Zochitika
Mwamuna amakopeka kwambiri ndi zochitika ndi malingaliro a mkazi. Kwa atsikana aang'ono, kupusa komanso ngakhale kukhala wopanda pake nthawi zambiri zimabisika ndi maonekedwe oopsa. Choncho, mawonekedwe okhawo sangathe kukhutiritsa munthu. Mnyamata akamakomana ndi munthu wamkulu, nthawi zonse adzakhala ndi chidwi. Adzatha kuphunzira zinthu zambiri zatsopano, komanso adzakhoza kuphunzira kuchokera ku zomwe zamuchitikira zomwe zingakhale zothandiza kwa iye m'moyo. Amuna nthawi zambiri amasangalala ndi kukambirana kokondweretsa. Msungwana wa msinkhu wake akhoza kungoyankhula za ma TV, zovala ndi zinthu zina zopusa. Mkazi wamkulu akhoza kupeza mutu wokondweretsa, komanso akufuna kumvetsera, chomwe chiri chofunikira kwambiri. Angaperekenso malangizo abwino komanso oyenera.
Akazi achikulire kale anali ndi ubale weniweni, amadziwa momwe angakhalire ngati munthu. Nthaŵi zambiri samangokhalira kukwiya kwambiri. Mkazi wamkulu amakhala ndi zokondweretsa komanso zofuna zake. Choncho, ngati mnyamata akufuna kudya madzulo ndi gulu la abwenzi, sangakonzekeretseni ndipo adzapeza chinachake choti achite. Mkazi wachikulire amadziwa, kuti mumalo ophatikizana muli miyala yamadzi pansi ndipo amatha kuwadutsa. Choncho, moyo ndi mkazi wamkulu ndi wowawa komanso wamtendere.
Mayi wokhwima amadziwa kupuma. Iye sangathe kuledzera kuti asadziwe kanthu, ndiyeno kuvina pamtengo. Akazi achikulire safuna kukhazikika nthawi zonse. Kuwonjezera pa maofesi a usiku, iwo ali ndi chidwi ndi masewero, masewera kapena ma concert a jazz. Mwamuna sayenera kuchititsidwa manyazi ndi mkazi wachikulire ndipo angathe kuuzidwa momasuka kwa abwenzi ake.
Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu posankha mkazi wamkulu wachikulire, ndizochitikira zake zogonana. Ndi mu ubale wotero kuti mnyamata angakhale mwamuna weniweni. Akazi achikulire amakhala omasuka, olimbika mtima komanso olimba mtima. Ali ndi mphamvu zokondwera ndi kugonana komanso angathe kuzipereka kwa wokondedwa wawo. Pa zophonya kapena zolephereka sizidzayang'ana. Akazi otero samazengereza kusonyeza thupi lawo ndipo ali okonzeka kuyesa zosiyanasiyana. Atsikana aang'ono, ngakhale kuyamba kumayambiriro a kugonana, sali okonda abwino. Mkazi wokhudzana ndi kugonana ali ndi zaka zoposa 30. Choncho, amayi achikulire amakopera amuna ambiri.
Mzimayi wa msinkhu wake nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi ana ndipo amadziwa zomwe ayenera kuchita kuti asawonekere. Ngati munthu ayamba kukumana ndi mtsikana, ndiye kuti nthawi zambiri pali mantha a mimba yosafuna. Komanso nthawi zambiri ndi funso laukwati ndi abambo. Ndi mayi wamkulu, nthawi izi zingapewe. Iwo samafuna sitampu mu pasipoti ndipo safuna ana.
Kudzidalira ndi kudziimira
Kawirikawiri mkazi wokhwima amaima molimba pamapazi ake, ali ndi ntchito yokhazikika ndi ndalama. Sagwira munthu yemwe ali ndi udindo pa moyo wake komanso chuma chake. Akazi achikulire amangodalira okha ndi mphamvu zawo. Mwamuna yemwe ali pachibwenzi chotero sayenera kuganizira nthawi zonse za ndalama komanso kulipira chilichonse.
Akazi achikulire nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi nyumba zokhalamo komanso mavuto ambiri am'nyumbamo amatha. Simuyenera kudandaula za malo a misonkhano komanso kukhala ndi moyo. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zonyansa. Akazi achikulire amafunitsitsa kuyankhulana, ubwenzi, chidwi, kuyamikira komanso kugonana mwachibadwa. Koma samasowa ndalama za munthu, zomwe sitinganene za achinyamata ndi osaphunzira.
