Ufulu - pamene nthawi zonse imabweretsa chimwemwe, chikondi - pamene kukhulupirika kumakondwera

Atsikana ndi zolengedwa zodabwitsa. Nthawi zina sitidziwa zomwe tikufuna, ndipo tikawona zomwe zikuchitika kuzungulira, timafuna chinthu chomwecho, ndikuiwala zomwe tili nazo. Msungwana ali ndi ufulu, koma muli ndi chibwenzi, osati mnyamata chabe, koma wokondedwa! Kodi mungapeze bwanji ufulu ndi okondedwa anu? "Ufulu - pamene nthawi zonse umabweretsa chimwemwe, chikondi - pamene chikhulupiliro chikondwera" - nkhani yathu. Ndipo kotero, zonse izi zikutanthawuza chiyani, ine ndizifotokoza pansipa.

Tiye tiyambe ndi mfundo yakuti ngati muli pachibwenzi mukuganiza kuti muli mu khola, ndiye kuti ubalewu suli chomwe mukusowa. Mfundo yakuti muli ndi mwamuna wokhazikika komanso kuti mumakhala ndi ubale weniweni womwe umayenera kukukondweretsani ndi kubweretsa chimwemwe. Kusagwirizana kukuyenera kukubweretsani chimwemwe ndipo izi zidzakhala ufulu kwa inu. Ndipo pamene simukufuna kuyang'ana anyamata ena, koma mukufuna kuyang'ana ndikukhala ndi chibwenzi chanu, ndiye ichi ndi chizindikiro chachikulu chimene mumachikonda, ndipo kukhulupirika kumeneku kukubweretsani chisangalalo. Anyamata ena sangabweretse chimwemwe chochuluka chokha chifukwa cha kukhalapo kwawo, monga wokondedwa.

Koma choyenera kuchita chiyani pamene onse osangalala akuiwalika, ndipo akufuna ufulu umene poyamba unalipo kale munthu wokondedwayo? Ndikukuuzani pa chitsanzo, izi ndizo zotsatirazi, abwenzi awiri anakomana, wina amakhala ndi mnyamata wamba komanso chikondi chachikulu, koma nthawi zina amakumbukira konse za izo, ndipo amayamba kulota za moyo wakale pamene analibe. Ndipo msungwana wina "ali paulendo waulere", pangano limodzi mu cinema, lina limapatsa maluwa, lachitatu likudikirira pakhomo ndikuvomereza mu chikondi. Wina amakonda zovala zosaoneka bwino, jeans ndi nsapato, ndipo winayo nthawi zonse amadzikonzekeretsa bwino, komanso amadzipangidwira, amajambula ndi zidendene, ndipo, ngakhale zili choncho, wina ali ndi chikondi chamisala, ndipo wina ali ndi miyezi yokha. Atsikana awiri osiyana kwambiri. Wina ndi wamkulu, winayo ndi wamng'ono, maloto amodzi tsopano a maubwenzi osasamala popanda kudzipereka popanda chikondi, koma mwachikondi, monga kale, monga kale, kale, asanayambe kukomana naye, ndipo winayo akufunafuna mofulumira "kulowa munthu wamkulu njira ". Kotero, funso ndilo, kodi atsikanafe tikufuna chiyani pamapeto?

Chikondi! Inde, tikufuna chikondi chachikulu ndi choyera, koma kodi tinaganizira ngakhale zomwe zidzachitike titatha kukondana? Izi zikhoza kufanizidwa ndi ukwati ... timalota ukwati, chovala choyera, maluwa, mphete za diamondi, ulendo wapadera waukwati, koma kodi timaganizira zomwe zikutiyembekezera ku mbali inayo yachinyanja? Tidzakhala ndi moyo wotani? Palibe magulu, chifukwa ndinu kale mkazi wokwatiwa, palibe nthawi yaulere, chifukwa nthawi yonse yaulere idzakhala ya mwamuna wake. Kusamba, kusinthanitsa, kuphika osati kudzikonda nokha ndikoyamba, ndipo kwa iye, chokumana nacho chimayambira, ngati sopo sangathe kupitirira oversaturated, kapena kuti sati yake sichiwonongeke, kapena momwe sakanati aone fumbi pansi, ndi zina zotero.

