Amuna amene ayenera kupeŵa

Posankha wokondedwa, kodi mumatsogoleredwa ndi chiyani? Kodi muli ndi malamulo aliwonse, kapena mumadalira mulanduyo, ndikusankha mwachindunji? Ngati simunaphunzire kusiyanitsa pakati pa anthu, mukufunikira malingaliro angapo.

Mtundu 1 - Wokongola


Mukuyenda mumsewu, ndipo kukongola kwakukulu kumasambira. Kungoganizira za DiCaprio, Cruz ndi Depp mwa munthu m'modzi. Mutha kuyang'anitsitsa maonekedwe ake pa $ 1000000, koma kokha khungu la Hollywood likumwetulira. Iye ndi wokongola kwambiri moti palibe wojambula sangathe kufotokozera kukongola uku ndichitsulo. Kodi mwasungunuka kale? Musachedwe. Ndi anthu okongola kotero muyenera kukhala maso. Amakonda kutenga malo anu pachibwenzi. Izi muyenera kumusamalira, kumuika ndi kupereka mphatso. Ayenera kupita kumalo osungirako misala kuposa kukuwonani. Choncho, pamene amayang'anitsitsa kukongola kwake, palibe mnzako amene amasamala.

Nthawi zonse osungirako manja amatha kukwaniritsa zokhumba zawo, mitundu yonse ya salons, malo odyera okongola, maphwando apamwamba ndi masewera otchuka. Ndipo, ndithudi, zonsezi zimawuluka mu khola. Kwa ndani? Mwinamwake, ndi inu. Anthu okongola alibe nthawi yogwira ntchito, ndipo zofuna zawo pakati pa amayi nthawi zonse zimakhala zabwino. Choncho, simukuyembekeza kukhulupirika kwa kalonga wotero, nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi amayi angapo. Iwo ali, monga lamulo, zazikulu egoists, ndipo palibe chifukwa chowathandizira iwo mu zovuta. Chabwino, ndithudi, kumenyana ndi winawake mumdima wakuda, mnzako amamenya zonse zolemba za mtunda wautali.


Mtundu 2 - Kusangalala


Mukuyambira phwando, ndipo mumaseka naye usiku wonse. Kuchokera mkamwa mwake nthawizonse sypyatsya nthabwala, nthabwala ndi mawu ophweka basi. Mukusangalala kwambiri kuti simukuzindikira momwe nthawi idathamangidwira, ndipo m'mawa mumayendera ndi minofu ya makina apansi. Ndi izi pokhapokha pa opera ndi zokopa zitatu kupita, zonse zidzakhala chimodzimodzi. Iye nthawizonse amakhala moyo wa kampani, abwenzi ake ndi antchito amamukonda iye. Koma, moyo wathu suli wosangalatsa kwambiri, choncho umachepetsanso kwambiri. Munthu wosangalala sangathe kuchita zimenezo. Adzakubweretsani ndi mawu amodzi omwe "muyenera kusewera kuseka," kapena "ngati mutamwetulira moyo, adzasekerera." Ndikufunseni kuti: "Kodi mumagona nthawi zonse?" Chowonadi n'chakuti maganizo oterewa, amabisa zovuta zina zooneka bwino. Kawirikawiri izi ndi kuwonongeka kwa thupi, mwinamwake penapake vuto la maganizo, kapena mwinamwake kukhala wovuta kwambiri. Aliyense ali ndi zake zokha, koma iye ali. Ndipo n'zosatheka kulimbana ndi ichi, chifukwa msilikali wanu adzaseka kwambiri. Anthu oterowo nthawi zambiri amakhala okha omwe ali okalipa komanso oganiza zoipa. Zingathe kufotokozedwa ndi mfundo yakuti, chifukwa chokhala wabwino nthawi zonse komanso osasokonezeka kuseka, thupi limakhala ndi mphamvu zambiri. Ndipo chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri amatha kutopa. Chabwino, chifukwa cha kukwiya ndi mantha. Choncho khalani maso. Munthu wotero ndi wabwino kwa nthawi ndithu, kuti akhale wamuyaya ... Sankhani inu.