Mu ubale wotero, wina safunikira kunena nthawi zonse mawu achikondi ndikutsimikizira maganizo awo. Akazi okhwima ali odzidalira okha ndipo safunikira. Sitidzatenga nthawi yaitali ndikukangana ndi munthu amene amamukonda. Mzimayi nthawi zonse amadziwa ngati amakonda mwamuna kapena ayi. Kulunjika kumakopanso mwamuna kwambiri.
Mkazi wamkuluyo ndi wanzeru mokwanira ndipo sangalole ufulu wa munthu. Pamaso pawo sipadzakhala zofunikira kudzidziyimira nokha pa sitepe iliyonse yomwe iwo amatenga ndi kuwonetsa nthawi zonse, mukuchita bizinesi ndi zomwe mukuchita. Ndi khalidwe ili la atsikana aang'ono omwe amachititsa kuti azigonana. Akazi achikulire safunikanso mnyamata kuti azungulira maola 24 pa tsiku. Alibe malingaliro opanda kanthu ndipo amadziwa kuti aliyense ali ndi zofooka ndipo ayenera kuwalolera. Choncho, kumanga ubale ndi amayi achikulire n'kosavuta komanso kumakhala bwino.
Chibwenzi chachikazi
Ngati mutayang'ana atsikana aang'ono, ndiye kuti ali ndi abwenzi ambiri. Nthaŵi yokwanira pakulankhulana pa foni kapena pa intaneti. Atsikana aang'ono amakondana kukumana ndi kutuluka nthawi zambiri. Malingaliro a abwenzi aakazi ndi ofunika kwambiri ku zizolowezi za wokondedwa. Zinthu zambiri, ngakhale abwenzi apamtima, nthawi zambiri amalankhula pakati pawo. Amuna ambiri izi zimakhumudwitsa kwambiri ndipo sizikugwirizana ndi inu.
Pali akazi ochepa kwambiri kuposa akazi, ndipo onse ndi enieni komanso amayesedwa nthawi zonse. Zosankha zonse zimapangidwa popanda ufulu popanda kukambirana ndi kukambirana. Anzako aakazi, ngakhale ngati sakukhutira ndi ubale wa mkazi wachikulire ndi mnyamata, iwo samatumikira.
Kusaganizira pang'ono
Akazi achikulire amadziwa momwe angachepetse nkhawa zawo, makamaka maganizo oipa. Atsikana achichepere kawirikawiri amakhala ndi chizoloŵezi chosautsa komanso kusadziletsa. Amadandaula za misomali yosweka kapena ngati wokondedwayo sanayankhe. Akazi achikulire amakonda mitsempha yambiri ndipo amayesa kuti asadandaule kachiwiri. Ngakhale panthawi yovuta amakayesetsa kukhala chete.
Akazi achikulire amadziwa kuyamikira nthawi yomwe akhala ndi mwamuna. Chisamaliro, chisamaliro ndi mphatso sizitengedwa mopepuka. Akazi oterewa amadziwa kuyamikira. Amayamikira malingaliro ndi kuyesetsa kuwatchinga momwe angathere.
Kukula kotheka kwa ubale pakati pa mkazi wachikulire ndi mnyamata
Mkazi wamkulu akhoza kukhala wotopa ndi ubale ndi mwana wamng'ono pakapita nthawi. Nthawi zonse kukhala wofunikira kwambiri ndi wanzeru. Mzimayi posachedwa adzadalira kwambiri.
Ubale ukhoza kuphatikizidwanso mothandizidwa ndi amuna. Mnyamata, kukula ndi kupeza chidziwitso, amayamba kuyang'ana moyo mosiyana. Choncho, pokhala ndi chidaliro chonse mwa iyemwini, angafune kukhala ndi ubale ndi atsikana aang'ono. Ndiponso, makolo a achinyamata, mwinamwake, adzakhala osiyana kwambiri ndi mkazi wamkulu. Iwo adzakhazikitsa mwana wawo ndikuyesera kuwalekanitsa m'njira zonse zotheka.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti kusiyana kwakukulu kwa msinkhu nthawi zambiri kumatopa nthawi yochepa. Kusiyanasiyana ndi zochitika, zizoloŵezi, maganizo kapena chikhalidwe cha anthu posachedwa kumakhudza kwenikweni.
Chikondi chosagwirizana ndi kugonjera kwa mibadwo yonse. Ziribe kanthu kusiyana kwa msinkhu, mungathe kumanga ubale wamphamvu ndi wokhalitsa.