Kotero, kenako tidzakambirana za maganizo 50 omwe angasinthe moyo wanu.
1. Musamaope kulakwitsa. Ena amakhulupirira kuti munthu wanzeru amaphunzira kuchokera ku zolakwa za anthu ena, ndipo ndi wopusa payekha. Chifukwa cha mawu awa, ambiri amadziimba mlandu pa zolakwa zawo ndipo amaopa kuyamba kuchita. Kotero, iwo amakonda kukhala pangodya ndipo samachita kalikonse. Kuphatikizapo zolakwa. Kunena zoona, nzeru sizingakhale zolakwika. Aliyense akhoza kupanga chisankho cholakwika, koma ndi kofunika kwambiri kuti tiphunzire kuchokera ku vuto ili losasangalatsa ndikupitirizabe.
2. Khulupirirani bwino. Ngati mukutsimikiza kuti zonse zidzakhala monga momwe mwafunira, palibe chifukwa chodzidandaulira. Ndipo ngakhale zonse zitakhala zosiyana kwambiri ndi zomwe mumaganiza, izi sizomwe mukuganiza kuti simungathe kuchita chilichonse. Mulimonsemo, mwapezapo, ndipo ichi ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri.
3. Musakumbidwe m'mbuyomo. Kuwongolera zolephera zanu zonse zapitazo kukumbukira, mumataya mphamvu zanu ndi nthawi, m'malo mochita lero. Zolakwa zakale sizingatheke, ndizofunika kuti musadzazichite.
4. Yesetsani kumvetsetsa anthu ena, ndipo sayenera kukhala omwe angasinthe moyo wanu kapena kupereka malangizo othandiza. Chirichonse chiri ndi chifukwa. Ndipo mmalo mokhumudwitsidwa ndi winawake yemwe anakuuzani chinachake chosasangalatsa, yesetsani kudziyika nokha mmalo mwake ndi kumvetsa chomwe chinalimbikitsa munthu kunena choncho.
Yesetsani kuyang'ana pa zinthu zomwe zingasinthe moyo wanu komanso miyoyo ya okondedwa, zabwino. Titha kuganiza kuti zinthu zonse ndi zoipa ndipo zidzangowonjezereka, ndipo mukhoza kuzindikira vuto liri lonse ngati chopinga, ndikugonjetsa kuti, mudzalandira mphotho. Kodi mukuganiza kuti, ndi zotani mwayi wa kupambana ndi waukulu?
6 Chitani zabwino. Kumbukirani kuti zochita zanu zonse zidzakhudza moyo wanu. Choncho, chitani zonse zomwe zingatheke, makamaka ngati zilibe kanthu kwa inu - m'tsogolomu mudzapeza zambiri.
7 Sungani mobwerezabwereza. Kusangalala kumakhala ndi galasilo: kumwetulira, ndithudi mudzamwetulira. Kuwonjezera apo, munthu wokomatira amakhala wogwirizana ndi moyo wabwino, ndipo ngati muwoneka bwino, mudzakhala munthu wotere.8 Loto. Musaganize kuti malotowa ndikutaya nthawi. Mu maloto, mukuona zabwino zomwe mukufuna kuti muzipindule.
9. Sankhani zomwe mukufunikira kukwaniritsa. Kumbukirani kuti munthu wopanda cholinga adzatayika. Kuona nokha zomwe mukufuna kukwaniritsa, mumamvetsa kuti kuyesetsa kwanu sikuli chabe.
10. Gawani njira kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zomwe zingasinthe moyo wanu ndikubweretsa zabwino, muzigawo zingapo. Mwachitsanzo: Ndikufuna kuyenda kwambiri. Izi zimafuna ndalama zambiri. Kotero, ine ndiyenera kuti ndipeze ndalamazo. Kuti mupeze ntchito yabwino, mukufuna maphunziro abwino. Choncho, pakalipano ndikuyenera kuyesetsa ndikudziŵa zambiri. Yesetsani kuchita khama lililonse.
11. Musakhale aulesi. Mungathe kunena nokha kuti: "Lero ndi tsiku loipa, mvula imagwa ndipo sindikufuna kuchita chirichonse. Choncho, ndikuyamba kuzindikira maloto anga mawa. " Koma mawa kachiwiri, chinachake chidzachitika chomwe chidzakukakamizani kuti muchepetse kukwaniritsa cholinga. Choncho musakhale aulesi - yambani kuchita lero.
Musapitirire. Kupitirira, mthupi ndi m'maganizo, kumapangitsa kuti musakhale osangalala ndi moyo. Yesetsani kumasuka mokwanira ndikumbukira kuti kuthetsa kupuma ndikofunika kwambiri monga ntchito yabwino.
13. Sangalalani zonse zomwe mumachita. Mwa njira iyi simudzatopa, ndipo mudzasunga chidwi ndi moyo.
14. Tengani udindo wanu wakale, wamtsogolo komanso wamtsogolo. Ndiwewe amene ali ndi udindo pa chilichonse chimene chinachitika m'moyo wako. Kukwanitsa kuzindikira zolakwa za munthu ndi chimodzi mwa mawonetseredwe a mphamvu ya khalidwe.