Mtundu 3 - Chifuwa cha golidi


Pa tsiku loyamba adzabwera akuthamanga kwa inu ndi maluwa okongola kwambiri. Pachiwiri, perekani kanyumba kakang'ono kakang'ono, monga chokopa kapena thumba la ndalama, lachitatu lidzakusangalatsani ndi zokongoletsera zokwera mtengo. Ndipo zonsezi zimalimbikitsidwanso ndi masitolo odyera komanso matayala amatekisi. Chabwino, basi loto! Inde. Mpaka mutalowa mu mphamvu yake. Akangomva kuti ndinu ake, zonsezi zidzatha. Mukakwaniritsa zofuna zanu, simukumufunanso, ngati kuti sanakakamize kuti agwire ntchitoyo. Amuna amenewa amasonkhanitsa akazi motere. Iwo nthawizonse amakhala ndi bukhu lodzaza ndi mafoni a amayi mu chikondi, okonzeka kuthamangira usana ndi usiku, kwa maola angapo. Nyumbayi imakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi obwera kuchokera kudziko lina, koma abambo am'mudzi amapezekanso. Iye akuwoneka kuti akudzipangira yekha, ndipo atsikana ambiri omwe ali mmenemo ali, kuposa momwe amadziwira molimba mtima komanso mwamunthu.


Mtundu wa 4 - Shirt Guy


Muli ndi misonzi m'maso mwanu chifukwa bwana sadalankhulane mwaulemu, kapena wokondedwayo anathetsa ubwenzi wake, ndipo kenako, palibe pomwepo, Bwenzi lapamtimali likuwonekera. Amamvetsera, amapukuta mphuno yake ndi mpango, amawathira tiyi, ndipo m'mawa amakuchezerani. Chabwino, bwino kuposa anzanu onse padziko lapansi. Ngati mnzanuyo ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi, ndi bwino kuganizira za mutuwu: ndipo ndichifukwa chiyani ndikupachikidwa? Kodi mukuganiza kuti munthuyu ali ndi msinkhu waukulu kwambiri wachifundo? Inde izo zimatero! Ndipo kuposa msinkhu uwu ndi wamtali kuposa momwe bere lanu lirili. Musamayembekezere kuti amvetsetse mutatha kugonana naye. Ngakhale kuti n'zotheka ndi kuyembekezera, koma ngati akugonana ndi inu, adakonda misala. Tsopano kutsutsana kwakukulu kukuchitika pa funso: kodi pali ubwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, koma munthu uyu sagwera mu gulu la abwenzi. Pomwe munthu wodalirika komanso womvetsetsa amakhala pansi, akukhala nyama yowonongeka kwambiri, yomwe ikufuna kuti ikhale yodzaza ndi wodwalayo. Bzinesi apa ndi mbali ziwiri. Mudzasangalala nazo, koma simudzakhumudwa pamene wotsatira foniyo akuyankha kuti: "Musandiyitane."


Mtundu wachisanu - Chisoni chamoto


Chosiyana kwambiri ndi mtundu wakale wa amuna ndi chakuti uyu sangakutonthozeni. Izi muyenera kumutonthoza! Chirichonse chiri cholakwika ndi iye. Ndipo kuntchito sikugwirizana, ndikukangana ndi abwenzi, makolo samamvetsa kapena sakudziwa (zomwe siziri zoona). Ndipo iwe, monga Virgin Mary wabwino, yesetsani kuthandiza anthu osauka, mwinamwake mutonthoze iye, kenako amamva ngati akudzipha. Adzakupangitsani kukhulupirira kuti ndiwewopambana kwambiri! Wokoma mtima kwambiri, wokonda kwambiri, wachifundo kwambiri. Pa nthawi imodzimodziyo, adzatsimikizira kuti amayi ake anali achiwawa komanso achiwawa. (Ichi ndi kusuntha kwa maganizo komwe mumangofuna kutenga malo a amayi ake ndikukonza mkhalidwewu) Kukhala mayi wabwino kwa mwana uyu. Mukuwona kuti ndiwamoyo, koma vampirchik yanu imachotsedwa ndi mphamvu zanu, kaya ndalama, chithandizo, ntchito, ndipo mutangothamanga, nthawi yomweyo amazembera ndikuyika mutu pachifuwa, kunena kuti, ndichitireni chifundo, ine zovuta kwambiri. za chirichonse ngati sizinali zowonongeka kotero, onetsetsani kuti izi sizikudetsa nkhawa kwa kanthawi, koma njira ya moyo, iye adzakugwiritsani ntchito mpaka mutatopa komanso sakufuna zosiyanasiyana. Panthawi imeneyo akukudodometsani mudzawona munthu wokhwima, wodzala ndi mphamvu zedi m'tsogolo ... Koma ... iwe sulinso panjira, adzakuthokozani ndi kutembenuka ndikutseka chitseko.

Ndi momwe iwo aliri osiyana, amuna awa. Ndipo ngati mumaphunzira kuzizindikira kutali, mungapewe zolakwa zambiri. Kapena mwinamwake mmodzi wa iwo mumawakonda kwenikweni. Ndikuyembekeza, chifukwa cha malangizidwe awa, mungasankhe pakati pa anthu ena ofunafuna mtima wanu.


Wolemba: Elena Sukacheva-Il'inykh
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