Chinthu chomwecho chomwe timachipeza titatha kupeza chikondi, sitingathe kutembenuza maulendo atsopano, osakopeka kumbali, osakwatirana ndi anyamata, nthawi zina palibe magulu, komanso ngakhale misonkhano ndi abwenzi - omwe ali kale omwe ali ndi mwayi. Ndipo mbali ina, palibe kuvutika maganizo kumene palibe wina akukufunirani, nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi makhalidwe abwino komanso auzimu, ndipo sikuti ndizojambula pamaso panu, chifukwa amakukondani. Timasiya kuyamikira zomwe takhala tikuchita kwa nthawi yaitali, ndikuiwala momwe zinalili zovuta pa moyo waufulu. Ndi chikondi, ndi ubale ndi wokondedwa amene ayenera kubweretsa ufulu ndi chisangalalo.

Mmodzi amafuna kuti azikangana, kukondana, maluwa, kuti apeze, koma ali ndi wina yemwe amamupulumutsa ku chisanu ndi kusungulumwa. Yemwe amamukonda iye mwinamwake ndikupukuta misonzi yake akamayang'ana melodramas pamodzi. Ndipo wachiwiri akufuna kupeza chikondi chake ndikufulumira kugwirizanitsa moyo wake ndi iye osati kukhala wosamvetsetseka komanso wosungulumwa, chifukwa kumakhala kozizira kwambiri usiku, pamene bata likulumikiza ponseponse ndipo amakhala yekha ndi maganizo ake, ndipo palibe kuchoka kwa iwo. Mulimonsemo pali zonse zabwino ndi zolakwika, zonse mu moyo waufulu, ndi moyo wokhudzana ndi moyo wina ?! Tinalengedwa kukonda, ndipo chikondi ndi ufulu wathu weniweni, ufulu wauzimu. Kuti nthawi zina aziyanjana ndi anzawo, mukhoza kuwonjezera masewero awo kwa iwo, mwachitsanzo, kudziwana, kapena kukondana ngati anthu atsopano, chinthu chachikulu pa nkhaniyi ndicho kukhala ndi luso lojambula. Mnyamata wokondedwa amamvetsa zonse ndikupita kuntchito chifukwa cha mkazi wake wokondedwa, chinthu chachikulu ndi chofewa komanso chofikira kufotokozera.

Timafuna nthawi zonse zomwe tilibe, ndipo zimakhala zosavuta kuti tisiyire zomwe tili nazo komanso kwa omwe amakhala ndi ife nthawi zonse. Ayi, sizovuta kukana ndipo sizovuta, ndipo n'chifukwa chiyani muyenera kukana? Kukhala wosungulumwa kachiwiri, ndi kugogoda m'magulu kufunafuna anthu atsopano chifukwa cha maluwa ndi botolo la champagne? Chifukwa chiyani? Palibe chimene chidzalowe m'malo mwa duwa lodzazidwa ndi chikondi ndi chidwi, chomwe timapatsidwa ndi wokondedwa wathu. Pamapeto pake, izi ndi tanthauzo la moyo wathu - m'chikondi, ndi kupeza chikondi, timapeza tanthauzo la moyo. Ngati mutakhala ndi moyo wokalamba womwewo, ndipo simunayanjane ndi wokondedwa wanu, ingokumbukirani momwe zinalili popanda iye, momwe munagwidwira maganizo ndipo mudali wosungulumwa. Ndipo chikondi chonse kwa iye chidzabwerera kwa inu, ndipo mwamsanga mudzafuna kumukumbatira kapena kumuimbira ngati sakukhala. Chikhumbo chosiya zenizeni, ndi moyo wa munthu ndikukhala moyo wodabwitsa zimachitika kamodzi mwa aliyense, ndi zachilendo, chifukwa "nthawi zonse zimakhala zabwino pomwe ife sitilipo," monga nzeru zachikhalidwe zimati.