15. Gwiritsani ntchito mphamvu ya malingaliro kuti mudziwe zomwe mukufuna. Kumbukirani kuti chilichonse chomwe mukuganiza chimakhudza moyo wanu. Choncho, tulutsani malingaliro oipa m'njira zonse zodziwika.
16. Phunzirani kuthetsa nkhawa ndi mantha. Kumbukirani kuti moyo mu mantha si moyo. Pokhapokha ngati maganizo anu ali opanda nkhawa, mukhoza kukhala ndi moyo wamphumphu.
17. Kambiranani za anthu ena zabwino, ndipo mwamsanga muzindikira kuti anayamba kukuchitirani mosiyana. Koma panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, pewani kunyoza. Mwa munthu aliyense mungapeze chinachake chabwino, koma ngati wina sakusangalatsani, khalani chete, koma musamapite.
18. Kumbukirani mawu akuti mawa adzakhala oipa kwambiri. M'malo mwake, ganizirani kuti ndinu okondwa ndipo mudzasangalala kwambiri, olemera komanso opambana.
19. Kumbukirani kuti munthu aliyense amabwera m'moyo mwako chifukwa, koma kukupatsani mwayi. Ziribe kanthu kaya ndi zabwino kapena zoipa.
20. Phunzirani kukhululuka. Amene amasunga kunyoza mkati, amachita zoipa kwa munthu wolakwika, yemwe amamukhumudwitsa, komanso poyamba payekha. Simungasokoneze zochita za munthu wina, koma mukhoza kusintha maganizo anu kwa iwo.
21. Phunzirani momwe mungalankhulire ndi anthu. Awuzeni zabwino, musadandaule ndi nkhani zosatha za umoyo wanu wosauka, kudziwa momwe mungakhalire osangalatsa kwa munthu, ndi zomwe siziri. Kukwanitsa kuyankhulana ndi sitepe yofunikira yopita patsogolo.
22. Tengani nthawi yanu kuti mumvetse zomwe mukufuna. Tengani nthawi yokhala chete ndikuganiziranso momwe moyo wanu udzayambe kusintha.
23. Kumbukirani kuti tsiku lino silidzachitikanso. Kotero musazengereze mawa zomwe mungachite lero. Kumvetsetsani kuti tsiku lirilonse likhoza kudzazidwa ndi kupambana, ndipo ndiwe nokha amene mungathe kuwapanga.
24. Ndizo malingaliro anu omwe amapanga moyo wanu womwe ungasinthe njira ndi njira. Choncho, yesani kuganiza moyenera.
25. Matamando ali ndi mphamvu zodabwitsa. Mwa kuvomereza zochita za anthu ena, mumakhala chitukuko chabwino m'dziko lino lapansi. Choncho, yang'anirani anthu ena, ndipo mudzapeza pafupifupi chilichonse chimene chiyenera kutamandidwa.
26. Musamaope kumvetsera maganizo a wina payekha, koma kumbukirani kuti n'zosatheka kukondweretsa aliyense. Choncho, mverani malangizo a ena, koma chitani zomwe mukukhulupirira.
27. Kumbukirani kuti nthawi zonse mumadziwa yankho la vuto. Muyenera kuima ndi kumvetsera mawu anu amkati. Musayembekezere kuti mavuto anu adzathetsedwa mwanjira yomwe simukukayikira ngakhale.
28. Aliyense wa ife ali ndi talente. Koma zoona zake n'zakuti wina ali ndi luso loimba, wina akuvina, mungathe kukhala ndi luso m'mabuku, kuphika, kuphunzira zinenero ... Ndikofunika kumvetsa zomwe mukuchita bwino ndikukulitsa luso lanu. Kotero inu mudzapambana kupambana kwakukulu kuposa mmadera omwe maluso anu ali ochepa.
29. Mukusankha kuti izi zidzachitika kapena tsikuli. Ngati mukuganiza kuti mumagwiritsa ntchito mumlengalenga wokhazikika, zidzakhala choncho. Koma ngati mumaganiza kuti tsiku lirilonse lidzakhala lapadera, lidzadza ndi nthawi zabwino, ndiye ndithudi zichitika.
30. Phunzirani kuyembekezera ndi kupirira. Nthawi zina kusaleza mtima kumafuna zambiri, koma pambuyo podikira pang'ono, mungapeze chinachake chimene simudalota.
31. Yesetsani kugwira ntchito ndi chidwi ndi changu. Ngati ntchito yanu ndi ntchito basi, simungasangalale nayo, ndipo inu simungamvetse chifukwa chake mukuchitira. Ndipo izo zikutanthauza kuti moyo wonse udzawonongedwa.
32. Kumbukirani: kulephera sikuli chifukwa chosiya. Ichi ndi chifukwa chogwira ntchito molimbika. Choncho musayime ngati simukupambana. Ngati mukufuna kukwaniritsa chinachake, ndithudi mudzachipeza.
33. kuthetsa mavuto pamene akufika. Simungathe kuchita nawo zonse mwakamodzi, kotero yesetsani kumvetsa zomwe zili zofunika kwa inu pakalipano, ndipo chikhoza kuyembekezera.
