala zosasangalatsa kwenikweni kwa mwamuna. Choncho, kumukakamiza kuti achite izi kapena ntchitoyo, pemphani pempho lanu kuti likhale lalifupi komanso lofikira momwe mungathere kumvetsetsa kwa munthu: "tengani zinyalala, ayimilira pakhomo" kapena "apa pali zotsukira. Chotsani chipinda. " Ndi zopempha zoterozo, sipangakhale zotsalira. Ndikofunika kudziwa kuti amuna ambiri samadziwa momwe angachitire izi kapena izi. Izi zimawapangitsa kukhala zovuta, choncho zimakukhumudwitsani kukuthandizani. Phunzitsani munthu momwe angapukutire fumbi bwino, momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito maluwa abwino, ndi zina zotero.
"Pemphani kuti muchite chinthu chimodzi osati nthawi imodzi." Makamaka pachiyambi cha "kulera." Nthawi zambiri munthu samakumbukira ntchito zingapo kunyumba. Pamene angathe kugwira ntchito yanu, yathokozani, mumulole kuti apumule, ndiye mutha kupempha chinthu choti chichitike.
- Ngati munthu amachita chinachake chokhudza nyumbayo, musayime pamtima wake, musanyoze ntchito yake, musamuphunzitse. Amuna amadana ndi kutsutsidwa, izi zingachititse kuti iye akane kuchita chilichonse. Bwino kufotokozera mtundu wotani umene mumayang'ana kwa iye, ndi kuchita zina. Onetsetsani kuti mumayamikira ntchito ya munthu, ngakhale kuti sanachite chilichonse choyenera, amayenera kutamandidwa.
"Kupanda thandizo kungasonyezedwe kuti upeze thandizo." "Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito bwanji choyeretsa chatsopano? Uchi, sindikuchita nawe. " Amuna amadzikuza okha ndipo amakonda kudzimva kuti ndi ofunika, ozindikira, okhoza kuchita chirichonse. Nthawi zambiri mumamukumbutsa za makhalidwe ake, muuzeni momwe moyo wanu ukanakhalira wopanda moyo.
- Ngati mukufuna njira zosiyana siyana zapakhomo, pewani pang'ono. Tengani bokosili, lembani pamapepala kuti muzitha kulemba (ndi kuseketsa) ndi kusiya masambawo mu bokosi. Mosiyana, ndi mwamuna wake, tulutsani masamba. Kotero mutha kusangalala ndikugawira ntchito pakusamba tsiku limodzi.
- Gwiritsani ntchito kugawidwa kwa maudindo: lero mukuyenda ndi galu, mawa ndili. Chinsinsi cha njirayi ndikuti sikoyenera kukakamiza munthu kuti achite zomwe amadana nazo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati amadana ndi kusamba mbale, sambani nokha. Mulole bamboyo agwire ntchito yomwe angathe, yomwe siimamukwiyitse, kotero kuti mumuthandizidwe zambiri.
- Mutamandeni chifukwa cha zonse zomwe adachita. Anatsuka desiki yake? Mukonzekere iye chinachake chokoma. Kodi iye anatulutsa zinyalala? Mutsutseni zovuta ndi zovuta. Mwamuna ayenera kuona ndi kuyamikira kuyamikira ntchito yake.
- Musamukakamize munthuyu ndi ntchito zapakhomo. Ndikofunika kumuphunzitsa kuti akuthandizeni ndi kuyeretsa, kuchotsa zinyalala, kuyeretsa masokosi anu, koma musamuumirize munthu kuti achite chirichonse. Pambuyo pake, iye, choyamba, wamkulu, komanso woyang'anira nyumba - iwe. Musasinthe malo omwe ali m'chilengedwe.
Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito malangizo awa, posachedwa munthuyo adzizoloŵera ntchito zake "zazing'ono" mnyumbamo. Amuna ena, podziwa kuti akuyamikila mvula yamkuntho usiku, atayamba kupereka ntchito zawo. Ndipo ndi chiyani chomwe chingakhale bwino kuposa mwamuna wokondedwa amene ali wokonzeka kukuthandizani mu chirichonse?