34. Pangani malonjezo ngati mungathe kuwafikitsa molondola. Sizovuta kulonjeza chirichonse, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti pakapita nthawi simukuyenera kudabwa ndi momwe mungachitire.
35. Mvetserani malangizo a anthu ena ndipo musayembekeze kuti mudzalangidwa chifukwa cha zomwe simunachite.
36. Khalani moyo lero. Sangalalani ndi zomwe mwakwanitsa, chimwemwe chilichonse, ngakhale chaching'ono, chomwe chachitika lero. Ndikhulupirire, izi ndi zabwino kusiyana ndi nthawi yomwe yapita, ngakhale opambana.
37. Musakhale otsutsa. Monga tanena kale, maganizo anu ndiwo ofunika kukwaniritsa zokhumba zanu. Koma ngati mukufuna chosiyana, palibe chomwe chidzachitike.
38. Musaope zovuta. Amabweretsa kumoyo wanu, ndipo chifukwa cha iwo mukhoza kukula monga munthu.
39. Musataye nthawi pazovuta. Ngati mutasintha kusintha moyo wanu, onetsetsani kuti mumapeza zambiri kuposa momwe mumasinthira.
40. Mvetserani mawu a anthu ena ndipo yesetsani kupeza tanthauzo lawo lenileni. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa masitepe pa njira yopambana ndi chiyanjano.
41. Mu moyo, chirichonse chikugwirizana. Chimene chimakuwoneka kuti ndinu wodziimira nokha, makamaka chimagwirizanitsa, ndipo ntchito yanu ndi kuphunzira kuwona.
42. Yesetsani kuti mupitirize kukula monga munthu ndikuthandizani abwenzi anu ndi anthu omwe mumacheza nawo.
43. Yang'anani zomwe mukuganiza, ndikuyendetsa maganizo oipa omwe angawononge moyo wanu. Kuganizira za chikondi, chitukuko, kupambana, chuma, mudzachipeza.
44. Pita "ngati kamba", osati "ngati kalulu" - nthawi zonse, wopanikizika, sitepe ndi sitepe. Lolani njira iyi ikhale yaitali, koma zipatso za kuyesetsa kwanu zidzakondweretsa inu kwambiri.
45. Moyo ndi waufupi kwambiri kuti usachoke m'mawu ofunikira osafunika omwe angachoke mawa kuti chichitike lero. Musayambe kunena kapena kuchita chilichonse chabwino.
46. Yesetsani kuphonya mwayi kuti mukwaniritse cholinga chanu. Kumbukirani kuti mwayi sungaperekedwe panonso.
47. Yang'anani zamtsogolo ndi chiyembekezo ndipo musawope zatsopano. Chimene lero chikuwoneka chosadabwitsa, chosafunikira kapena chokuvulazani, chingathe kusintha moyo wanu mawa. Zowonongeka, monga telefoni kapena locomotive, zinali zochimwa ndi zosayenera, tsopano ife sitingakhoze kulingalira moyo wathu popanda iwo.
Ndipo potsiriza - malangizo angapo a "akazi" a momwe angapezere kudzidalira.
48. Dzikondeni nokha. Ziribe kanthu momwe izo zingamvekere, koma ndinu nokha. Kumbukirani kuti mkazi yemwe sakonda yekha sangadalire chikondi cha wina aliyense.
49. Kuti mudziwe kudzikonda nokha, musati mulepheretse "zowawa" zanu. Pangani nokha, okondedwa anu, zomwe mwakhala mukuzifuna kwa nthawi yayitali, koma nthawi zonse mukuzichotsa. Tengani kusamba kwa thovu, idyani chidutswa cha chokoleti, kugula chinthu chokongola ... Ndithudi inu mudzakhala ndi malingaliro ambiri, momwe mungasangalatse nokha!
50. Ngati zikuwoneka kuti chirichonse chili choipa m'moyo kuti kulibe kwina kulikonse ... Sintha chithunzi! Palibe chomwe chimasintha malingaliro amkati, monga kudzipatula kuchokera kwa mkazi wamwamuna kupita kumalo abwino.
Malangizo awa ndi ophweka mokwanira, ndipo poyamba kuwatsatira lero, posachedwa mudzapeza zomwe mukufunikira - mogwirizana ndi dziko lanu lamkati, choncho - ndi ena, phunzirani kuyang'ana mtsogolo mwachiyembekezo. Komanso, kukondana nokha, mumadzidalira nokha, kuti posachedwapa zidzakuthandizani kuti mupambane. Kamodzi ndikawerenga mawu abwino kwambiri: "Palibe zolinga zomwe sizingatheke kwa msungwana yemwe ali wolimba mtima ndi kuvala chovala chokometsera cha mink." Ndipo lolani yachiwiri inu musakhalepo, koma kuleredwa kwa kudzidalira kuli mmanja mwanu. Chofunika kwambiri ndi kukonda ndi kudzilemekeza nokha. Ndipo potsiriza chovalacho chidzawoneka. Tikukhulupirira kuti mutha kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro 50 omwe angasinthe moyo wanu.